{"id":82812,"date":"2020-06-22T12:58:26","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:58:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=82812"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:15:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:15:01","slug":"razoes-pelas-quais-se-esta-deprimido-porque-se-esta-apaixonado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/razoes-pelas-quais-se-esta-deprimido-porque-se-esta-apaixonado\/","title":{"rendered":"7 raz\u00f5es pelas quais est\u00e1s deprimido porque est\u00e1s apaixonado (sim, \u00e9 poss\u00edvel)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Finalmente encontraste aquela pessoa fant\u00e1stica que te ama, te respeita e cuida bem de ti. Devias estar delirantemente feliz mas...<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve started feeling blue and decided that there must be something wrong with you to feel this way when you have all that you have.<\/p>\n<p>Hold on\u2026 don\u2019t jump to conclusions. It\u2019s possible that your wonderful love is exactly what\u2019s causing your sad, nostalgic feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Things have changed for you, and you\u2019re learning how to deal with it. Take a look at these 7 possible reasons why you\u2019re depressed because you\u2019re in love.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Sair com uma pessoa simp\u00e1tica para variar assusta-o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82815\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-couple-dating.jpg\" alt=\"casal triste a namorar num caf\u00e9 a olhar um para o outro\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-couple-dating.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-couple-dating-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-couple-dating-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve finally broken the awful pattern of dating toxic people, congratulations!<\/p>\n<p>Now, being with someone who is nice, who treats you like you\u2019re special, loves you, nurtures you, and is careful about what they say and do to you can feel strange.<\/p>\n<p>Pode ter havido todo um caos na sua vida que de repente desapareceu.<\/p>\n<p>Everything you\u2019re feeling right now probably just points to the fact that you need some time to get used to the new normal because this has obviously been a huge change for you.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Pensou que a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o resolveria todos os seus problemas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82817\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-touching-the-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a tocar na mulher triste sentada no sof\u00e1, vestida com um top azul\" width=\"800\" height=\"520\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-touching-the-sad-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-touching-the-sad-woman-300x195.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-touching-the-sad-woman-768x499.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 muitas pessoas que esperam que, quando encontrarem a pessoa para sempre e mantiverem uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel, cheia de amor e respeito, todos os seus problemas desapare\u00e7am.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 absolutamente imposs\u00edvel que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o possa curar todos os seus sentimentos de tristeza ou vazio, ou resolver os seus problemas mais profundos, como a baixa autoestima ou a ansiedade.<\/p>\n<p>Pode fazer um pouco de diferen\u00e7a estar num lugar seguro com uma pessoa que amamos, mas para resolver verdadeiramente os nossos problemas e crescer, temos de trabalhar em n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Lack of drama bores you or you can\u2019t get used to it<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82819\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bored-woman-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"mulher aborrecida sentada ao lado de um homem a ler um livro\" width=\"800\" height=\"511\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bored-woman-sitting.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bored-woman-sitting-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/bored-woman-sitting-768x491.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pode ter havido muito drama nas suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es anteriores e agora sente-se completamente perdido sem ele.<\/p>\n<p>The peace you\u2019re feeling might be confused with boredom, don\u2019t let yourself think that way.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s perfectly normal for it to take some getting used to, but don\u2019t start thinking that you need all the drama in your life to be happy.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Os seus sonhos de pessoa para sempre foram alcan\u00e7ados<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82820\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de p\u00e9 ao ar livre numa ponte, vestindo uma gabardina vermelha\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-outdoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-outdoors-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Durante um certo per\u00edodo de tempo, houve algo que o preocupou: encontrar a pessoa para sempre. Agora, quando j\u00e1 tem essa pessoa especial na sua vida, parece menos entusiasmado do que deveria. Porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n<p>This doesn\u2019t mean that the person you\u2019ve chosen isn\u2019t right. It simply means that reaching your goal has left you somewhat aimless. It happens whenever we reach a goal in life and it\u2019s perfectly okay.<\/p>\n<p>O seu c\u00e9rebro precisa de est\u00edmulos e desafios, pelo que deve encontr\u00e1-los noutras \u00e1reas da sua vida.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Estabelecer-se assusta-o completamente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82822\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/not-happy-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher n\u00e3o muito feliz sentada \u00e0 frente de um homem numa mesa com um telem\u00f3vel em cima da mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/not-happy-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/not-happy-woman-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/not-happy-woman-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that you\u2019re freaked out by committing to that special someone. It\u2019s just that settling down in general freaks you out \u2013 you just don\u2019t like the idea.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00e1-nos a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de que a nossa vida vai ficar muito aborrecida de repente.<\/p>\n<p>The most important thing to remember is that your relationship doesn\u2019t have to be like anyone else\u2019s. It can be as exciting and thrilling as you want it to be.<\/p>\n<p>The kind of life you consider less of a thrill than you need isn\u2019t there waiting for you, it\u2019s you who makes the decision how to live your own life.<\/p>\n<h2>6. You\u2019ve lost yourself<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82823\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-couple-talking.jpg\" alt=\"casal triste a falar homem atr\u00e1s da mulher sentada\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-couple-talking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-couple-talking-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-couple-talking-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Apaixonar-se \u00e9 fant\u00e1stico, mas perder-se nesse amor \u00e9 completamente mau.<\/p>\n<p>If your partner is the one who controls everything in your relationship, determining its course and you\u2019re letting him, that can\u2019t feel very good.<\/p>\n<p>Pode sentir que os seus sonhos est\u00e3o \u00e0 espera enquanto d\u00e1 tudo o que tem \u00e0 sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>If you can\u2019t remember the last time you did something you actually enjoyed, it\u2019s time for you to change things.<\/p>\n<p>Just because you\u2019re in a loving relationship doesn\u2019t mean you should abandon your personal interests.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Sente falta de ser solteiro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82824\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-a-beverage.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a segurar uma bebida encostada \u00e0 parede no exterior de um edif\u00edcio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-a-beverage.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-a-beverage-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-a-beverage-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Now, this is absolutely normal. Just because you truly love someone doesn\u2019t mean that a part of you doesn\u2019t miss being single.<\/p>\n<p>Em primeiro lugar, as pessoas t\u00eam quase sempre a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de que a relva \u00e9 mais verde do outro lado.<\/p>\n<p>Secondly, it\u2019s a possibility that you didn\u2019t really live life to the fullest while you were single and now you\u2019re starting to regret that.<\/p>\n<p>The best way to deal with this is to realize that there\u2019s no reason you can\u2019t have fun and truly live life to the fullest during your relationship days as well.<\/p>\n<p>Being in a committed relationship shouldn\u2019t mean that the fun ends there. If you\u2019re with a partner who thinks otherwise, then you might want to reconsider your relationship.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82827\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/7-Reasons-You\u2019re-Depressed-Because-You\u2019re-In-Love-Yes-It\u2019s-Possible-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"7 raz\u00f5es pelas quais est\u00e1s deprimido porque est\u00e1s apaixonado (sim, \u00e9 poss\u00edvel)\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/7-Reasons-You\u2019re-Depressed-Because-You\u2019re-In-Love-Yes-It\u2019s-Possible-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/7-Reasons-You\u2019re-Depressed-Because-You\u2019re-In-Love-Yes-It\u2019s-Possible-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/7-Reasons-You\u2019re-Depressed-Because-You\u2019re-In-Love-Yes-It\u2019s-Possible-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/7-Reasons-You\u2019re-Depressed-Because-You\u2019re-In-Love-Yes-It\u2019s-Possible-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve finally found that amazing person who loves you, respects you, and takes good care of you. You should be deliriously happy but\u2026 You\u2019ve started feeling blue and decided that there must be something wrong with you to feel this way when you have all that you have. Hold on\u2026 don\u2019t jump to conclusions. It\u2019s&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":82825,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29635],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-82812","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-depression"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29635,"label":"depression"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/7-Reasons-You\u2019re-Depressed-Because-You\u2019re-In-Love-Yes-It\u2019s-Possible.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29635,"name":"depression","slug":"depression","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29635,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you or someone you know is fighting depression, here you'll find symptoms, plenty of coping techniques, and above all, you'll learn to understand it.","parent":22911,"count":23,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29635,"category_count":23,"category_description":"If you or someone you know is fighting depression, here you'll find symptoms, plenty of coping techniques, and above all, you'll learn to understand it.","cat_name":"depression","category_nicename":"depression","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82812","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=82812"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82812\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82825"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=82812"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=82812"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=82812"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}