{"id":81851,"date":"2020-06-22T12:39:39","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:39:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81851"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:27:15","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:27:15","slug":"ser-a-mulher-de-que-precisavas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ser-a-mulher-de-que-precisavas\/","title":{"rendered":"S\u00ea a mulher de que precisavas quando eras pequena e deixa-a orgulhosa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Lembras-te de todas as vezes que te sentiste insegura em crian\u00e7a? Todas as vezes que sentiu que n\u00e3o era suficientemente boa, bonita ou inteligente?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Havia sempre algu\u00e9m melhor do que tu e sempre algu\u00e9m para te lembrar disso.<\/p>\n<p>Imagine if, in those moments, you had someone to tell you all of those things were nothing but lies \u2013 someone to tell you that the opinions of others have nothing to do with your life.<\/p>\n<p>Todos n\u00f3s lut\u00e1mos com alguma coisa enquanto cresc\u00edamos e muitas dessas coisas ficaram connosco. Muitas pessoas foram profundamente afectadas pelas palavras de outros.<\/p>\n<p>Muitos acreditaram nessas palavras e tomaram-nas como parte de si pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The worst thing that can happen in a child\u2019s life is for them to believe in other\u2019s people lies. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Even when we later on in adulthood recognize those words as lies, it\u2019s hard to ignore the impact they had on us for so long.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Muitas vezes, experi\u00eancias traum\u00e1ticas ou mesmo coment\u00e1rios rudes provocam mudan\u00e7as no comportamento pessoal e, de alguma forma, desviam a sua verdadeira personalidade.<\/p>\n<p>Faz-nos come\u00e7ar a medir o nosso valor com base em coisas como a nossa apar\u00eancia e realiza\u00e7\u00f5es externas e ignorar os nossos talentos naturais e empatia.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81909\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-inside.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada no interior do arm\u00e1rio a abrir as suas portas\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-inside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-inside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-inside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Felizmente, h\u00e1 muitos exemplos de como a luta acaba por nos tornar mais fortes. Temos sempre uma hip\u00f3tese de melhorar as coisas.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, no meio da luta, apercebemo-nos de como somos fortes. Quando come\u00e7amos a rejeitar as nossas falsas cren\u00e7as sobre n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios, come\u00e7amos a aperceber-nos das nossas verdadeiras possibilidades.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There\u2019s nothing in the world more powerful than a woman who knows her worth and needs no permission.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>A woman who is unapologetically herself. The kind of woman who doesn\u2019t conform to the expectations of others but meets her own expectations.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>A woman who knows to set boundaries and see through the people who don\u2019t mean good to her \u2013 the one who demands respect and believes in her potential.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t wait for anyone, but proceeds to do things on her own, trusting her intuition and judgment.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the kind of woman you needed as a little girl. That\u2019s the kind of woman you need now.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Once we know our worth, there\u2019s nothing that can make us feel insecure, especially not words from people who barely know us.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The truth is, people don\u2019t really care what you do as much as you think, so why should you take their opinions to heart?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81906\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-blue-dress.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher de vestido azul virada para o espelho com as m\u00e3os nos bordos do espelho\" width=\"800\" height=\"539\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-blue-dress.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-blue-dress-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-in-blue-dress-768x517.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s important to know what we\u2019re capable of and what\u2019s inside of us. Nothing and no one else can decide our value as a human being but ourselves.<\/p>\n<p>To decide a human\u2019s value based on looks and God-given personality traits is pointless and mean.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Todos s\u00e3o livres de serem aut\u00eanticos, de se exprimirem naturalmente e de se sentirem seguros entre os outros.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you have ever been hurt, don\u2019t let it change who you are and strip the world of your uniqueness.<\/p>\n<p>Especialmente como mulher, quando o mundo inteiro tem exig\u00eancias loucas para si. Pede-nos que sejamos independentes mas permane\u00e7amos fr\u00e1geis, que lutemos mas sejamos gentis.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Be strong in a sense of staying true to who you are \u2013 and that means listening to no one but yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Fa\u00e7am-no pela menina dentro de voc\u00eas que pensava que havia algo de errado com ela. E por causa de qu\u00ea? Coisas que nunca foram verdadeiras.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Embrace yourself and be kind to yourself. Don\u2019t strive for perfection, only progress.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You deserve to be happy and loved as you are \u2013 the same words the girl in you needed to hear all along.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-81911\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-The-Woman-You-Needed-As-A-Little-Girl-And-Make-Her-Proud-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"S\u00ea a mulher de que precisavas quando eras pequena e deixa-a orgulhosa\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-The-Woman-You-Needed-As-A-Little-Girl-And-Make-Her-Proud-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-The-Woman-You-Needed-As-A-Little-Girl-And-Make-Her-Proud-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-The-Woman-You-Needed-As-A-Little-Girl-And-Make-Her-Proud-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-The-Woman-You-Needed-As-A-Little-Girl-And-Make-Her-Proud-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Remember all the times you felt insecure as a little girl? All the times you felt like you weren\u2019t good enough, beautiful enough, or smart enough? There was always someone better than you, and always someone to remind you of that. Imagine if, in those moments, you had someone to tell you all of those&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":81910,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81851","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Be-The-Woman-You-Needed-As-A-Little-Girl-And-Make-Her-Proud.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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