{"id":80618,"date":"2020-06-24T10:09:27","date_gmt":"2020-06-24T10:09:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=80618"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:16:04","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:16:04","slug":"seja-suficientemente-corajoso-para-se-escolher-a-si-proprio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/seja-suficientemente-corajoso-para-se-escolher-a-si-proprio\/","title":{"rendered":"Seja corajosa o suficiente para se escolher a si pr\u00f3pria quando ele n\u00e3o o fizer"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos n\u00f3s j\u00e1 estivemos numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que a pessoa que amamos hesita em escolher-nos e voc\u00ea n\u00e3o \u00e9 exce\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que o homem que colocamos num pedestal can\u2019t make up his mind<\/a> about us, compares us with other girls or simply acts like he doesn\u2019t know what he wants.<\/p>\n

However, let\u2019s be real; other people\u2019s pain doesn\u2019t make yours any less strong.<\/p>\n

Pode ouvir falar de um milh\u00e3o de outras experi\u00eancias, mas n\u00e3o ser uma prioridade para o homem que sempre colocou em primeiro lugar \u00e9 doloroso e tem consequ\u00eancias.<\/p>\n

Well, I\u2019m not here to talk about him.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether he\u2019s been unfaithful, whether he treated you like his second choice, if you were this guy\u2019s last resort or if he refused to put a label on your relationship.<\/p>\n

Seja como for, o resultado final \u00e9 o mesmo: He didn\u2019t choose you over someone else, over his desire for freedom or over his urges.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"imagem<\/p>\n

Seja o que for que esteja em causa, a quest\u00e3o \u00e9 que ser rejeitado por algu\u00e9m que significa o mundo para si d\u00f3i muito.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s devastating and heartbreaking to think that you\u2019re not enough for him and that there is absolutely nothing you can do to change his mind.<\/p>\n

However, I\u2019m here to beg you n\u00e3o basear o seu pr\u00f3prio sentido de autoestima<\/a> on someone else\u2019s opinion, even if that someone is the person you care for so deeply.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m here to beg you not to see yourself through this douchebag\u2019s eyes<\/strong>. Aqui para vos pedir que vejam o vosso pr\u00f3prio valor, mesmo que ele n\u00e3o o tenha feito.<\/p>\n

Por favor, ama-te a ti pr\u00f3pria apesar da falta de amor que recebeste dele<\/strong>. Respeite-se a si pr\u00f3prio, apesar de ele nunca o ter feito.<\/p>\n

Most importantly, be brave enough to choose yourself when he doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Escolha a sua pr\u00f3pria felicidade, mesmo quando ele a deixa infeliz, e concentre-se na sua vida em vez de desperdi\u00e7ar o seu precioso tempo e energia a tentar que ele fa\u00e7a parte dela.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you\u2014having a stable romantic relationship is important. It\u2019s significant for your emotional and mental health and it can contribute to your overall happiness.<\/p>\n

No entanto, sabe o que \u00e9 ainda mais importante? A rela\u00e7\u00e3o que tem consigo pr\u00f3prio. De facto, os romances v\u00e3o e v\u00eam<\/strong>. You\u2019ll lose a lot of people throughout your life journey, whether you like it or not.<\/p>\n

No entanto, the relationship you have with yourself is the only one that isn\u2019t going anywhere. It\u2019s the only one you\u2019ll have to be a part of as long as you breathe.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Por isso, em vez de gastar toda a sua energia a tentar consertar algo que obviamente n\u00e3o pode ser consertado, concentre-se em fazer com que se sinta o melhor poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Concentre-se em tornar-se a melhor vers\u00e3o poss\u00edvel de si pr\u00f3pria e em tornar-se a mulher que est\u00e1 destinada a ser.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t give any more of your time to someone who doesn\u2019t deserve it. Stop putting effort into a relationship which is doomed to fail.<\/p>\n

P\u00e1ra de dar a este homem infinitas segundas oportunidades. N\u00e3o lhe d\u00ea mais oportunidades de come\u00e7ar a apreci\u00e1-la e de a tratar como merece.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, Come\u00e7a a tratar-te como esperas ser tratado.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Stop begging him to give you his undivided attention, while in the meantime you\u2019re settling for crumbs of it. Instead, dar a si pr\u00f3prio a aten\u00e7\u00e3o que tanto deseja.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pare de lhe pedir que a ame e ame-se a si pr\u00f3pria.<\/strong> Pare de esperar que ele a mime e aproveite todas as oportunidades que tem para se agradar a si pr\u00f3pria de todas as formas poss\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

Most importantly\u2014always choose the possibility of being happy on your own over being miserable with this amor sem convic\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> you\u2019ve been getting.<\/p>\n

Instead of spending more months or years trapped in the same place, waiting for a miracle which obviously won\u2019t ever come, set yourself free.<\/p>\n

Escapar das suas jaulas e abrir espa\u00e7o para um verdadeiro homem que tenha a capacidade de lhe dar o que quer e precisa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Entretanto, torne-se essa pessoa para si pr\u00f3prio<\/strong>. At\u00e9 que o amor da sua vida apare\u00e7a finalmente \u00e0 sua porta, aproveite a sua vida de solteiro e tire o melhor partido dela!<\/p>\n

\"Seja<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We\u2019ve all been in a situation where the person we love hesitates to choose us and you\u2019re no exception. In a situation where the man we put on a pedestal can\u2019t make up his mind about us, compares us with other girls or simply acts like he doesn\u2019t know what he wants. However, let\u2019s be…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":80628,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-80618","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-Brave-Enough-To-Choose-Yourself-When-He-Doesn\u2019t.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80618","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=80618"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80618\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/80628"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=80618"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=80618"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=80618"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}