{"id":81079,"date":"2020-07-09T11:31:31","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T11:31:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81079"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:17:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:17:53","slug":"sinais-de-que-ele-esta-a-usar-te-para-ultrapassar-a-separacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-ele-esta-a-usar-te-para-ultrapassar-a-separacao\/","title":{"rendered":"9 Sinais infal\u00edveis de que ele est\u00e1 usando voc\u00ea para superar o t\u00e9rmino do namoro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Terminar uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 dif\u00edcil, independentemente da decis\u00e3o de quem a tomou. Ultrapassar uma rutura \u00e9 ainda mais dif\u00edcil.<\/span><\/p>\n

In the period after a breakup, we all feel so strange. There are a lot of mixed feelings and that’s why we can’t think clearly and deal with our emotions in a healthy way.<\/span><\/p>\n

Infelizmente, algumas pessoas escolhem <\/b>da pior maneira poss\u00edvel<\/b><\/a> para lidar com uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n

Lan\u00e7am-se numa nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o demasiado cedo, na esperan\u00e7a de que isso os ajude a esquecer a ex. Isto \u00e9 especialmente verdade no caso dos homens.<\/span><\/p>\n

They have their men\u2019s pride and that’s why they won’t allow anyone to see them suffering. They want to show their exes that they aren’t hurt and that they can move on.<\/span><\/p>\n

What they don’t understand is that they lie to themselves that way, too.<\/b><\/p>\n

If your man does any of these things, then it means that he isn’t being honest with you about his feelings because he’s actually only dating you to get over his ex.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Ele disse-lhe que teve uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o dif\u00edcil<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He’ll only tell you the story of his breakup once because he doesn’t want to speak about it much. His ex probably really hurt him and he doesn’t want you to think that he is still suffering because of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

The breakup is kind of his weak spot because he just can’t make peace with the fact that he was betrayed or left behind.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Ele avan\u00e7ou demasiado depressa<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Even though he had such a rough breakup, he started dating you only a few days later. It’s not possible for him to have moved on so fast.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ele deve pensar em tudo o que aconteceu e lidar com os seus sentimentos contradit\u00f3rios para poder seguir em frente corretamente. E a \u00fanica forma de o fazer \u00e9 estar sozinho.<\/span><\/p>\n

Seguir em frente demasiado cedo s\u00f3 o vai tornar amargo ou deix\u00e1-lo com alguns problemas de confian\u00e7a.<\/b> That’s why you’ll never be able to have a healthy relationship with him.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Ele est\u00e1 a mostrar-se demasiado entusiasmado com a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He wants to spend all of his free time with you. Unfortunately, this isn\u2019t because he enjoys spending time with you. It’s because he is afraid of being alone in case his true feelings come to the surface.<\/span><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 sempre a enviar-te mensagens. Planeia algo novo para si todos os dias. Surpreende-a no seu local de trabalho. Basicamente, tenta estar sempre consigo s\u00f3 para se convencer de que j\u00e1 seguiu em frente.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Est\u00e1 sempre a falar da ex.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Sempre que v\u00e3o a um restaurante onde ele foi com a ex, ou v\u00eaem um filme que eles viram, ou fazem qualquer coisa que eles fizeram antes, ele menciona isso.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Ele compara-a constantemente com a ex<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No matter what you do or wear, it always reminds him of his ex-girlfriend. That\u2019s because he still hasn’t left her in the past.<\/span><\/p>\n

Come\u00e7a a sentir-se stressado e inseguro. Pode at\u00e9 <\/span>come\u00e7ar a comparar-se<\/span><\/a> com ela.<\/span><\/p>\n

You think that no matter what you do, you’ll never be as pretty as she is or as good as she was. Well, think twice then. If she was so good, they wouldn’t have broken up, would they?.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Ele comporta-se de forma estranha quando ela est\u00e1 por perto<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Whenever you meet his ex somewhere, he starts acting so weird you don\u2019t recognize him. It’s because he still has some unresolved issues with her.<\/span><\/p>\n

He’s so confused around her that he actually doesn’t know how to behave.<\/span><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t pay attention to you or your feelings because the only thing that’s important to him is showing her that he isn’t suffering because of the breakup, and that he has already moved on.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Ele planeia aventuras para voc\u00eas os dois a toda a hora<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

It’s like we already said. He doesn’t want to think about the breakup or his ex, so he tries to forget about it by doing some exciting and new things with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Every day is a new adventure with him because it’s the only way he is able to relax and pretend that everything is fine.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Ele bebe para adormecer os seus sentimentos<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ele bebe mesmo quando mais ningu\u00e9m est\u00e1 a beber. Come\u00e7a a sentir-se um pouco desconfort\u00e1vel por causa disso. Talvez at\u00e9 tenha medo que ele esteja a ficar viciado.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t have to be afraid or worried about your own well being. He won’t do you anything. He isn’t an addict. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ele s\u00f3 bebe muito para adormecer os seus sentimentos.<\/b> Isso ajuda-o a descontrair-se ao p\u00e9 de si e a esquecer que ainda sente algo pela ex.<\/span><\/p>\n

9. Ele est\u00e1 a usar-te como namorada trof\u00e9u<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ele gosta de te exibir, como se fosses <\/span>algum tipo de trof\u00e9u<\/span><\/a> \u2013 especially in front of his ex or some of their mutual friends.<\/span><\/p>\n

He wants to show them that he has won in the ‘after the breakup’ game, particularly if his ex is still single.<\/span><\/p>\n

Acorda rapariga<\/b>!<\/span><\/p>\n

You are worth so much more than being his trophy girlfriend. You don’t deserve to be with someone who is using you, you deserve someone who wants to be with you only because he loves you.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ending a relationship is hard, no matter whose decision it was. Getting over a breakup is even harder. In the period after a breakup, we all feel so strange. There are a lot of mixed feelings and that’s why we can’t think clearly and deal with our emotions in a healthy way. Unfortunately, some people…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":82963,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81079","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/9-Surefire-Signs-He\u2019s-Using-You-To-Get-Over-His-Breakup.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81079","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81079"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81079\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82963"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81079"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81079"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81079"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}