{"id":82010,"date":"2020-06-22T12:48:38","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:48:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=82010"},"modified":"2022-01-10T00:27:43","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T00:27:43","slug":"vais-ficar-bem-sem-ele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/vais-ficar-bem-sem-ele\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta de promessa para mim mesma: Ficar\u00e1s bem sem ele"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hey, you. I know that you\u2019re not only de cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/a> e devastado.<\/p>\n

After all, you\u2019re a smart girl and you\u2019re perfectly aware that your heartache will go away sooner or later. The biggest problem here is that you\u2019re scared<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re terrified of having to keep on living without this man by your side. Without the man you thought was your other half and without the man who completed you.<\/p>\n

Durante todos esses anos, esteve convencida de que ele era o seu salvador e a \u00fanica pessoa que a mantinha viva. Via-o como a sua raz\u00e3o de viver, como a sua maior motiva\u00e7\u00e3o e como a causa da sua exist\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

P\u00f4s toda a sua energia na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Estava disposta a fazer tudo o que fosse preciso s\u00f3 para o manter ao seu lado.<\/p>\n

You lost everyone because he asked you to. Your friends weren\u2019t good enough, your family didn\u2019t mean you well and you cut all of them off.<\/p>\n

Most of all\u2014perdeste-te a ti pr\u00f3prio<\/a>. A rapariga que eras antes de ele aparecer deixou de existir. Ele destruiu-a, deitou fora a sua alma inocente e matou-a espiritualmente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o eras uma pessoa, uma filha ou uma amiga. De facto, j\u00e1 n\u00e3o era uma mulher. S\u00f3 tinhas o papel de namorada dele e, para ti, n\u00e3o havia mundo fora da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Com o tempo, este homem tornou-se o centro do seu universo.<\/p>\n

\"namorada<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica pessoa que te fazia sentir segura e protegida, a \u00fanica que te punha um sorriso no rosto e o \u00fanico homem vivo que te fazia feliz.<\/p>\n

No entanto, agora ele se foi<\/strong>. Ele deixou-te pendurado e abandonou-te quando mais precisavas dele<\/a>.<\/p>\n

So, you don\u2019t think you can make it without him. You saw him as your rock, safe haven and sanctuary.<\/p>\n

Pensas que, ao perd\u00ea-lo, perdeste tudo o que tinha valor na tua vida.<\/strong> You\u2019re convinced that by breaking your heart, he also broke you beyond repair.<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that this couldn\u2019t be further from the truth. In fact, I\u2019m here to promise you that you\u2019ll be okay without him, even though you probably don\u2019t believe me now.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You won\u2019t miss him forever. In fact, one of these days you\u2019ll wake up with a smile on your face and you\u2019ll realize that this man wasn\u2019t the first thing you thought of.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll learn how to live without his presence<\/strong>. You\u2019ll remember who you really are and you\u2019ll become independent and powerful once again.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll understand that \u00e9s mais do que suficiente para te fazeres feliz<\/strong>. That you don\u2019t need him to have your back and that he was actually the one not allowing you to reach your full potential.<\/p>\n

Este tipo esfor\u00e7ou-se muito para que te sentisses desamparada. Ele queria que pensasses que eras incapaz de viver por ti pr\u00f3pria e que precisavas dele para sobreviver a este mundo duro.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Era a \u00fanica forma de te manter ao lado dele. A maneira de ele te fazer emocionalmente dependente<\/a> sobre ele e a forma de te transformar na sua v\u00edtima.<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, after a while, you\u2019ll understand that he actually did you a favor when he left you to struggle on your own.<\/p>\n

Sim, ele fez-te esconder a mulher forte que eras antes dele.<\/p>\n

However, that woman is still there, buried somewhere inside of you\u2014you just have to put some effort into digging deep enough to find you.<\/p>\n

Sim, ele esmagou o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o num milh\u00e3o de pedacinhos. No entanto, garanto-te que tens o que \u00e9 preciso para voltar a colar cada um deles.<\/p>\n

No entanto, acreditem em mim quando vos digo que he didn\u2019t break you because you\u2019re stronger than that. You\u2019re made of steel and you will rise back from the ashes like a phoenix.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you; scars will remain. Those painful wounds all over your soul will eventually heal but they will leave a mark.<\/p>\n

No, they won\u2019t hurt forever. Instead, they will serve you as a reminder of everything you had to experience…<\/p>\n

… as a reminder that you went through hell but were strong enough to come back from it more powerful than ever. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Servir-vos-\u00e3o para vos recordar a vossa for\u00e7a e a vossa sobreviv\u00eancia.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>\n

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Hey, you. I know that you\u2019re not only heartbroken and devastated. After all, you\u2019re a smart girl and you\u2019re perfectly aware that your heartache will go away sooner or later. The biggest problem here is that you\u2019re scared. You\u2019re terrified of having to keep on living without this man by your side. Without the man…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-82010","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82010","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=82010"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82010\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=82010"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=82010"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=82010"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}