{"id":82900,"date":"2020-06-22T12:32:29","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:32:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=82900"},"modified":"2022-05-11T20:09:01","modified_gmt":"2022-05-11T20:09:01","slug":"valores-relacionais-que-todos-os-casais-devem-ter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/valores-relacionais-que-todos-os-casais-devem-ter\/","title":{"rendered":"9 valores fundamentais da rela\u00e7\u00e3o que todos os casais devem ter"},"content":{"rendered":"

Rela\u00e7\u00f5es de sucesso<\/span> don’t come knocking on your door. Instead, they are something that require a lot of effort, devotion, time, and sacrifice.<\/span><\/p>\n

Para al\u00e9m de se amarem e sentirem atra\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica, partilhar <\/span>valores semelhantes<\/span> com o seu parceiro tamb\u00e9m o ajuda a construir uma base saud\u00e1vel para o seu romance.<\/span><\/p>\n

Valores da rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span> s\u00e3o de facto os seus <\/span>cren\u00e7as fundamentais<\/span> sobre como deve ser um romance bem sucedido. S\u00e3o os vossos padr\u00f5es, <\/span>factores de rutura<\/span><\/a>e orienta\u00e7\u00f5es sobre o que acha que deve ser uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o perfeita.<\/span><\/p>\n

Knowing this, you can see why it’s important for you and your partner to have similar <\/span>princ\u00edpios orientadores<\/span> se querem seguir na mesma dire\u00e7\u00e3o e se tencionam construir uma vida em conjunto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, o que s\u00e3o estes <\/span>valores fundamentais importantes<\/span> que voc\u00eas os dois deviam partilhar? Aqui est\u00e1 a lista definitiva de <\/span>valores de relacionamento<\/span> que todos os casais devem ter:<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Respeito m\u00fatuo<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Infelizmente, isto \u00e9 algo que falta a muitos casais e a falta disto <\/span>valor da rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span> traz muitas vezes problemas de relacionamento e, eventualmente, o fim.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o, ter um <\/span>parceiro respeitoso<\/span><\/a> doesn\u2019t mean having a boyfriend or girlfriend who will never tease you or treat you like a king or queen while they\u2019re just an ordinary peasant. <\/span><\/p>\n

Antes de mais, quando algu\u00e9m nos respeita, nunca nos deita abaixo.<\/span><\/p>\n

This person won\u2019t insult you in any way, and they especially won\u2019t do it in front of others. They won\u2019t treat your opinions or actions as completely irrelevant and useless. <\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, o seu parceiro deve respeit\u00e1-lo como indiv\u00edduo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eles devem respeitar o seu <\/span>valores fundamentais importantes<\/span>O seu espa\u00e7o, o seu tempo, o esfor\u00e7o que dedica \u00e0 sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, a sua <\/span>princ\u00edpios orientadores<\/span>, <\/span>cren\u00e7as fundamentais,<\/span> e o mais importante: respeitem o homem ou a mulher que s\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pode perguntar-se o que \u00e9 que isto significa. Bem, antes de mais, significa que eles nunca far\u00e3o nada para o envergonhar ou humilhar.<\/span><\/p>\n

They will appreciate your sacrifices and everything you\u2019ve been doing for the sake of your relationship. They will never do something to devalue you or to make you feel as if they don\u2019t see your worth. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ter <\/span>respeito m\u00fatuo<\/span> doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019ll have a partner who nods their head at everything you have to say. Instead, the two of you are still entitled to have some differences in opinion. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, even when this happens, you\u2019ll just agree to disagree since you respect each other to the point where you won\u2019t try manipulating the other person into changing their mind. <\/span><\/p>\n

2. Aceita\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

A <\/span>valor fundamental<\/span> que anda de m\u00e3os dadas com o respeito \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m a aceita\u00e7\u00e3o m\u00fatua.<\/span><\/p>\n

This value doesn\u2019t seem as significant as it should be at the beginning of your relationship but it is definitely one of the most important <\/span>objectivos de relacionamento<\/span> que se deve procurar alcan\u00e7ar.<\/span><\/p>\n

De facto, com o passar do tempo, todos os casais compreendem a sua import\u00e2ncia. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 que, mesmo quando conhece a sua cara-metade, voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro ter\u00e3o sempre algumas diferen\u00e7as, o que \u00e9 perfeitamente normal.<\/span><\/p>\n

Voc\u00eas s\u00e3o duas pessoas diferentes e seria completamente imposs\u00edvel terem todas as mesmas atitudes, opini\u00f5es, h\u00e1bitos e interesses. <\/span><\/p>\n

Assim, quando descobre estas diferen\u00e7as no seu parceiro, o primeiro impulso que tem \u00e9 <\/span>faz\u00ea-los mudar<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Transformar o seu ente querido num homem ou numa mulher que imaginou para si, modificar a sua personalidade e mold\u00e1-lo de acordo com os seus padr\u00f5es. <\/span><\/p>\n

At first, you assume that you\u2019re doing your boyfriend or girlfriend a favor. After all, you\u2019re the one who knows the best and you\u2019re just trying to make some improvements to them.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bem, deixe-me dizer-lhe uma coisa: o seu parceiro n\u00e3o \u00e9 o seu projeto. Na verdade, \u00e9 melhor esquecer o potencial que v\u00ea nele e concentrar-se no que tem \u00e0 sua frente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Therefore, if there are some things you don\u2019t fancy about them, you have only two options: leave or accept the situation. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lembre-se: este n\u00e3o \u00e9 o seu filho e muito menos algu\u00e9m cujo <\/span>valores fundamentais<\/span> you’re allowed to modify.<\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, we\u2019re talking about a completely formed adult who doesn\u2019t need you raising them to fit your imaginary standards. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que pode e deve inspirar os seus <\/span>crescimento pessoal<\/span> but you can’t be the one to determinethe direction of that growth.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be honest with you: you might find a compatible partner with whom you have <\/span>valores partilhados<\/span> numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span> but there will always be some parts of their personality you\u2019d like to change.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

As much as you love them, there will be some things about them you won\u2019t like.<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, guess what: that\u2019s absolutely your problem. You might believe that your love can change someone but trust me \u2013 that\u2019s one of the biggest deceptions couples allow themselves to believe in. <\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not claiming that you can\u2019t change a thing about your loved one. After all, it\u2019s pretty normal for two people to adapt to the new person they have next to them and to make some slight adjustments to themselves.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, if you try changing the core of the person sitting next to you, you\u2019ll bring both of you problems and your seemingly <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o de sucesso<\/span> mais cedo ou mais tarde, vai acabar por se desfazer. <\/span><\/p>\n

No in\u00edcio, pode querer mudar para o bem do seu parceiro ou vice-versa. Ama-o tanto que quer agradar-lhe e transformar todos os seus desejos em realidade. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, come\u00e7amos a agir como a pessoa que eles querem que sejamos. Enterra o seu verdadeiro eu e coloca uma m\u00e1scara para que o seu <\/span>outra pessoa significativa<\/span> vai gostar mais de si.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, sooner or later, your mask will fall off. Your partner won’t stop there: they saw that they can change you as they please and they continue doing their best to keep on changing. <\/span><\/p>\n

Por outro lado, enquanto continuas a tentar mudar-te, destr\u00f3is a tua <\/span>autoestima<\/span> e a sua frustra\u00e7\u00e3o aumenta.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can\u2019t believe that you\u2019ve lost yourself for the sake of someone else and that you\u2019ve let this person next to you make so much difference to you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sounds like a familiar scenario, am I right? Well, that is all because couples don\u2019t see the importance of acceptance. <\/span><\/p>\n

Confie em mim: num <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o de sucesso<\/span>, your flaws will be treated the same way as your good side since they\u2019re all a part of your personality.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1s amado da mesma forma no teu melhor e no teu pior e as tuas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es ser\u00e3o honradas.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

So, we\u2019re talking about the person you\u2019re about to share your life with. About someone who should be the closest person to you and about your missing piece of the puzzle.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por isso, se \u00e9 algu\u00e9m com quem tenciona envelhecer ao lado, seria bastante inconveniente passar o resto dos seus dias em constante vigil\u00e2ncia. <\/span><\/p>\n

Your life would be true hell on earth if you had to spend every minute of your life being extra careful regarding this person\u2019s moves and expecting them to stab you in the back out of the blue. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 exatamente por isso que um <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/span> has to be based on mutual trust. If you are life partners, it means that you\u2019re partners in crime as well.<\/span><\/p>\n

De acordo com isto, o seu <\/span>outra pessoa significativa<\/span> \u00e9 a pessoa em quem mais acreditas. \u00c9 a pessoa a quem se pode admitir os segredos mais obscuros e os sonhos mais loucos, sem medo de ser julgado.<\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, even if you do something awful, they\u2019re the ones you would go to. This is the person you can trust your life with and someone you can rely upon, no matter what. <\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, even if you\u2019re a part of a couple, you\u2019re not obligated to tell your partner literally everything going on in your head. However, trust means having the ability to do so.<\/span><\/p>\n

Significa ser capaz de partilhar todos os seus pensamentos com eles, sem medo de que eles o traiam e sem qualquer <\/span>quest\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Significa ter a liberdade de expor as suas vulnerabilidades perante essa pessoa, sem ter medo que ela use as suas fraquezas contra si.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, n\u00e3o se esque\u00e7a de que a confian\u00e7a n\u00e3o se constr\u00f3i de um dia para o outro. Em vez disso, ela <\/span>demorar<\/span> before you start to completely trust your partner but once it happens, please don’t break it, no matter what. <\/span><\/p>\n

4. Lealdade<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Normalmente, as pessoas pensam que lealdade \u00e9 igual a fidelidade. Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos que <\/span>fidelidade<\/span><\/a>sendo um dos mais significativos <\/span>valores de relacionamento,<\/span> \u00e9, na verdade, muito mais do que ser fiel.<\/span><\/p>\n

Yes, having a loyal partner means never having to suspect their fidelity. It means not going behind each other\u2019s backs and not even thinking of replacing your loved one with someone else. <\/span><\/p>\n

Being loyal means choosing your loved one every single day. It includes not flirting with another person and not falling in love with someone else while you\u2019re in an exclusive relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

Significa evitar a possibilidade de estabelecer uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional com uma terceira pessoa ou ter um caso emocional.<\/span><\/p>\n

Basicamente, ser leal significa n\u00e3o fazer nada que possa potencialmente prejudicar o seu <\/span>outra pessoa significativa<\/span>\u2019s feelings or harm them in any way possible.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, the most important part of loyalty is never abandoning your partner, no matter what. When I say this, I\u2019m not only talking about the fact that you\u2019ll never physically leave them. <\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, I\u2019m talking about always being by their side, through good and bad times. It means having their back at all times.<\/span><\/p>\n

Significa estar disposto a defend\u00ea-los perante o mundo e estar pronto a arriscar o seu pr\u00f3prio bem-estar em prol da felicidade deles.<\/span><\/p>\n

Significa sermos mais do que meros amantes e tornarmo-nos melhores amigos e membros da fam\u00edlia com o tempo.  <\/span><\/p>\n

A lealdade inclui colocar o seu <\/span>outra pessoa significativa<\/span> e o seu <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica<\/span> primeiro. Significa dar prioridade um ao outro e nunca tratar o seu parceiro como segunda op\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

Lealdade significa estar ao lado do seu parceiro na sa\u00fade e na doen\u00e7a. Significa am\u00e1-lo e trat\u00e1-lo da mesma forma nos seus dias bons e maus e estar presente ao seu lado quando ele ri e chora. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando dizes que tu e o teu <\/span>a outra metade \u00e9 fiel<\/span><\/a>, that means that you protect each other with all of your strength and power against all the world\u2019s evils. It means being united in all of your struggles and holding each other\u2019s hand through all of life\u2019s challenges. <\/span><\/p>\n

Basicamente, a lealdade significa que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 absolutamente nada que a outra pessoa possa fazer para que deixe de a amar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Inclui estar pronto a mover montanhas para o bem do seu parceiro e n\u00e3o o trair, mesmo que a sua vida dependa disso. <\/span><\/p>\n

5. Comunica\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Outra coisa crucial que cada <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/span> se baseia \u00e9 saud\u00e1vel e <\/span>comunica\u00e7\u00e3o aberta<\/span>. Pelo menos, \u00e9 assim que as coisas devem ser se esperam que a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o dure. <\/span><\/p>\n

Como j\u00e1 foi referido, espera passar o resto da sua vida com essa pessoa.<\/span><\/p>\n

In that case, one can only imagine the hell you\u2019ll both have to go through if you don\u2019t put all of your efforts into trying to understand each other.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por conseguinte, se quiser um <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o de sucesso<\/span>Esque\u00e7am a ideia de guardar tudo para v\u00f3s. Esque\u00e7a o facto de reprimir as emo\u00e7\u00f5es e de n\u00e3o se exprimir, pois isso s\u00f3 lhe trar\u00e1 problemas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Antes de mais, ter\u00e1 de aprender a comunicar corretamente com o seu parceiro.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll both have to practice verbalizing yourselves, without insulting each other and accepting what the other person has to say, without being easily insulted, even if their attitudes are different than yours. <\/span><\/p>\n

First and foremost, I\u2019ll have to ask you to forget about things such as <\/span>agress\u00e3o passiva<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you and your partner have a disagreement, giving them the silent treatment and ignoring them won\u2019t help your relationship at all.<\/span><\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, \u00e9 extremamente importante que saiba que o seu ente querido n\u00e3o \u00e9 um leitor de mentes.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eles podem ser a pessoa que melhor o conhece e podem presumir o que est\u00e1 a passar pela sua cabe\u00e7a, mas nunca podem ter a certeza disso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Therefore, if there is something you\u2019re uncomfortable about in your relationship, you can\u2019t expect your partner to magically know what\u2019s wrong without you actually telling them. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can\u2019t demand they see what you\u2019re bothered about or for them to eventually change their behavior regarding a certain matter if you never come clean about it. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be scared of speaking your mind. Trust me: if you start doing this on time, you\u2019ll both be spared a lot of problems.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

O pr\u00f3ximo benef\u00edcio de uma boa comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 visto nos argumentos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Before anything else, I want to tell you one thing: all couples fight so don\u2019t think of your relationship as a failure just because you and your partner have some issues. <\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, the crucial difference between successful and less successful couples lies in the quality of their arguments. Happy couples have productive fights while others don\u2019t.<\/span><\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to say is that when you have <\/span>comunica\u00e7\u00e3o aberta<\/span><\/a>Os vossos argumentos t\u00eam raz\u00e3o de ser.<\/span><\/p>\n

Discordamos de algo, tentamos chegar a um compromisso, resolvemos a nossa discuss\u00e3o e, mais importante, aprendemos com ela. <\/span><\/p>\n

In this scenario, it\u2019s completely irrelevant who is right and wrong. Your common goal here is to overcome this issue. Most importantly: you stand united against the problem you clearly have.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, when you don\u2019t have good quality communication, your arguments usually happen without a valid reason. At least, that is how things look at first sight. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, quando se vai um pouco mais fundo, v\u00ea-se a verdadeira verdade. V\u00ea-se uma enorme insatisfa\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o verbalizada que se foi acumulando ao longo dos anos e que acabou por ter de explodir. <\/span><\/p>\n

In this case, your fights don\u2019t serve a purpose. You don\u2019t fix the problem and you only use these arguments to get rid of all the negative energy that\u2019s been collecting inside of you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Aqui, o ego est\u00e1 em primeiro lugar. O que mais importa \u00e9 ganhar e provar o seu ponto de vista, em vez de resolver o seu problema ou transform\u00e1-lo numa li\u00e7\u00e3o. <\/span><\/p>\n

6. Igualdade<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Um dos mais importantes <\/span>valores de relacionamento<\/span> \u00e9, sem d\u00favida, a igualdade.<\/span><\/p>\n

Apesar de vivermos num mundo moderno em que toda a gente assume que ambos os parceiros s\u00e3o completamente iguais em todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es poss\u00edveis, a verdade \u00e9, de facto, um pouco diferente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Para come\u00e7ar, significa que voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro t\u00eam exatamente os mesmos direitos na sua uni\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

It means that both of your feelings have the same place, that you\u2019re equally important; that both of your needs and well beings are prioritized. <\/span><\/p>\n

Being equal means making decisions together. It means that you accept your partner\u2019s opinion if it is different than yours and vice versa. <\/span><\/p>\n

It includes sharing duties and obligations. It includes financial, emotional, and spiritual equality which doesn\u2019t leave any room for selfishness. <\/span><\/p>\n

Numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o igualit\u00e1ria, no final do dia, nenhum parceiro pode ser submisso ou dominante em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao outro. N\u00e3o existem seguidores ou l\u00edderes. <\/span><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, voc\u00eas os dois marcham pela vida como verdadeiros <\/span>parceiros no crime<\/span><\/a>. You go through this journey shoulder to shoulder, next to each other, and holding one another\u2019s hand, without the intention of ever letting go. <\/span><\/p>\n

There\u2019s no possibility of one partner making orders, while the other does nothing except be obedient and nod their head. There is no fear of speaking your mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

In fact, you\u2019re both allowed to call the other person on their actions at all times. You have the right to be loud about your attitudes and you never feel like your loved one\u2019s doormat or servant.  <\/span><\/p>\n

7. Honestidade<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be real: in <\/span>vida quotidiana<\/span>, all of us lie from time to time. I\u2019m not saying that you\u2019re a <\/span>mentiroso compulsivo<\/span><\/a> ou que mente para seu pr\u00f3prio benef\u00edcio. <\/span><\/p>\n

However, the truth is that sometimes you do hide or change the truth. You might do it to protect yourself, to save your relationship, or to not hurt your partner\u2019s feelings or <\/span>autoestima<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Bem, o que farias se descobrisses que o teu <\/span>outra pessoa significativa<\/span> est\u00e1 a fazer o mesmo? Como te sentirias se soubesses que houve situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que te mentiram e enganaram?<\/span><\/p>\n

Afinal, n\u00e3o \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o bom provar do nosso pr\u00f3prio rem\u00e9dio, pois n\u00e3o? \u00c9 exatamente por isso que a honestidade \u00e9 um n\u00facleo t\u00e3o importante <\/span>valor da rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Antes de mais, o <\/span>a base da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span> tem de ser saud\u00e1vel e honesto. Basicamente, isso significa que deve mostrar o seu verdadeiro \"eu\" desde o in\u00edcio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be scared of revealing your true colors and whatever you do, I\u2019m begging you not to pretend to be someone you\u2019re not just to be more likeable to the other person. <\/span><\/p>\n

Trust me when I tell you that your real face will appear sooner or later and that\u2019s when you\u2019ll encounter a problem. <\/span><\/p>\n

Outra quest\u00e3o importante que deve ser acordada entre si e o seu parceiro \u00e9 a de serem sempre honestos um com o outro.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Significa concordar em ouvir a verdade mais dura e amarga, mesmo que possa partir o cora\u00e7\u00e3o, e escolher sempre a verdade feia em vez de uma mentira bonita. <\/span><\/p>\n

De acordo com a maioria dos <\/span>rom\u00e2ntico <\/span>conselhos sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/span><\/a>Se o vosso parceiro \u00e9 um homem ou uma mulher, os dois devem jurar honestidade, mesmo que isso possa trazer problemas ao vosso c\u00e9u. S\u00f3 assim \u00e9 que demonstram o vosso respeito pelo vosso parceiro. <\/span><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t think of them as an immature child who can\u2019t handle how things really are. Instead, you\u2019re certain about their mental and emotional strength and you know they have what it takes to always be told the truth. <\/span><\/p>\n

At first, you might think that you\u2019re doing your <\/span>vida amorosa<\/span> a favor by telling some white lies which can\u2019t harm anyone.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you make a mistake and hide it, you assume that you\u2019re protecting your loved one\u2019s heart from getting broken. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, esta pr\u00e1tica n\u00e3o \u00e9 mais do que varrer as coisas para debaixo do tapete. Lembrem-se de uma coisa: a verdade encontra sempre um caminho. <\/span><\/p>\n

When it does, your loved one won\u2019t just be upset about the mistake you made.<\/span><\/p>\n

Na verdade, eles ficar\u00e3o mais magoados com o facto de lhes ter escondido a verdade e acabar\u00e3o por perder a confian\u00e7a em si, o que pode ser o princ\u00edpio do seu fim. <\/span><\/p>\n

8. Compromisso<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

In today\u2019s world, the words <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/span> soam quase como fic\u00e7\u00e3o cient\u00edfica.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sim, isto \u00e9 um <\/span>objetivo da rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span> for most but since everyone is emotionally unavailable, they have a lot of emotional baggage they can\u2019t seem to get rid of and have a fear of commitment they can\u2019t control, so it seems hard to reach.<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, despite all of this, I\u2019m here to inform you that your <\/span>vida amorosa<\/span> \u00e9 pouco prov\u00e1vel que seja bem sucedido, a n\u00e3o ser que tanto voc\u00ea como o seu ente querido estejam dispostos a empenhar-se totalmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, antes de o fazer, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio esclarecer o que significa realmente um compromisso. <\/span><\/p>\n

At first, you\u2019ll probably connect this word with exclusivity.<\/span><\/p>\n

You might think that it\u2019s enough to proclaim your romance a real relationship, to put a label on it, to call each other boyfriend and girlfriend, and to agir como um casal<\/a> em p\u00fablico para ser comprometido.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sim, o compromisso \u00e9 tudo isto. No entanto, h\u00e1 outras normas importantes que t\u00eam de ser cumpridas se quiserem realmente ser um casal comprometido.<\/span><\/p>\n

Em primeiro lugar, ambos t\u00eam de estar totalmente dedicados um ao outro e ao vosso <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica<\/span>. Ambos devem estar dispostos, se necess\u00e1rio, a fazer sacrif\u00edcios por isso e a colocar todas as vossas for\u00e7as para que resulte.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you\u2019re both <\/span>empenhado<\/span><\/a>significa que d\u00e1 prioridade \u00e0 sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o acima de tudo, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer.<\/span><\/p>\n

It means that you\u2019re determined to spend the rest of your lives together and that nothing or nobody could break you apart. <\/span><\/p>\n

Basically, all of this means that you\u2019re both putting yourselves out there, without holding any parts back.<\/span><\/p>\n

There is no such thing as half love \u2013 you go all in and you risk everything because you\u2019re certain that you will succeed. <\/span><\/p>\n

9. Amor<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t lie to you: life is not a <\/span>conto de fadas<\/span><\/a> e o amor nunca \u00e9 suficiente para um <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o de compromisso<\/span> para funcionar de facto, se este <\/span>conjunto de valores<\/span> we’ve been talking about doesn\u2019t also exist. <\/span><\/p>\n

You can care for someone deeply, they can feel the same way about you, but if you don’t have <\/span>valores semelhantes<\/span> and can\u2019t get along when it comes to some crucial matters in your life, it\u2019s unlikely that you\u2019ll manage to build a good quality <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, para ser sincero, nenhum destes <\/span>valores de relacionamento<\/span> mean much if they\u2019re not glued together by the most important one: love. <\/span><\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to say is that you can respect someone, have an amazing communication with them, trust them, be completely honest with them, and be one hundred percent committed to making your relationship with them work, but you won\u2019t succeed in doing so if you don\u2019t feel wholehearted, unconditional love for them. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que funciona nos dois sentidos. Ambas as partes devem ter sentimentos profundos uma pela outra que sirvam de <\/span>a base da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span> e como base para todas estas outras <\/span>valores fundamentais importantes<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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