Nothing will help; not romanticizing the conversations you had or talking to your friends who will look for the smallest signs of affection…<\/span><\/p>\n Don\u2019t feed your feelings with memories, it\u2019s only going to make things worse.<\/b><\/p>\n That\u2019s the worst feeling ever; the feeling like you\u2019re not enough for the person you love with all your heart and soul.<\/span><\/p>\n If they don\u2019t feel the same, there\u2019s nothing you can do.<\/span><\/p>\n There\u2019s no point in trying to change yourself to fit their needs or likes. Nobody can change themself completely and be happy and it doesn\u2019t guarantee you success.<\/b><\/p>\n If someone doesn\u2019t like you as you are, why would you like to spend your time with them? They\u2019re obviously not the right person for you.<\/span><\/p>\n There\u2019s no point in waiting for somebody to catch feelings for you.<\/b><\/p>\n Firstly, it\u2019s not likely that that will happen and secondly, it is degrading to wait for someone to decide you\u2019re lovable enough.<\/b><\/p>\n Nobody should settle for halfway love. Love is the one thing in life you don\u2019t settle for but genuinely and truly enjoy. It\u2019s what makes your life. <\/b><\/p>\n Love is an unpredictable feeling\u2014you never know when will it show up and when it\u2019s gone. It doesn\u2019t follow rules and it\u2019s not logic. You can\u2019t plan or predict love.<\/span><\/p>\n No entanto, o efeito do amor na nossa vida \u00e9 sempre enorme.<\/span><\/p>\n That\u2019s one thing people keep searching for their whole life, consciously or subconsciously.<\/span><\/p>\n It\u2019s funny how little it takes to fall in love and be completely immersed in another person and how long and painful the process of forgetting them is.<\/b><\/p>\n It\u2019s no wonder why many people just give up on love and close their hearts forever. When you give nothing but love but receive pain and rejection, it makes you want to protect your heart.<\/span><\/p>\n Qualquer sinal de defesa \u00e9 sinal de um cora\u00e7\u00e3o que j\u00e1 amou demasiado.<\/b><\/p>\n Estar na defensiva \u00e9 uma forma de nos protegermos da dor. Apesar da dor e da rejei\u00e7\u00e3o, eu defendo que se mantenha o cora\u00e7\u00e3o vulner\u00e1vel.<\/span><\/p>\n Porqu\u00ea?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n Acumular mais dor e rejeitar o amor acabar\u00e1 por resultar em mais dor. Por outro lado, um cora\u00e7\u00e3o vulner\u00e1vel tem mais probabilidades de encontrar e reconhecer um cora\u00e7\u00e3o semelhante, mesmo que demore algum tempo.<\/span><\/p>\n Keeping your heart open and vulnerable is believing in love. A love that doesn\u2019t judge and puts you second; a love that\u2019s pure and doesn\u2019t take advantage.<\/b><\/p>\n Quando experimentares esse tipo de amor, saber\u00e1s que tudo o que aconteceu antes n\u00e3o passou de uma prepara\u00e7\u00e3o. Todas as dores que sentires far\u00e3o de repente sentido.<\/span><\/p>\n You\u2019re worthy of the love that will always put you first and consider your feelings before anything else.<\/b><\/p>\n You\u2019re worthy of a man who will accept you as you are and make you love yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n True love will shed light on you and reveal the person you are at your best. Your true potential will shine through and even when you\u2019re not at your best, it will know that\u2019s just a momentary weakness that will pass.<\/span><\/p>\n Ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 perfeito, mas o amor genu\u00edno \u00e9 a coisa mais pr\u00f3xima da perfei\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 um compromisso de duas pessoas que se protegem mutuamente e se respeitam mais do que tudo no mundo.<\/span><\/p>\n When you\u2019re with the person who understands that, you won\u2019t feel the need to convince them.<\/span><\/p>\n Eles am\u00e1-lo-\u00e3o facilmente e a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o ser\u00e1 f\u00e1cil porque saber\u00e3o sempre o verdadeiro significado por detr\u00e1s de tudo o que fizerem.<\/span><\/p>\n You\u2019ll always have a safe place to come back to.<\/span><\/p>\n Don\u2019t lose hope because of one person who was busy with their own challenges but keep believing in love because of that one person who will make your life complete.<\/span><\/p>\n Como sempre, todas as coisas boas acontecem quando menos se espera e a melhor de todas ser\u00e1 o amor que merece.<\/span><\/p>\n No matter how harsh and devastating it may sound, it\u2019s true\u2014you can\u2019t love someone into loving you. You can wait and hope, you can try to impress them, but nothing will work if they don\u2019t feel the same. 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