{"id":81289,"date":"2020-06-22T12:36:48","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:36:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81289"},"modified":"2022-01-12T22:31:58","modified_gmt":"2022-01-12T22:31:58","slug":"a-quimica-nao-leva-a-uma-relacao-forte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-quimica-nao-leva-a-uma-relacao-forte\/","title":{"rendered":"4 raz\u00f5es pelas quais uma qu\u00edmica forte n\u00e3o leva necessariamente a uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o forte"},"content":{"rendered":"

Deep down, most of us want a fairytale kind of love. You want someone who will shake the ground under your feet, make you lose your mind \u2013 someone who will rock your world.<\/p>\n

Bem, todas estas coisas s\u00e3o de facto sinais de uma qu\u00edmica incrivelmente forte<\/a> entre duas pessoas. No entanto, ser\u00e1 que esta qu\u00edmica conduz sempre a uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o forte?<\/p>\n

1. Compatibility in bed doesn\u2019t make you compatible in life<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be dead honest with you: Lovemaking is an extremely important part of every relationship. Whoever tries to tell you otherwise is lying.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o se trata apenas de prazer f\u00edsico, \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m uma forma de criar la\u00e7os entre os parceiros. Aumenta a intimidade e serve para aliviar o stress.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, \u00e9 um mito que as pessoas s\u00e3o boas ou mau na cama<\/a> in general. The only thing that counts and guarantees both of the partner\u2019s complete pleasure is actually physical compatibility.<\/p>\n

However, getting along in the bedroom doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you\u2019ll also get along outside of it. In fact, the two usually have very little in common.<\/p>\n

Ser compat\u00edvel<\/a> na vida real significa ser capaz de chegar a um compromisso. Significa ter vis\u00f5es do mundo semelhantes, planos para o futuro e querer quase as mesmas coisas na vida.<\/p>\n

Basicamente, pode ser um par fant\u00e1stico com algu\u00e9m debaixo dos len\u00e7\u00f3is, o que \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, um sinal de uma qu\u00edmica incrivelmente forte.<\/p>\n

No entanto, se t\u00eam dificuldade em encontrar-se a meio do dia, a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 tudo menos forte e saud\u00e1vel. Sim, a intimidade f\u00edsica ir\u00e1 provavelmente manter-vos juntos durante algum tempo.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, as soon as the passion fades away (and it will), your disagreements in real life will come to the surface and you\u2019ll start seeing your relationship for what it really is.<\/p>\n

2. It\u2019s not a healthy basis for a relationship<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica saud\u00e1vel entre duas pessoas baseia-se em muitas coisas. Sim, a qu\u00edmica \u00e9 uma delas, mas n\u00e3o pode certamente ser a \u00fanica.<\/p>\n

In fact, there are many more important foundations of a real relationship, including unconditional love, mutual respect, appreciation, willingness to put in the effort and make sacrifices, understanding, compromise\u2026<\/p>\n

If you have chemistry and passion, that\u2019s great.<\/p>\n

But if you want to know more about the future of your relationship, it\u2019s time to ask yourself whether you two as a couple share all of these other things mentioned above.<\/p>\n

The bottom line is that it\u2019s not enough for you and your romantic partner to be lovers only. Instead, you two should also be melhores amigos<\/a> e parceiros no crime, e a qu\u00edmica n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficiente para isso.<\/p>\n

Esta deve ser a pessoa com quem se liga a n\u00edvel intelectual, emocional e mental. Algu\u00e9m cuja alma amamos e que nos completa em todos os aspectos da vida.<\/p>\n

3. Os opostos atraem-se, mas raramente duram<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

De acordo com a maioria dos especialistas em encontros, as pessoas normalmente sentem uma qu\u00edmica mais forte com os seus opostos polares.<\/p>\n

After all, it\u2019s perfectly normal that you show a special interest in someone who is different than you. It\u2019s difficult for you to be intrigued by a person who is similar to you.<\/p>\n

You know how they\u2019ll react in most situations, you can guess what they\u2019re thinking, and you know what to expect from them because their behavior often mirrors yours.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, quando conhecemos o nosso oposto, ele desafia-nos. Temos vontade de escavar profundamente as camadas da sua personalidade.<\/p>\n

Sente-se a necessidade de desvendar o seu lado misterioso. A necessidade de o conhecer e de chegar ao fundo de algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o \u00e9 nem de perto nem de longe parecido consigo.<\/p>\n

Consequentemente, sentimo-nos atra\u00eddos por essas pessoas. Sentimos um fogo de artif\u00edcio incr\u00edvel e passamos por uma montanha-russa de emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Portanto, sim, pode dizer-se que os opostos se atraem como \u00edmanes. No entanto, raramente duram.<\/p>\n

De facto, na maioria dos casos, as vossas diferen\u00e7as tornam-se um problema na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Tudo o que gostavam na outra pessoa come\u00e7a a incomodar-vos.<\/p>\n

Besides, when it comes to these couples, everything is always dramatic. You can\u2019t help but fight and disagree all the time since you have different attitudes and opinions.<\/p>\n

Embora a rela\u00e7\u00e3o possa parecer interessante no in\u00edcio, com o tempo torna-se cansativa e desgastante.<\/p>\n

4. It\u2019s all about your own needs<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

True love is always selfless, while chemistry is not. When you think that you\u2019re in love with someone, the truth is that you\u2019re looking for a way to satisfy your own needs.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not saying that you\u2019re using this person. However, you want them all to yourself and the only thing you\u2019re concerned about is how this relationship makes you feel.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, a strong relationship that has a firm basis is all about meeting both of your needs and desires. In this case, you want the other person to be happy, even if that doesn\u2019t include you.<\/p>\n

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