Leaving you was the hardest thing I\u2019ve ever had to do. I\u2019ve lost so much. All the sweet ways you showed me how much you cared, all the lovely words you used to say to me.<\/p>\n
I\u2019ve lost spending every minute of my free time with you, just hanging out. I\u2019ve lost all the delightful plans we had for the future.<\/p>\n
I know that. That\u2019s what made leaving so difficult. Still, what I have now is worth even more.<\/p>\n
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Contigo, as coisas nunca eram claras. Nunca tive a certeza absoluta de que o que dizias num dia continuaria a ser verdade no dia seguinte.<\/strong><\/p>\n Quando estavas num dia bom, tudo era perfeito, mas eram os teus dias maus que me arruinavam.<\/p>\n Comecei a sentir-me s\u00f3, tra\u00eddo, invis\u00edvel. Tudo isto misturado com todo o amor que eu tinha por ti e todo o amor que eu pensava que tu tinhas por mim.<\/p>\n No final, tudo o que t\u00ednhamos era uma teia confusa de promessas que nunca foram cumpridas, mentiras que se estavam a acumular, sil\u00eancios que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o eram agrad\u00e1veis.<\/strong><\/p>\n Olhando para tr\u00e1s, parece que me perdi a mim pr\u00f3pria, a tentar manter-nos vivos. Cada pedacinho da minha energia foi para desembara\u00e7ar aquela teia horr\u00edvel que cri\u00e1mos.<\/p>\n It couldn\u2019t be untangled. I know that now. There was nothing anyone could do. There were simply too many bad things in our past to hope for a bright, shiny future.<\/p>\n I loved you. I don\u2019t blame you for anything. You helped me learn so many things about life, love, and myself.<\/p>\n You changed many of my perspectives and I\u2019m grateful for that because it changed my life.<\/p>\n The pain from losing you has been replaced by a feeling of accomplishment. It\u2019s been replaced by pride.<\/p>\n I\u2019m so proud of myself for being strong enough to put my life in order. I\u2019m so proud that I know when to stop trying.<\/strong><\/p>\n You weren\u2019t a waste of my time. Many things in our relationship will remain my most precious memories.<\/p>\n It would sadden me if you thought I abandoned you. I didn\u2019t. I had to go back to finding myself, loving myself, supporting myself.<\/strong><\/p>\n I\u2019ll never forget you. Our kisses mixed with tears have left a deep mark on my heart. That mark will always be there to remind me of you.<\/p>\n \u00c9 com orgulho que digo que dou mais valor ao que tenho agora do que a tudo o que t\u00ednhamos, do que a tudo o que perdi quando te perdi.<\/strong><\/p>\n The most important life choices are never easy, and this was the hardest decision I ever had to make. I don\u2019t regret my choice.<\/p>\n H\u00e1 uma altura na vida em que nada \u00e9 mais importante do que permitirmo-nos viver a nossa melhor vida. A minha altura chegou quando acabei contigo.<\/p>\n Me leaving wasn\u2019t an act of ditching you, it was an act of finding myself again \u2013 something I desperately needed.<\/p>\n Instead of letting you break me to pieces, I\u2019ve led myself to peace.<\/p>\n I\u2019m a new person now you\u2019re not in my life. I haven\u2019t gone back to who I was before you. I\u2019m better now. Before you, I never even knew how messy my life could get. All the love and all the hate made living unbearable. 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