{"id":82860,"date":"2020-06-22T12:27:37","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:27:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=82860"},"modified":"2022-06-29T11:36:21","modified_gmt":"2022-06-29T11:36:21","slug":"amizades-inadequadas-quando-se-e-casado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amizades-inadequadas-quando-se-e-casado\/","title":{"rendered":"Amizades impr\u00f3prias no casamento: S\u00e3o \"apenas amigos\"?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tal como toda a gente, <\/span>pessoas casadas<\/span> tamb\u00e9m t\u00eam <\/span>amigos do sexo oposto<\/span>. Estes <\/span>amizades de g\u00e9neros opostos<\/span> are usually perfectly innocent \u2013 until they turn into inappropriate friendships when married! <\/span><\/p>\n

It’s when they start working extra hours, coming home with traces of lipstick on their collar, excessively <\/span>mensagens de texto<\/span>, and you start wondering: “<\/span>What the hell is happening?” <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

“Hmm…that male\/<\/span><\/i>colega de trabalho<\/span><\/i> seemed suspicious to me the second I saw him\/her. I could tell by the way they looked at my spouse that they were interested.\u201d <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\u201cBut, I know my loved one would never do such a thing. They would never hurt me, well, not deliberately. Okay, I’m seriously starting to suspect that something fishy is going on here!”<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

And that’s how you ended up here searching for ‘inappropriate friendships when married’. <\/span><\/p>\n

Talvez suspeite que o seu marido ou mulher est\u00e1 a ter um <\/span>caso emocional<\/span><\/a> (ou Deus nos livre de <\/span>caso f\u00edsico<\/span>), or you’re just interested in the way friendships (should) function when you\u2019re married.<\/span><\/p>\n

No worries, we’ll cover all that here, so buckle up because it’s going to be a bumpy ride!<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 correto que um homem\/mulher casado(a) tenha um(a) amigo(a) do sexo oposto?<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

A minha humilde opini\u00e3o \u00e9 que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 problema em <\/span>casal<\/span> para conviver com pessoas do <\/span>g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span> because there’s no way you can avoid this (unless you’re a total introvert and you refuse to socialize with anyone). <\/span><\/p>\n

Os nossos empregos, rotinas di\u00e1rias, passatempos, gin\u00e1sios, caf\u00e9s, etc., s\u00e3o locais onde conhecemos muitas outras pessoas com quem passamos muito tempo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Tornamo-nos <\/span>bons amigos<\/span> com o nosso colegas<\/a> (tanto homens como mulheres) porque o nosso trabalho \u00e9 o local onde passamos a maior parte do nosso tempo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Seria muito embara\u00e7oso se se recusasse a falar com o seu colega porque o seu c\u00f4njuge tem demasiados ci\u00fames de todos os que o rodeiam. Isso iria interferir no seu trabalho, na sua vida social e na sua sanidade mental.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

It would be really hard to track who you could and could not socialize with, right? That leads us to the most important thing in a marriage \u2013 TRUST. <\/span><\/p>\n

Can you trust that your partner won’t do anything stupid when hanging out with their <\/span>melhor amigo do sexo oposto<\/span>? Acredita em <\/span>amizades plat\u00f3nicas<\/span><\/a>? <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando se trata de casamento e de outras rela\u00e7\u00f5es, tudo se baseia na confian\u00e7a. Se n\u00e3o houver confian\u00e7a, ser\u00e1 dif\u00edcil deixar o seu c\u00f4njuge formar <\/span>amizades \u00edntimas<\/span> com o <\/span>g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you’ve had a bad experience in the past when it comes to <\/span>amizades plat\u00f3nicas<\/span>Se o seu parceiro n\u00e3o for capaz de o tolerar, pode ter problemas em toler\u00e1-lo. Mas, mais uma vez, tudo depende da capacidade de confiar no seu parceiro. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you know you can trust them, then you know it’s okay for them to spend time with a <\/span>membro do g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 correto que as pessoas casadas estejam sozinhas com outro homem\/mulher?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Quando se trata de conviver com pessoas do <\/span>g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span>, there’s a difference between hanging out in public\/groups and spending time alone. <\/span><\/p>\n

But, truth be told, you don’t have to hide in an isolated coffee shop or similar in order to be alone with someone.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tanto os homens como as mulheres passam muitas horas juntos no trabalho e, por vezes, t\u00eam de fazer horas extraordin\u00e1rias com um dos seus colegas homens ou mulheres. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fazem viagens de neg\u00f3cios juntos (sei que j\u00e1 imaginou aquelas camas convidativas nos quartos de hotel) e tamb\u00e9m passam algum tempo a relaxar depois do trabalho.<\/span><\/p>\n

Or imagine that there’s only <\/span>uma pessoa<\/span> at the gym at the moment your spouse arrives. The chances that they would communicate are really high because it would be really awkward if they didn’t. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, \u00e9 correto que um <\/span>homem casado<\/span> ou mulher para ficar sozinho com isso <\/span>uma pessoa<\/span> no gin\u00e1sio? Alguns dir\u00e3o que sim, outros dir\u00e3o que n\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I would say yes because there’s no point in pretending that you’re totally antisocial just because you have to be alone with that <\/span>uma pessoa<\/span> no mesmo local. <\/span><\/p>\n

Caso tenha respondido n\u00e3o, a pergunta \u00e9: O que \u00e9 um <\/span>homem casado<\/span> ou um <\/span>mulher casada<\/span> o que fazer numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o destas? <\/span><\/p>\n

Should they turn around and leave once they see there’s only <\/span>uma pessoa<\/span> do g\u00e9nero oposto? Seria muito estranho e uma coisa est\u00fapida de se fazer. <\/span><\/p>\n

Seria correto recusar uma viagem de neg\u00f3cios com um colega do <\/span>g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span>? Our jobs are not something we can play with. We don’t really have a choice when it comes to this, so there’s nothing we can do about it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Portanto, a quest\u00e3o \u00e9: em que situa\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o seria correto que um <\/b>homem casado<\/b> ou uma mulher para estar sozinha com outra mulher\/homem?<\/b><\/p>\n

E a resposta \u00e9: Quando n\u00e3o s\u00e3o fi\u00e1veis (n\u00e3o s\u00e3o de confian\u00e7a) e\/ou est\u00e3o sob o efeito do \u00e1lcool, ou quando essa outra mulher ou esse outro homem \u00e9 algu\u00e9m com quem j\u00e1 tiveram um envolvimento amoroso.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ficaria surpreendido com a facilidade com que \u00e9 poss\u00edvel reavivar uma paix\u00e3o antiga.<\/span><\/p>\n

Algumas bebidas, muitas gargalhadas, <\/span>confidente<\/span> um no outro, subtis <\/span>namoros<\/span>, <\/span>apoio emocional<\/span>, plenty of good time and voila; we have a recipe for ‘inappropriate friendships when married’.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mais cedo do que pensas, acabas por evitar todas as <\/span>bandeira vermelha<\/span> and doing something you probably shouldn’t; something you’ve sworn you’ll never do no matter what.<\/span><\/p>\n

Depois de reavivar um <\/span>liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/span> com essa pessoa, <\/span>f\u00edsico<\/span> atra\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/a> will follow. And it’s up to you whether you choose to do something on impulse, or think rationally and retreat. <\/span><\/p>\n

Infelizmente, nem todos n\u00f3s fomos dotados de um forte sentido de auto-controlo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Some people can’t control themselves in critical situations because the urge and temptation to do something they know is wrong is strong. <\/span><\/p>\n

After that they usually feel regret and wish they hadn’t listened to their impulse but rather the rational side of the brain. That is when acquaintances or friendships form into inappropriate friendships when married. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span>7 sinais de que o seu homem est\u00e1 a ter um <\/span>Caso emocional<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Como evitar que as amizades de g\u00e9nero oposto se transformem em amizades inadequadas<\/h2>\n

Se quiser proteger o seu pr\u00f3prio <\/span>casamento<\/span>, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio <\/span>estabelecer limites<\/span> quando se trata de <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00f5es entre g\u00e9neros opostos<\/span> fora do vosso casamento. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso fazer uma lista imagin\u00e1ria de comportamentos aceit\u00e1veis e inaceit\u00e1veis, para saber como reagir em determinadas situa\u00e7\u00f5es. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you know what is considered acceptable, it’s easier for you to <\/span>estabelecer limites<\/span> e cumpri-las. Saber\u00e1 exatamente o que fazer ou o que n\u00e3o fazer quando sair com o seu <\/span>amiga<\/span> ou amigo do sexo masculino. <\/span><\/p>\n

Estabelecer limites \u00e9 o primeiro passo para proteger o seu <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o pr\u00f3pria<\/span> and that’s why it is essential. <\/span><\/p>\n

Here’s a list of rules that will help you set <\/span>amizade de g\u00e9neros opostos<\/span> limites:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Mantenha as suas prioridades correctas<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Um dos maiores perigos da <\/span>amizades de g\u00e9neros opostos<\/span> \u00e9 a vontade de, por vezes, lhes dar prioridade em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao seu c\u00f4njuge. <\/span><\/p>\n

Troca de toneladas de <\/span>mensagens de texto<\/span> numa base di\u00e1ria, incluindo <\/span>dados pessoais<\/span> (reservado para o seu c\u00f4njuge) e seguir todos os seus passos no <\/span>redes sociais<\/span> pode contribuir para dar prioridade \u00e0s suas <\/span>amigo do g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span> sobre o seu parceiro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando se come\u00e7a a fantasiar sobre ter um <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00edntima<\/span> com o seu amigo, a vossa amizade torna-se inapropriada a um certo n\u00edvel. <\/span><\/p>\n

When you blackmail your partner by saying that you will abandon them if they don’t accept your <\/span>amizade de g\u00e9neros opostos<\/span>Se o amigo n\u00e3o for o seu amigo, come\u00e7a a dar prioridade a ele.<\/span><\/p>\n

That’s why it’s important to always keep your priorities straight no matter what.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio o que \u00e9 mais importante para si. \u00c9 o seu c\u00f4njuge ou o seu amigo? <\/span>Se a resposta for esta \u00faltima, ent\u00e3o \u00e9 melhor reconsiderar a ideia de se casar.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Seja honesto com o seu parceiro<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Gosto de chamar a isto o assassino silencioso de todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando tem tend\u00eancia para mentir ao seu parceiro sobre o seu paradeiro ou sobre certas actividades com o seu <\/span>amigo do g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span>, you know what you’re doing is not right. <\/span><\/p>\n

Otherwise, you wouldn’t lie to your partner about it, right?<\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, sempre que sentir vontade de esconder algo do seu c\u00f4njuge, pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio porque \u00e9 que acha que precisa de o fazer.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tem medo que o seu c\u00f4njuge fique com ci\u00fames? Ou acha que ele tem motivos para ter ci\u00fames?<\/span><\/p>\n

When you know what you’re doing is not right, don’t do it. Well, don’t do it if you care about <\/span>salvar o seu casamento<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Always be honest with your partner because that’s the only way to prevent <\/span>amizades de g\u00e9neros opostos<\/span> de se tornarem amizades inadequadas quando casados.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Evite qualquer tipo de comportamento de flirt com o seu amigo (especialmente em frente do seu c\u00f4njuge)<\/h2>\n

\"dois<\/p>\n

When we’re having a good time with our friends, we usually have a tendency to get extra personal with them. We subtly touch them while laughing, or make inappropriate jokes and similar. <\/span><\/p>\n

Well, there’s a thin boundary between regular friendly behavior and flirtatious behavior when it comes to hanging out with friends of the opposite gender. <\/span><\/p>\n

Just one inappropriate, subtle touch when laughing could make you look like you’re more than “just friends”. <\/span><\/p>\n

It is easy to cross the line when you’re feeling comfortable in their company and that’s why you need to ensure you avoid any kind of flirtatious behavior with your <\/span>g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span> amigo (especialmente em frente do seu c\u00f4njuge). <\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t want them to feel uncomfortable or to start suspecting you’re having an affair with your friend. You want them to trust you and when they do, then you know there’s nothing you should worry about.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Don’t force your partner to also be friends with your opposite gender friend<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

There is nothing worse than forcing your partner to do something they’re not comfortable with. Just because you enjoy spending time with your <\/span>g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span> friend, this doesn’t mean your partner will enjoy it, too.<\/span><\/p>\n

Todos temos a liberdade de escolher os nossos amigos, pelo que for\u00e7\u00e1-los a aceitar a tua amizade e a passar tempo com eles \u00e9 um pouco ego\u00edsta. <\/span><\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, a principal raz\u00e3o pela qual muitas pessoas come\u00e7am a insistir para que o seu c\u00f4njuge seja amigo do seu <\/span>g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span> \u00e9 porque querem passar mais tempo com o seu amigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

They don’t want to choose between their friend and spouse. I mean, why would they when they can have both? Or perhaps not.<\/span><\/p>\n

The bottom line is, if your spouse wants to hang out with your friend, that’s okay. But, if they don’t, there’s no need to insist they change their mind about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Limitar o tempo que passa com o seu amigo do sexo oposto<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

This one is closely connected with the previous one. If you don’t limit your time spent together with your <\/span>g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span> amigo, pode acabar por passar mais tempo com ele do que com o seu c\u00f4njuge.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se o seu amigo for seu colega, basta passarem algum tempo juntos no trabalho e, por vezes, irem tomar um copo ou algo do g\u00e9nero.<\/span><\/p>\n

Imagine que passava algumas horas por dia no trabalho com o seu colega e depois passava todo o seu tempo livre com ele.<\/span><\/p>\n

Seria um pouco demais, certo? <\/span><\/p>\n

You wouldn’t have time for anything else, like spending quality time with your spouse or <\/span>membros da fam\u00edlia<\/span>. Como em tudo na vida, o equil\u00edbrio \u00e9 a chave para rela\u00e7\u00f5es felizes e saud\u00e1veis. <\/span><\/p>\n

Passar demasiado tempo com algu\u00e9m pode transformar-se gradualmente num h\u00e1bito t\u00f3xico. Negligenciar outras pessoas na sua vida, os seus passatempos e afins n\u00e3o \u00e9 saud\u00e1vel porque a diversidade \u00e9 a chave para a felicidade.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Don’t accuse your spouse of ser demasiado ciumento<\/a>, insane, or “crazy”<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

If your spouse is showing any signs of jealousy or if they are freaking out about something you did or said, don’t take it for granted. <\/span><\/p>\n

There’s probably a reason why they are acting that way and that reason might be connected with your inappropriate friendship(s).<\/span><\/p>\n

The thing is, we all experience jealousy in a different way. Perhaps you don’t see your actions as something your partner should worry about, but they do because that is their jealousy trigger.<\/span><\/p>\n

When that happens, don’t accuse your spouse of being overly jealous, insane, or crazy. Partners who truly care about each other always make sure they show understanding and sacrifice some things when needed.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por exemplo, passar menos tempo com o seu <\/span>g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span> amigo ou evitar fazer uma viagem com ele pode n\u00e3o ser uma mudan\u00e7a dr\u00e1stica para si, mas pode significar o mundo para o seu parceiro. <\/span><\/p>\n

7. Don’t form inappropriate friendships with the opposite gender<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You’re probably thinking: <\/span>Oh really? Like I didn’t know that already. <\/span><\/i>Brincadeiras \u00e0 parte, o que eu quero dizer com evitar a forma\u00e7\u00e3o de formas inadequadas <\/span>amizades de g\u00e9neros opostos<\/span> \u00e9 que \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o a factores inadequados.<\/span><\/p>\n

Um dos factores inadequados mais comuns \u00e9 a idade.<\/span><\/p>\n

Imagine that you’re a 65-year-old man <\/span>mensagens de texto<\/span> e a sair regularmente com uma mulher que est\u00e1 na casa dos trinta. Acha que o seu c\u00f4njuge n\u00e3o vai achar isto um pouco estranho e come\u00e7ar a suspeitar de coisas?<\/span><\/p>\n

Chances are they would and that’s why you need to pay attention to those factors because they are often a true measure of inappropriateness. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Quando o seu maior amor se casa com o seu maior amor<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

8 Sinais de alerta de que h\u00e1\/havia um interesse rom\u00e2ntico numa amizade de g\u00e9nero oposto<\/h2>\n

Se notar algum dos seguintes sinais, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que o seu <\/span>amizade de g\u00e9neros opostos<\/span> \u00e9 ou foi mais do que isso:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Constantly repeating that you’re “just friends”<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Se disseres <\/span>We’re just friends<\/span><\/i> once or twice, it’s really not a big deal, but if you keep repeating it, then it’s something you should worry about. Why?<\/span><\/p>\n

Because repeating things doesn’t only mean reassuring others that you’re just friends, it often means that you’re trying to convince yourself to believe something you know is not true.<\/span><\/p>\n

This happens on a subconscious level, so we’re mostly unaware of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas, se reparar que continua a repeti-lo, apesar de ningu\u00e9m lhe ter dito nada sobre o assunto, ent\u00e3o sabe que tem o desejo de justificar as coisas, obviamente, por uma raz\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span>6 raz\u00f5es pelas quais n\u00e3o se pode ser \"apenas amigo\" de algu\u00e9m que j\u00e1 se amou <\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

2. Partilhar coisas \u00edntimas e aspectos problem\u00e1ticos do seu casamento com um amigo do sexo oposto<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Apesar de as amizades se estarem a tornar cada vez mais flex\u00edveis \u00e0 medida que o tempo avan\u00e7a, h\u00e1 algumas coisas que devem permanecer no seu <\/span>casamento<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Partilhar coisas \u00edntimas ou aspectos problem\u00e1ticos do seu casamento com o seu <\/span>amigo do g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span> \u00e9 um <\/span>bandeira vermelha<\/span> porque devias estar a faz\u00ea-lo com o teu c\u00f4njuge e n\u00e3o com o teu amigo. <\/span><\/p>\n

It means you feel as if your spouse doesn’t understand you, whereas your <\/span>g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span> amigo \u00e9 aquele em quem se confia. <\/span><\/p>\n

A partilha de coisas \u00edntimas forma uma profunda <\/span>liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional,<\/span> que \u00e9 o primeiro passo para estabelecer uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica tamb\u00e9m.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Compar\u00e1-lo constantemente com o seu c\u00f4njuge<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Your spouse and your friends should be two separate worlds because they’re on a different list of priorities.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se der por si a comparar os seus <\/span>g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span> friend to your spouse, it means you’re prioritizing them equally.<\/span><\/p>\n

You compare them because they lack something your friend has and vice versa. You’re literally weighing up with whom you are more compatible in every aspect of your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Afastamento<\/a> das suas obriga\u00e7\u00f5es e actividades habituais<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You used to play football or go to dance class, but now all of a sudden you don’t have time for it or you’re not interested in it because you want to spend more time with your <\/span>g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span> amigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Or you’re <\/span>mensagens de texto<\/span> them 24\/7 and as a result you constantly feel restless because you don’t get enough sleep, which might influence your job performance, for example.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’re gradually pulling away and the reason why you’re doing so is your best <\/span>g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span> amigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Estar constantemente a pensar e a fantasiar com eles<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Do you often find yourself thinking about them in between your tasks, when you’re feeling bored, or when you’re trying to fall asleep at night.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sonha com eles a toda a hora? Fantasia com a sua intimidade?<\/span><\/p>\n

If yes, then you know your friendship is starting to reek of “inappropriate”. <\/b><\/p>\n

Constantly thinking and fantasizing about them are signs of infatuation. It means you like them so much you can’t stop thinking about them even though you know it’s not right.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Esconder coisas do seu parceiro<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Do you hide your phone from your spouse when you’re <\/span>mensagens de texto<\/span> with your friend? Do you lie to your spouse about your whereabouts when you’re about to hang out or go on a trip with your friend?<\/span><\/p>\n

If yes, then you’re deliberately hiding things from your partner because you know you’re doing something you shouldn’t.<\/span><\/p>\n

By doing that, you’re creating a gap in your marriage and giving your spouse legit reasons to be jealous and suspect you’re having an affair or similar.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Oferecer-lhes presentes pessoais<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Quantas vezes j\u00e1 foi \u00e0 loja e pensou em comprar algo para o seu <\/span>g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span> amigo? Quantas vezes alguma coisa te fez lembrar deles e pensaste que eles iam gostar muito?<\/span><\/p>\n

Oferecer-lhes presentes pessoais significa esfor\u00e7ar-se para <\/span>faz\u00ea-los sentir-se especiais<\/span><\/a>que \u00e9 algo que devem fazer no vosso casamento.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you can’t remember the last time you surprised your spouse with a personal, unique gift, then it’s time to question your priorities and your friendship as well.<\/span><\/p>\n

8. Pretender passar algum tempo a s\u00f3s e deixar-se levar pela corrente<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Do you often fantasize about being alone with them and that fantasy includes intimacy as well? Have you thought about going with the flow and indulging yourself despite the fact you’re still married?<\/span><\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 o maior <\/span>bandeira vermelha<\/span> that you’re definitely not “just friends”, given that you’re seriously thinking about being more than that. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Limites de um casamento saud\u00e1vel com os amigos: 7 melhores exemplos<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\n

If you’ve just realized that you or your spouse are suffering from a trending syndrome called “inappropriate friendships when married”, reset your priorities, talk to each other and, most importantly, be honest with each other. <\/span><\/p>\n

Remember that there’s nothing worse than doing something behind each other’s back. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Sempre <\/span>estabelecer limites<\/span> para proteger o vosso casamento e no caso de a vossa amizade com o <\/span>g\u00e9nero oposto<\/span> becomes inappropriate, press the pause button and reset your priorities (of course, assuming that you’re still in love with your spouse and you care about them). <\/span><\/p>\n

If not, sometimes going separate ways is necessary because it’s better than hurting each other or wasting each other’s time. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span>10 Signs He Wants You To Be ‘Just Friends’<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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Just like everyone else, married people also have friends of the opposite gender. These opposite gender friendships are usually perfectly innocent \u2013 until they turn into inappropriate friendships when married!  It’s when they start working extra hours, coming home with traces of lipstick on their collar, excessively texting, and you start wondering: “What the hell…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":82862,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29623],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-82860","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marriage"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29623,"label":"marriage"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Inappropriate-Friendships-When-Married-Are-They-Just-Friends_.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29623,"name":"marriage","slug":"marriage","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29623,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","parent":29620,"count":474,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29623,"category_count":474,"category_description":"Establishing a happy marriage is not an easy task. Learning how to recognize red flags and deal with issues will help you make your marriage successful.","cat_name":"marriage","category_nicename":"marriage","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82860","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=82860"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82860\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82862"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=82860"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=82860"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=82860"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}