{"id":81060,"date":"2020-07-09T11:32:33","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T11:32:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81060"},"modified":"2022-06-29T15:17:07","modified_gmt":"2022-06-29T15:17:07","slug":"sinais-de-que-esta-apenas-a-brincar-contigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-esta-apenas-a-brincar-contigo\/","title":{"rendered":"12 sinais de que ele est\u00e1 apenas brincando com voc\u00ea e a melhor estrat\u00e9gia para resolver a situa\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

H\u00e1 maneiras de reconhecer um jogador. De facto, ele raramente tenta esconder quem \u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019s so confident you won\u2019t leave him that he doesn\u2019t even care if you know he\u2019s stringing you along. <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, no more, because you coming here means you\u2019re obviously suspecting something is wrong in your relationship. Fortunately, we\u2019re here to help you find out if that\u2019s true and how to fix it.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. He says he\u2019ll call but he doesn\u2019t<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019re expecting his call but it never comes. He tells you he\u2019s going to call you later to make plans but he doesn\u2019t. <\/span><\/p>\n

Not thinking to call you, constantly forgetting to do so, or simply not wanting to talk to you at a certain moment definitely means you\u2019re not a priority in his life right now.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. He\u2019s late all the time and doesn\u2019t even call to let you know<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

O facto de ele n\u00e3o respeitar o seu tempo \u00e9 um sinal claro de que o seu bem-estar n\u00e3o lhe diz respeito. <\/span><\/p>\n

There are many reasons for someone to be late that cannot be controlled, but if he\u2019s late all the time and doesn\u2019t even make an effort to let you know so you can rearrange your time, then he clearly doesn\u2019t care about you enough.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. He doesn\u2019t show up at all (and doesn\u2019t call) when you have plans to see him<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You make plans to see him and he\u2019s a no-show. He doesn\u2019t even call to tell you something happened that stopped him from coming.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is something that\u2019s unforgivable, except if he has an incredibly good reason (such as lying in the hospital bed, unconscious.)<\/span><\/p>\n

4. H\u00e1 regras sobre quando \u00e9 que se podem ver uns aos outros<\/b><\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

If there are only certain times when he can see you, there\u2019s something going on.<\/span><\/p>\n

His weekly schedule may be pretty consistent, so he might usually have more free time on Wednesdays or on the weekends, but if you two exclusively meet on a certain day, he\u2019s definitely keeping his time for something\/someone else.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is a clear sign he\u2019s still playing the field and isn\u2019t at all committed to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Sabes muito menos sobre ele do que ele sabe sobre ti<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Yes, many guys simply don\u2019t talk much, but if you don\u2019t know any details about his job, family, childhood, hobbies\u2026 he is definitely hiding something, or simply doesn\u2019t want to get too close to you.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he gives you vague answers about these topics, he doesn\u2019t plan on getting too attached to you, so watch out. He\u2019s letting you talk about yourself because that\u2019s his game, not his honest intention to meet you.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. \u2026or you know way more about him than does about you<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

The good thing about this is that this guy isn\u2019t much of a player, although he\u2019s definitely not interested in anyone but himself. <\/span><\/p>\n

If he can\u2019t stop talking about his own life, giving you no time to tell him anything about yourself, there\u2019s your red flag right there. He\u2019s not out to hurt you, but he will. <\/span><\/p>\n

7. His friends don\u2019t seem to know he has a girlfriend<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

If he doesn\u2019t invite you to spend time with his friends once in a while, it\u2019s a clear sign he\u2019s not so certain about his relationship with you<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Still, there\u2019s an even worse scenario: He might be okay with you meeting his friends and joining him at parties, but never specifically introduces you as his girlfriend. Ouch.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Conhecer a sua fam\u00edlia est\u00e1 fora de quest\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Meeting someone\u2019s family is a big deal, sure. This is not a red flag if you\u2019ve only been dating for a short while. <\/span><\/p>\n

But if you\u2019ve spent quite a few months together and there isn\u2019t a mention of meeting his family, there\u2019s something to talk about.<\/span><\/p>\n

Check with him first, though. He might have a good reason for not wanting you to meet them \u2013 there might be something going on in his family. Ask him for sincerity. Otherwise, it\u2019s a mighty big red flag.<\/span><\/p>\n

9. Nunca se sabe nada sobre o seu paradeiro<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You never know where he is, who he\u2019s with, or when he\u2019s coming back. If he doesn\u2019t want to keep you in tune with his schedule, it means he\u2019s not willing to commit to you or your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

This thing where he constantly keeps you guessing is another red flag that tells you he\u2019s keeping his options open. This is definitely not a path to a healthy relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

10. Ele nunca menciona quaisquer planos para o futuro que o incluam<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

If he never, ever mentions any plans with you in them, he invariably doesn\u2019t see you in his future. People who are in love and committed make plans to spend time with each other on weekends, holidays, etc.<\/span><\/p>\n

If there\u2019s absolutely none of that in your relationship, your guy is not a keeper, nor does he want to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

11. Ele tem muitas amigas mulheres<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Sure, a guy can have a female friend, but\u2026 If he has a bunch of amigas<\/a> and spends a lot of time with them, that is a red flag he\u2019s playing you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Honestly, a truly platonic male-female friendship is not something that\u2019s seen very often, and a platonic friendship with many girls is almost impossible.<\/span><\/p>\n

Guys in committed relationships have an issue of finding enough time to divide between their friends and girlfriend \u2013 why would he choose to spend that time with another woman (women)?<\/span><\/p>\n

12. You feel like you\u2019re too needy for your relationship to work<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This one is the biggest red flag of them all. If you\u2019re starting to fall into the mental trap of thinking everything is your fault, you\u2019re off to an awful journey with him.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve started thinking that you\u2019re simply asking for too much and you should be less needy, it\u2019s time to take a good look at your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

There\u2019s no place for “If I only had more patience, he\u2019d be better” or “If I only asked for less, he\u2019d feel less trapped” kind of thoughts in healthy relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, o que fazer em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a um tipo que nos engana?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 a estrat\u00e9gia mais simples e mais eficaz que algu\u00e9m lhe pode dar:<\/span><\/p>\n

Passo 1: <\/b>N\u00e3o te culpes a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/span><\/p>\n

Passo 2:<\/b> N\u00e3o te alteres a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/span><\/p>\n

Passo 3:<\/b> Deixem-no e sigam em frente.<\/span><\/p>\n

Passo 4:<\/b> Nunca penses que o podias ter mudado.<\/span><\/p>\n

Passo 5:<\/b> Aplique a regra de n\u00e3o contacto, porque assim que lhe der a provar do seu pr\u00f3prio rem\u00e9dio, ele pode come\u00e7ar a pensar que cometeu um erro ao perd\u00ea-la e tentar rastejar de volta para a sua vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, guess what? He did make a mistake and there\u2019s no way you\u2019re having him back because you know that he\u2019s only going to hurt you again!<\/span><\/p>\n

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There are ways to recognize a player. As a matter of fact, he rarely even tries to hide who he is. He\u2019s so confident you won\u2019t leave him that he doesn\u2019t even care if you know he\u2019s stringing you along.  Well, no more, because you coming here means you\u2019re obviously suspecting something is wrong in…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":81061,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81060","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/12-Signs-He\u2019s-Just-Playing-You-And-The-Ultimate-Strategy-To-Fix-The-Situation.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81060","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81060"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81060\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81061"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81060"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81060"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81060"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}