{"id":81028,"date":"2020-07-09T11:33:51","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T11:33:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81028"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:05:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:05:43","slug":"nem-todas-as-viagens-sao-para-encontrar-o-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nem-todas-as-viagens-sao-para-encontrar-o-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"Nem todas as viagens s\u00e3o para encontrar o amor, \u00e0s vezes \u00e9 para se encontrar a si pr\u00f3prio"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"<\/span>Qual \u00e9 o nosso objetivo de vida<\/span><\/i>?\u201d This is a question that bothered me for a long time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Depois de ter uma vida amorosa t\u00e3o turbulenta, especialmente depois do fim da minha \u00faltima rela\u00e7\u00e3o, compreendi finalmente a resposta certa.<\/span><\/p>\n

Antes de<\/i><\/b>Pensei que <\/span>a vida era uma viagem intermin\u00e1vel \u00e0 procura do amor<\/i><\/b>.<\/b> De certa forma, isso \u00e9 verdade. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quer queiramos admiti-lo ou n\u00e3o, todos n\u00f3s passamos pela vida \u00e0 procura de algu\u00e9m que amemos e que seja capaz de nos retribuir esse amor.<\/span><\/p>\n

I know that I’m not the only one who has felt that way. It seems like it’s our only life goal; to find someone who’ll love and cherish us. To find someone to spend the rest of our life with.<\/span><\/p>\n

The truth is, we are afraid of being single. We’re scared of growing old alone without a partner to take care of us.<\/span><\/p>\n

Uma coisa de que nos esquecemos muitas vezes \u00e9 que <\/b>ser solteiro n\u00e3o \u00e9<\/b><\/a> o mesmo que estar sozinho. <\/b>And if you’re feeling lonely, starting a new relationship won’t help you.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Se quisermos viver uma vida plena, temos de nos apaixonar por n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios antes de nos apaixonarmos por outra pessoa. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso construir e manter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel consigo pr\u00f3prio antes de decidir iniciar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com outra pessoa.<\/span><\/p>\n

Otherwise, no matter how much you love someone or someone loves you, you’ll never be completely happy because you’ll always have a feeling that something is missing.<\/span><\/p>\n

Truly, something will be missing. The most important part of your relationship will be missing. Without enough self-love, you’ll never be able to fully enjoy any relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

O facto \u00e9 que <\/span>most people think that the feeling of loneliness is connected to our love life. It’s not!<\/i><\/b> Our relationship status doesn’t affect that at all.<\/span><\/p>\n

You should never feel lonely because you’re always in such great company. You always have yourself. If you learn to love yourself, you’ll see that I am right.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If you find yourself, if you learn to love yourself, you’ll see how your life will change completely. I guarantee it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Falo por experi\u00eancia pr\u00f3pria, <\/span>Estava cega e constantemente \u00e0 procura de amor e isso levou-me a muitas escolhas erradas.<\/b> Choices from which I’m still suffering consequences.<\/span><\/p>\n

Levou-me a muitas desilus\u00f5es. Levou-me a partir o meu pr\u00f3prio cora\u00e7\u00e3o tantas vezes. Deixou-me com tantas cicatrizes.<\/span><\/p>\n

Apaixonar-me por mim pr\u00f3prio fez-me perceber que tamb\u00e9m tenho de amar e <\/b>abra\u00e7ar todos aqueles<\/b><\/a> scars. They are also a part of me and they made me the person I am today. I’m proud of all my scars.<\/b><\/p>\n

I tried so hard to find someone who would love me no matter what and I was entering into new relationships too quickly, hoping that it\u2019d finally be the real thing.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nunca foi. Todas essas rela\u00e7\u00f5es foram um fracasso. Estavam condenadas desde o in\u00edcio. Foi tudo por causa da falta de amor-pr\u00f3prio.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

People say that you’ll find true and pure love only once you stop searching for it. I agree with it but I would only add to this: ‘and once you find love within yourself first’.<\/span><\/p>\n

A vida ganhou um significado totalmente novo para mim no dia em que deixei de perseguir o amor e comecei a prestar mais aten\u00e7\u00e3o ao meu amor-pr\u00f3prio.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t need to seek love when love is always there. <\/span>O amor est\u00e1 dentro de ti<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

This doesn’t mean that you’ll never find someone to ride this journey of life with, it just means that you don’t have to force it. When the time is right, true love will find you.<\/b><\/p>\n

Qual \u00e9 o objetivo da vida para si? <\/span><\/i>If it’s finding your soulmate and true love, then you should change it before it gets too late.<\/span><\/p>\n

Antes que fiques magoado e com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido. Encontra-te a ti pr\u00f3prio e apaixona-te pelo ser humano belo, ador\u00e1vel e inteligente que \u00e9s.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Nem<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cWhat is our life purpose?\u201d This is a question that bothered me for a long time. After having such a turbulent love life, especially after my last relationship ended, I finally understood the right answer. Before, I thought that life was a never-ending journey of searching for love. In a way, that is true. Whether…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":81034,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81028","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Not-Every-Journey-Is-About-Finding-Love-Sometimes-It\u2019s-About-Finding-Yourself.png",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81028","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81028"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81028\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81034"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81028"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81028"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81028"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}