{"id":81349,"date":"2020-06-22T12:37:42","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:37:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81349"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:29:14","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:29:14","slug":"mitos-sobre-namoro-que-tem-de-acabar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mitos-sobre-namoro-que-tem-de-acabar\/","title":{"rendered":"5 mitos sobre o namoro que tem de acabar se quiser ter uma vida amorosa feliz"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todas as \u00e9pocas de encontros, incluindo a atual, t\u00eam algumas regras n\u00e3o escritas. Estas s\u00e3o as directrizes que a maioria de n\u00f3s segue apenas porque \"\u00e9 assim que as coisas funcionam\".<\/p>\n

No entanto, j\u00e1 se perguntou se estas regras est\u00e3o, na verdade, a tornar a sua vida amorosa ainda mais dif\u00edcil? Aqui est\u00e3o 5 mitos sobre namoros que tem de acabar se quiser ter uma vida amorosa feliz.<\/p>\n

1. The right girl can \u201cfix\u201d any man<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Quantas vezes j\u00e1 testemunhou uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que um homem problem\u00e1tico ser\u00e1 supostamente curado pela mulher certa?<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if we\u2019re talking about a serial cheater, a player, a commitment-phobe, or about an emotionally unavailable man.<\/p>\n

Em todos os cen\u00e1rios, todos esperam que ele mude quando encontrar uma boa mulher que lhe abra o cora\u00e7\u00e3o ao amor.<\/p>\n

Uma mulher que o inspirar\u00e1 a ser diferente e que o ajudar\u00e1 a tornar-se a melhor vers\u00e3o poss\u00edvel de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Well, I say that\u2019s a load of rubbish. Women are not rehabilitation centers for homens danificados<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not your job to repair them or to save them from themselves. Even if you\u2019re a part of a couple, you\u2019re both still responsible for your own choices and actions.<\/p>\n

2. A primeira impress\u00e3o \u00e9 tudo<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you: the vibe you get when you meet someone new for the first time can help you form an opinion about them in many cases.<\/p>\n

However, it doesn\u2019t mean that you shouldn\u2019t give men a chance to fix the first impression they made.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give up on a guy just because your first date was awkward or because he failed to knock you off your feet. He might have been nervous or maybe he just needs some more time to relax.<\/p>\n

Eu sei que este mito foi incorporado em ti juntamente com a idealiza\u00e7\u00e3o de amor \u00e0 primeira vista<\/a>.<\/p>\n

However, trust me when I tell you that you can fall in love with someone you didn\u2019t feel butterflies with when you first laid your eyes on him.<\/p>\n

3. O amor \u00e9 sempre suficiente<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Wherever you turn, you\u2019re surrounded by romantic comedies and novels which glorify romance. In these stories, love is all that matters.<\/p>\n

Era assim nos contos de fadas que lia quando era crian\u00e7a, em todos os filmes de mi\u00fadas que via quando era adolescente e at\u00e9 em alguns livros e filmes cl\u00e1ssicos que s\u00e3o muito populares entre todas as idades.<\/p>\n

Love is this force that can beat everything and everyone but can\u2019t be beaten. It has the strength to overcome all possible obstacles and if it\u2019s real, it will last a lifetime.<\/p>\n

Basically, you\u2019ve been taught that love is enough for two people to work out. Well, guess what: it\u2019s not.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you and your ex didn\u2019t love each other enough just because your relationship failed.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ll succeed with some other guy just because you share some deep emotions.<\/p>\n

Yes, love is crucial. However, if it\u2019s not accompanied by trust, respect, compatibility, and many other things, o amor n\u00e3o pode ser suficiente<\/a>.<\/p>\n

4. O homem tem sempre de dar o primeiro passo<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

According to some old fashioned dating rules, it\u2019s the man who courts the woman.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 ele que deve perseguir-te, que deve enviar a primeira mensagem, que deve iniciar a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o, que deve convidar-te para sair primeiro encontro<\/a>e dar todos os outros passos importantes na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Bem, deixe-me dizer-lhe que isto n\u00e3o passa de um mito que tem de esquecer se quiser ter uma vida amorosa feliz. Afinal de contas, esta regra n\u00e3o tem absolutamente nada a ver com l\u00f3gica e senso comum.<\/p>\n

What if you like a guy who simply doesn\u2019t notice you? Does it mean that you should sit around, patiently waiting for him to magically become a mind reader and to approach you just like that?<\/p>\n

Of course, you could always do that. However, if you do, you\u2019ll miss out on a lot of opportunities.<\/p>\n

Besides, we\u2019re all about equality. So, let\u2019s be equal when it comes to this as well.<\/p>\n

5. It doesn\u2019t matter what your friends and family think<\/h2>\n

\"tr\u00eas<\/p>\n

A escolha da pessoa para sempre deve ser uma decis\u00e3o exclusivamente vossa.<\/p>\n

After all, this is the person you\u2019ll be spending the rest of your life with and you\u2019re the only one who has a say when it comes to this huge decision.<\/p>\n

Por isso, quase toda a gente lhe dir\u00e1 que deve ouvir-se a si pr\u00f3prio quando se trata desta escolha.<\/p>\n

As pessoas aconselham-no a ignorar tudo o que a sua fam\u00edlia e amigos t\u00eam para lhe dizer e a seguir o que quiser.<\/p>\n

Bem, correndo o risco de parecer antiquado, tenho de discordar desta afirma\u00e7\u00e3o. De facto, este \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m um dos mitos sobre namoros que deve ser eliminado o mais rapidamente poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong: I\u2019m not telling you to blindly listen to your loved ones, to live your life under their terms, trying to please them.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, I\u2019m asking you to take their opinion into consideration, if nothing else. Never forget that these are the people who love you and only want what\u2019s best for you.<\/p>\n

Besides, they\u2019re not in love with this man, so they don\u2019t idealize him. They don\u2019t have their rose-tinted glasses on so they can be more realistic and see some things you probably don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

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Every dating era, including today\u2019s, has some unwritten rules. These are the guidelines most of us follow just because \u201cthat\u2019s how things work\u201d. Nevertheless, have you ever wondered if these rules are actually making your dating life even harder? Here are 5 dating myths you have to bust if you want a happy love life….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":81377,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81349","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/5-Dating-Myths-You-Have-To-Bust-If-You-Want-A-Happy-Love-Life.jpg",800,554,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81349","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81349"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81349\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81377"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81349"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81349"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81349"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}