{"id":81878,"date":"2020-06-22T12:14:08","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:14:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=81878"},"modified":"2021-08-30T13:53:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T13:53:33","slug":"homem-que-nao-teve-coragem-de-lutar-por-mim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/homem-que-nao-teve-coragem-de-lutar-por-mim\/","title":{"rendered":"Para o homem que n\u00e3o teve coragem de lutar por mim"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>Eu valia a pena.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Juro por Deus <\/span><b><i>Eu valia a pena lutar <\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and you were a fool for letting me go. You let go of the only girl who&#8217;ll ever honestly love you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>I&#8217;m not talking about that ordinary love a woman can feel towards her man. I am talking about once-in-a-lifetime love.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Sobre esse incondicional, altru\u00edsta, honesto, inabal\u00e1vel, eterno<\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/15-sinais-inegaveis-de-uma-verdadeira-relacao-amorosa\/\"><b><i> tipo de amor<\/i><\/b><\/a><b><i>.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That love was worth fighting for because I\u2019m sure you&#8217;ll never find that kind of love again. We have only one chance to find true love and you&#8217;ve missed yours.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eventually, you&#8217;ll find someone who&#8217;ll love you again, but trust me, you&#8217;ll never find someone who&#8217;ll love you as I did.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81883 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-chair-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de camisola branca sentada numa cadeira azul\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-chair-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-chair-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-chair-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t get me wrong. You know me best. You know that I don&#8217;t hold grudges. I really hope you are happy. I would be really pleased if you found someone who loves you for everything you are.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My intention wasn&#8217;t to play with you. I just wanted to distance myself to see how strong our love was and whether you were being honest when you said that you&#8217;d love me for the rest of our lives.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I still can&#8217;t understand how you could say over and over that you loved me if you didn&#8217;t feel that way. And you truly said it like a million times.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Como pudeste olhar-me nos olhos e mentir? Isso significa que me mentia diretamente na cara todos os dias.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eu sei que esse foi o meu erro. Nunca devia ter posto o nosso amor \u00e0 prova. Enganei-me ao acreditar que era t\u00e3o forte que podia passar todos os testes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fizeste-me acreditar que a nossa liga\u00e7\u00e3o era t\u00e3o forte que resistiria a tudo o que tiv\u00e9ssemos de enfrentar. Acreditei sinceramente que o nosso amor resistiria ao teste do tempo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Do you remember how we used to say \u201cYou and me, until the very end.\u201d?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Haha, actually, it&#8217;s funny now. Promising and swearing eternal love for so long, but as soon as hard times came, you gave up and walked away immediately.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Foi por causa do teu orgulho masculino <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/ao-homem-que-valorizava-mais-o-seu-ego-do-que-o-nosso-amor\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ou o teu ego?<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp; You just couldn&#8217;t allow yourself to be vulnerable or weak for one woman, could you?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nunca compreenderei como \u00e9 que manter o ego sob controlo \u00e9 mais importante do que manter a mulher que amamos, a nossa alma g\u00e9mea, na nossa vida.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81885 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-grass-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada na relva amarela ao lado de uma estrada de bet\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-grass-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-grass-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-sitting-on-grass-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tinha medo do que os seus amigos iriam dizer? Talvez receasse que gozassem consigo se mostrasse que era fraco por causa da mulher que amava?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, if that&#8217;s the case, then I&#8217;m glad you gave up on us. Now you can have your friends and I&#8217;ll be here, standing aside, watching how they stab you in the back one by one.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada mais importante do que o amor neste mundo e tu, minha querida, vais descobrir isso da maneira mais dif\u00edcil.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;ll understand one day when you are all alone. When all those fake friends have betrayed you. When you\u2019ve crushed your own precious ego.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;ll see that I was right to call you a fool in this letter. Then you&#8217;ll admit it yourself. You were a fool because you gave up on love, on us.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Foste um tolo porque te recusaste a lutar pelo nosso final feliz. <\/span><b><i>Transformaste o nosso pequeno conto de fadas do amor no meu pior pesadelo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I have to admit, I didn\u2019t feel okay for some time. Hell, I fell apart. But now, I&#8217;m here again. Fully recovered and ready for some new battles in life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Passei por <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/psicologia\/anxiety-depression\/7-coisas-para-fazer-quando-se-esta-deprimido\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">uma depress\u00e3o profunda<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. It was so hard to accept that the man I loved more than I&#8217;d ever loved myself or anyone else before didn&#8217;t even want to try to fight for our love, for me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No entanto, apercebi-me de que tinha de sair dessa situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I had to accept everything that had happened and look at it as a huge life lesson that God sent me to warn me that you weren&#8217;t so honest about your feelings and that you didn&#8217;t love me as much as I loved you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eu sei <\/span><b><i>Eu valia a pena lutar. <\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Maybe not now, maybe not tomorrow, but one day you&#8217;ll realize it too, only then it will be too late. You&#8217;ll be left with remorse for the rest of your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-81887 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/To-The-Man-Who-Didn\u2019t-Have-The-Guts-To-Fight-For-Me-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Para o homem que n\u00e3o teve coragem de lutar por mim\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/To-The-Man-Who-Didn\u2019t-Have-The-Guts-To-Fight-For-Me-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/To-The-Man-Who-Didn\u2019t-Have-The-Guts-To-Fight-For-Me-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/To-The-Man-Who-Didn\u2019t-Have-The-Guts-To-Fight-For-Me-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/To-The-Man-Who-Didn\u2019t-Have-The-Guts-To-Fight-For-Me-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was worth it. I swear to God I was worth the fight and you were a fool for letting me go. You let go of the only girl who&#8217;ll ever honestly love you. I&#8217;m not talking about that ordinary love a woman can feel towards her man. I am talking about once-in-a-lifetime love. About&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":81881,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-81878","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/To-The-Man-Who-Didn\u2019t-Have-The-Guts-To-Fight-For-Me.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81878","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81878"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81878\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81881"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81878"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81878"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81878"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}