{"id":81015,"date":"2020-06-11T07:45:20","date_gmt":"2020-06-11T07:45:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81015"},"modified":"2022-01-19T15:52:47","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T15:52:47","slug":"a-relacao-epistolar-traz-de-volta-o-romance-da-velha-guarda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-relacao-epistolar-traz-de-volta-o-romance-da-velha-guarda\/","title":{"rendered":"Rela\u00e7\u00e3o epistolar: 6 raz\u00f5es para trazer de volta o romance \u00e0 moda antiga"},"content":{"rendered":"

Numa \u00e9poca em que viajar era considerado um luxo ou um empreendimento perigoso, a troca de cartas era o principal meio de comunica\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

Amigos, colegas, familiares e namorados esperavam dias ou mesmo meses para receber uma resposta \u00e0 sua carta.<\/span><\/p>\n

And that’s how the term <\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o epistolar<\/b> ganhou vida. \u00c9 uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que se comunica com algu\u00e9m atrav\u00e9s de <\/b>reda\u00e7\u00e3o de cartas<\/b><\/a>que \u00e9 uma verdadeira arte em si mesma. <\/b><\/p>\n

Now, if you think you’ve never been in such a relationship, consider this: <\/span>As mensagens de texto e as conversas atrav\u00e9s das redes sociais s\u00e3o a vers\u00e3o moderna de um <\/i><\/b>rela\u00e7\u00e3o epistolar<\/i><\/b>. So, I bet you’ve been in one, right?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Passou horas e horas a partilhar os seus pensamentos e sentimentos mais profundos com o seu <\/span>amigo por correspond\u00eancia<\/span> and the biggest advantage is that you didn’t have to wait for days, weeks or months for them to reply; they would literally do it within seconds.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gostamos de pensar que isto \u00e9 uma vantagem, mas ser\u00e1 que \u00e9 mesmo assim? <\/b><\/p>\n

Os principais ingredientes de uma vindima <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o epistolar<\/span> s\u00e3o <\/span>ANTECIPA\u00c7\u00c3O E EXCITA\u00c7\u00c3O.<\/b><\/p>\n

Given that you don’t know when you will receive a response, you spend a great amount of time contemplating the content of their letter. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sente-se uma excita\u00e7\u00e3o total desde o dia em que se envia a carta at\u00e9 ao dia em que se recebe uma resposta. Caso precise de ser mais convencido, aqui est\u00e1 uma lista de raz\u00f5es leg\u00edtimas pelas quais devemos trazer de volta o romance \u00e0 moda antiga!<\/span><\/p>\n

6 raz\u00f5es para reavivar a arte perdida de escrever cartas<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

1. It’s much more sentimental and romantic<\/h2>\n

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“Hi, what’s up?”<\/span><\/i> Raise your hand if you have ever been irritated by this generic question. I’ll stop writing for a second to raise my hand first because I surely have been frustrated not once but multiple times. <\/span><\/p>\n

Now think about what you usually respond to this with. It’s probably: <\/span>“Nothing,”<\/span><\/i> ou algo do g\u00e9nero. Isto \u00e9 que s\u00e3o conversas profundas, significativas e modernas! <\/span><\/p>\n

Joking aside, there’s actually nothing surprising about, <\/span>“Hi, what’s up?”<\/span><\/i> statements because when you have the ability to write to each other 24\/7, of course you’re going to write the first thing that comes to mind. (And some vintage souls like me get irritated by it, while others don’t.)<\/span><\/p>\n

Agora, imagine que tem uma folha de papel em branco \u00e0 sua frente. O que \u00e9 que escreveria? Come\u00e7aria com algo do g\u00e9nero, <\/span>“Yo, what you’ve been up to?”<\/span><\/i> Claro que n\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

A prepara\u00e7\u00e3o para escrever uma carta requer, na verdade, um pouco de brainstorming e de reflex\u00e3o sobre todas as coisas e sentimentos que gostaria de partilhar com a pessoa especial.<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s why letters are so much more sentimental and romantic! <\/span><\/p>\n

Recentemente, vi um filme rom\u00e2ntico fant\u00e1stico <\/span>Brooklyn<\/span><\/i> (onde um casal vintage troca <\/span>cartas de amor<\/span>) e fiquei verdadeiramente hipnotizada pela beleza do romance vintage.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mandei uma mensagem ao meu <\/span>amigo por correspond\u00eancia<\/span> para lhe dizer que gostava de estar numa <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica<\/span>,<\/span> troca de um <\/span>s\u00e9rie de cartas<\/span> e ficar pedrado com o <\/span>epistolar<\/span> modo de vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Uma resposta escrita no <\/span>forma de uma carta<\/span> \u00e9 dez vezes mais intenso e sentimental do que uma resposta instant\u00e2nea atrav\u00e9s de uma rede social.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. No stressing about \u2018seen\u2019<\/h2>\n

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How many times have you witnessed someone reading your message and then leaving you waiting for their response? The worst of all is that you know they read it, because it says \u2018seen\u2019. <\/span><\/p>\n

I swear to God, there’s nothing more annoying than this. It instantly triggers you to overthink everything and you get convinced that you’ve probably insulted them somehow and that’s why they’re not replying.<\/span><\/p>\n

Constantly worrying about this and similar modern media situations is really frustrating and that’s why <\/b>reda\u00e7\u00e3o de cartas<\/b> pedras! <\/b><\/p>\n

Once you write and send a letter to your special someone, you certainly won’t worry about things like \u2018seen\u2019 unless they invent some kind of tracking device that will send you a message when the recipient starts reading it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por esta raz\u00e3o, as amizades medi\u00e1ticas modernas s\u00e3o dif\u00edceis de manter, ao passo que <\/span>amizades epistolares<\/span> s\u00e3o uma hist\u00f3ria completamente diferente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Imagine se um <\/span>bom amigo<\/span><\/a> reads your message but doesn’t respond, only to find out that they responded to some other mutual friend.<\/span><\/p>\n

You would instantly feel disappointed, thinking you’re not a priority. Luckily, that doesn’t happen when it comes to the <\/span>palavra escrita<\/span> em <\/span>forma epistolar<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Your friend or romantic partner could have tons of letters on their desk and you’d never know whose letter they read first. Perhaps they read yours first or perhaps not.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mais uma vez, esta \u00e9 a verdadeira beleza do mist\u00e9rio e da antecipa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Demonstra esfor\u00e7o<\/h2>\n

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Texting someone while holding your phone in one hand and a sandwich in the other doesn’t really count for effort, right?<\/span><\/p>\n

I mean, we’re impressed by the ability to multitask but this doesn’t show real devotion or effort when it comes to <\/span>casos amorosos<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, encontrar algum tempo para escrever uma carta comovente \u00e9 uma hist\u00f3ria completamente diferente, porque requer mais do que entrar no sistema e escrever a primeira coisa que lhe vem \u00e0 cabe\u00e7a. <\/span><\/p>\n

Para escrever cartas, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio encontrar um peda\u00e7o de papel (de prefer\u00eancia decorado com um padr\u00e3o especial), uma caneta, inspira\u00e7\u00e3o e, acima de tudo, TEMPO. <\/span><\/p>\n

In times of hectic lifestyles, we often forget the importance of devoting our time to our loved ones. We want to finish everything in the fastest way possible and we don’t care about anything else. <\/span><\/p>\n

Enquanto estamos concentrados em conseguir mais e mais, esquecemo-nos de parar por um momento e de estar gratos por tudo o que j\u00e1 temos.<\/span><\/p>\n

E haver\u00e1 melhor maneira de fazer algu\u00e9m sentir-se especial do que dizer-lhe que dedicou tempo a escrever essa carta?<\/span><\/p>\n

Investir tempo significa investir-se a si pr\u00f3prio, o que demonstra o esfor\u00e7o m\u00e1ximo. E estar disposto a fazer um esfor\u00e7o \u00e9 uma das qualidades mais desej\u00e1veis que algu\u00e9m pode ter.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span>40 Emocional <\/span>Cartas de amor<\/span> Para ele, que lhe vai derreter o cora\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

4. Cria antecipa\u00e7\u00e3o e entusiasmo<\/h2>\n

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When we know that a person will reply to us as soon as they read our message, this doesn’t leave us much space for anticipation or excitement. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes they reply the same second you text them, sometimes it takes a few minutes or hours, but in the end, you know you’ll get the reply that day or the next day.<\/span><\/p>\n

Como j\u00e1 referi no in\u00edcio, <\/span>reda\u00e7\u00e3o de cartas<\/span> is totally different from casual writing. It creates anticipation because you don’t know how long it will take for them to reply to you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Depois de enviar a carta<\/a>, you can’t help but think about every word you’ve written and imagine their facial expression once they start reading it, too.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes these pictures are so vivid, making you feel as if they’ve already read the letter in front of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Apart from contemplating their reaction to your letter, you also can’t help but think about their reply to everything you’ve written.<\/span><\/p>\n

You have many different potential replies in your head and you still can’t stop creating more of them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Once you finally receive a letter back and hold it in your hands\u2014sweet Lord!<\/span><\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, recusa-se a abri-lo (sobretudo se houver pessoas \u00e0 sua volta) porque, ao l\u00ea-lo na presen\u00e7a de outras pessoas, teria a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de que elas tamb\u00e9m o estavam a ler consigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

You have to find a secluded place where you’ll feel safe to smile or cry once you start absorbing their every word. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Depois, apercebemo-nos de que, de todas as coisas que esper\u00e1vamos que escrevessem, na realidade escreveram algo totalmente diferente; algo dez vezes mais espantoso e comovente do que poder\u00edamos ter imaginado!<\/span><\/p>\n

5. A escrita de cartas ajuda reduzir o stress<\/a><\/h2>\n

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We already listed one thing that makes texting stressful and that is the famous \u2018seen\u2019. <\/span><\/p>\n

Outras coisas que tornam as actividades de envio de mensagens de texto uma experi\u00eancia stressante s\u00e3o olhar constantemente para o pequeno ecr\u00e3 do telem\u00f3vel e levar o telem\u00f3vel para todo o lado (incluindo a casa de banho). <\/span><\/p>\n

And the most annoying of all: texting sounds (especially when you’re busy with something that requires your full attention). <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando combinadas, todas estas coisas aumentam os seus n\u00edveis de stress numa base di\u00e1ria, enquanto que <\/span>reda\u00e7\u00e3o de cartas<\/span> ajuda a reduzi-lo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Poder\u00e1 perguntar-se de que forma \u00e9 que escrever uma carta pode aliviar o stress? <\/span>Bem, escrever uma carta significa premir o bot\u00e3o de pausa do mundo real, das obriga\u00e7\u00f5es, das tarefas e assim por diante. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

When you’re sitting down looking at that piece of paper in front of you and thinking about converting your deepest thoughts into words, you’re doing something creative and inspiring.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tal como cantar, dan\u00e7ar e outras actividades, escrever tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 uma atividade que ajuda a melhorar o humor.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you’re focused on creating something, you forget about all your worries and negative things that drain you on a daily basis.<\/span><\/p>\n

At the same time, you’re also making another person feel truly special. The fact that you’re doing something special for your loved one is enough to lift your spirits. <\/span><\/p>\n

6. As cartas s\u00e3o uma prova tang\u00edvel do nosso afeto<\/h2>\n

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Sempre que envio uma mensagem ao meu <\/span>amigo por correspond\u00eancia<\/span> e me dizem algo querido, engra\u00e7ado ou rom\u00e2ntico, tenho de fazer uma captura de ecr\u00e3 para me poder lembrar mais tarde ou sempre que me sinto em baixo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Before, I used to scroll through the entire conversation and oftentimes I would press \u2018like\u2019 by accident or something like that. <\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t think I need to explain how awkward it is for me to press \u2018like\u2019 on something that was written days or weeks ago.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eles saberiam imediatamente que eu passei metade do dia \u00e0 procura desse objeto espec\u00edfico <\/span>mensagem de texto<\/span><\/a>, which made me feel as if I had no life whatsoever. And that’s why letters are so much more practical!<\/span><\/p>\n

If you’re a re-reader like me and you like to save proof of their affection for you, letters are the way to go. They are tangible proof of our affection and that’s what makes them all the more special.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pode segurar uma carta nos seus bra\u00e7os at\u00e9 amanh\u00e3. Pode rel\u00ea-la sem ter de fazer uma captura de ecr\u00e3 pr\u00e9via ou percorrer a sua conversa de chat durante uma eternidade. <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s like holding the essence of their affection for you in your hands. By absorbing every word of it, you become attached to their unique handwriting and you could recognize it in a sea of other letters. <\/span><\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing sweeter than having a tangible collection of letters for your own personal <\/span>romance epistolar<\/span> que ser\u00e1 lido e relido durante uma eternidade.<\/span><\/p>\n

Embrulhar tudo<\/h2>\n

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Espero ter conseguido retratar a beleza de uma <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o epistolar<\/span> and that you’ll at least give it a chance. After all, an old-school romance shouldn’t be forgotten. <\/span><\/p>\n

Devemos alimentar esse tipo de amor vintage sempre que tivermos a oportunidade de o fazer, tal como fizeram Jean-Paul Sartre e Simone de Beauvoir.<\/span><\/p>\n

Os seus famosos <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o epistolar<\/span> estava cheio de cartas maravilhosas e inspiradoras, como esta de Beauvoir: <\/span><\/p>\n

“Goodbye, your self, my life\u2014I love you. The weather\u2019s filthy\u2014my whole room\u2019s shaken by the wind, you\u2019d think it was going to turn upside down. My tenderest kisses, beloved little being\u2014I dreamt about you.” <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/span> Top 105 Romantic \u2018Thinking Of You\u2019 Quotes For Him And Her<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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