{"id":8103,"date":"2020-05-07T11:50:21","date_gmt":"2020-05-07T11:50:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8103"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:45:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:45:45","slug":"finalmente-deixar-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/finalmente-deixar-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"This Is Me Finally Letting Go"},"content":{"rendered":"

Isto \u00e9 eu finalmente a deixar de me importar com n\u00f3s os dois.<\/strong> Finalmente desisti da ca\u00e7a aos gambozinos. Resolvi tantas coisas que n\u00e3o estavam claras durante muito tempo.<\/p>\r\n

I\u2019m so tired of being the only one who is investing in our relationship and always going the extra mile to make everything work. I\u2019m so tired of thinking and acting for the both of us.<\/a><\/p>\r\n

I didn\u2019t sign up for this kind of relationship. This is something I never wanted and definitely something I never expected to happen to me.<\/p>\r\n

Pensava que era mais esperto do que isso, mas, afinal, nunca se sabe o que nos espera no futuro.<\/p>\r\n

Isto sou eu a agir finalmente.<\/strong> Isto sou eu a aperceber-me que s\u00f3 h\u00e1 uma vida para viver. De repente, apercebi-me de que s\u00f3 temos uma oportunidade para alcan\u00e7ar tudo o que queremos.<\/p>\r\n

Por isso, se algu\u00e9m se interp\u00f5e no seu caminho em vez de o fazer lutar por mais e torn\u00e1-lo melhor, tem de se ir embora. N\u00e3o o est\u00e3o a fazer feliz e n\u00e3o est\u00e3o a trabalhar para si.<\/p>\r\n

I realized I won\u2019t waste my only chance of living the kind of life I want to live. I want everything and I won\u2019t let you stop me from getting it.<\/p>\r\n

The truth is, you really don\u2019t deserve me. Not even a bit.<\/p>\r\n

Isto sou eu a parar finalmente de tentar.<\/strong> I\u2019m tired of making excuses for you every time you fuck things up.<\/p>\r\n

I\u2019m done fooling myself into thinking you won\u2019t be making the same mistakes over and over again. I\u2019m done trying to approve everything you do, just because I love you.<\/p>\r\n

You won\u2019t be getting any second chances. You\u2019ve fucked up so many times.<\/p>\r\n

Esgotaste-me a mim e \u00e0 minha for\u00e7a, que investi em salvar-nos e em tentar fazer de n\u00f3s algo que durasse para sempre.<\/p>\r\n

I don\u2019t want to be the bigger person anymore. I want to stick to what I believe in and that is that I don\u2019t want or need you anymore.<\/p>\r\n

I don\u2019t want to continuously swallow my pride and bend over backward for you. I\u2019ve been doing that for so long and I\u2019ve been getting absolutely nothing back. Well, not anymore.<\/p>\r\n

Finalmente percebi o que quero e isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 um rela\u00e7\u00e3o unilateral<\/a>. Mere\u00e7o muito mais do que isso e hei-de l\u00e1 chegar. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n

Mas a primeira coisa na minha agenda \u00e9 livrar-me de ti.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

\"This<\/p>\r\n

Isto sou eu a ver finalmente o teu verdadeiro eu.<\/strong> I was blinded by love. I couldn\u2019t see things straight.<\/p>\r\n

Mas, agora que acordei do sonho que eu pr\u00f3prio dirigi, o nevoeiro desapareceu. Posso ver claramente e sei quem realmente \u00e9s.<\/p>\r\n

Consigo ver atrav\u00e9s de todas as suas mentiras convincentes e do seu engano impec\u00e1vel.<\/p>\r\n

Those empty words that come out of your mouth don\u2019t mean anything to me. Everything you say or do is nothing but a perfectly-constructed lie.<\/p>\r\n

When I first met you, you pretended to be something that you\u2019re not. It was all a carefully made-up game only to charm me and to make me fall in love with you.<\/p>\r\n

Foi a melhor atua\u00e7\u00e3o que fizeram at\u00e9 agora e comprei-o.<\/p>\r\n

Isto sou eu a recuperar finalmente algum respeito por mim pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong> Isto sou eu a defender-me finalmente. Isto sou eu a p\u00f4r um ponto final no facto de seres desrespeitoso e pouco apreciativo.<\/p>\r\n

I finally realized that you will never be there for me. You won\u2019t be celebrating when I accomplish something. You won\u2019t be my shoulder to cry on when I fail.<\/p>\r\n

You will always be somewhere in the middle and I don\u2019t need that. I need someone who will be there at any moment of my life, whether a happy or sad one.<\/p>\r\n

Preciso de algu\u00e9m que me fa\u00e7a acreditar em mim e que me obrigue a lutar por aquilo em que acredito e que quero. Preciso de algu\u00e9m que me cuide e que ajude a minha autoestima a crescer em vez de desaparecer.<\/p>\r\n

This is me finally making peace with the fact that I\u2019m so much more than you deserve.<\/strong> Agora sei o que quero.<\/p>\r\n

I want real unconditional love and you\u2019re not the one who can give it to me. I want a good morning text just because someone remembered me.<\/p>\r\n

Quero algu\u00e9m que nunca se canse de falar comigo ou de me ouvir quando tenho um problema.<\/p>\r\n

Quero algu\u00e9m com quem me sinta \u00e0 vontade para partilhar os meus segredos, os meus medos e as minhas aspira\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\r\n

Quero algu\u00e9m que ganhe a minha confian\u00e7a incondicional. Quero algu\u00e9m para o resto da minha vida. Infelizmente, esse algu\u00e9m n\u00e3o \u00e9s tu.<\/p>\r\n

This is me finally realizing that I don\u2019t want to waste any more of my time on you or any other guy like you. I\u2019d rather be single and wait for the one I know I want to spend the rest of my life with.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

This is me finally giving up on anyone who makes me feel like I\u2019m hard to love. I\u2019m not, it\u2019s you who never learned how to love me.<\/p>\r\n

But it\u2019s even better that way because we never belonged with each other.<\/p>\r\n

This is me finally taking control over my life and my happiness. This is me deciding I\u2019m worth so much more than you were willing to admit and this is me letting go of um homem emocionalmente imaturo<\/a> – tu.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n

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