{"id":82939,"date":"2020-06-22T12:59:30","date_gmt":"2020-06-22T12:59:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=82939"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:13:08","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:13:08","slug":"preciso-de-um-homem-bom-leal-e-coerente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/preciso-de-um-homem-bom-leal-e-coerente\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o preciso de um super-homem, tudo o que preciso \u00e9 de um homem bom, leal e consistente"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Porque \u00e9 que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o t\u00e3o complicadas? <strong><em>Why is it so hard to find someone who&#8217;ll see the real you and still choose to love you?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I truly don&#8217;t ask for too much. All I want is to find someone who&#8217;ll love me no matter what. Someone who could reciprocate my feelings.<\/p>\n<p>Someone who&#8217;ll see all my weaknesses, all my imperfections, and flaws and still choose to love me every single day despite all of that.<\/p>\n<p>Tentei sempre ser a namorada perfeita. Aquela que nunca fazia perguntas e sempre entendia tudo.<\/p>\n<p>Uma pessoa que estava sempre pronta a perdoar e a seguir em frente facilmente. <em><strong>Aquele que amava sem limites ou condi\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Eu at\u00e9 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/prefiro-ficar-solteiro-a-contentar-me-com-menos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">liquidado por menos de<\/a> I deserved so many times, convincing myself that it\u2019d get better with time or sometimes even that I didn\u2019t deserve more.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I&#8217;m done with that. I decided to change my tune. I had a deep and honest conversation with myself. I decided to put a stop to that kind of thinking because it was hurting me.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82941\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/pensive-beautiful-young-woman-.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem, bonita e pensativa, segurando o corrim\u00e3o ao ar livre com uma decora\u00e7\u00e3o de balde por perto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/pensive-beautiful-young-woman-.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/pensive-beautiful-young-woman--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/pensive-beautiful-young-woman--768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Also because I know I deserve it. I deserve a man who&#8217;ll prove that not all men are the same. I deserve a good and loyal man.<\/p>\n<p>I deserve a man who&#8217;ll make me a priority all the time. A man who&#8217;ll love and cherish my family and friends as his own. Someone who&#8217;ll buy me flowers or say how much he loves me for no reason.<\/p>\n<p>Algu\u00e9m cujo \u00fanico objetivo ser\u00e1 fazer-me feliz a toda a hora.<\/p>\n<p>The kind of guy who never looks at other women while he&#8217;s dating me. One who tells me that I\u2019m the only woman in his life and his dreams. A man for whom one woman is enough.<\/p>\n<p>You know the one who stands behind his own words and always keeps his promises? A guy who isn&#8217;t afraid to commit to me only, for the rest of his life.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t need some expensive gifts every day. I don&#8217;t need someone who&#8217;ll solve all my problems for me.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not looking for someone too special, someone who&#8217;ll have some special skills or be special in some way. <em><strong>For God&#8217;s sake, I didn&#8217;t ask for a superman. All I want is someone who&#8217;ll love me in a special way.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I only need true and pure love. I want to be spoiled with love a little bit. I want a man who&#8217;ll tell me that he loves me the most and really mean it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82942\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-building.jpg\" alt=\"mulher encostada a um edif\u00edcio a olhar para as luzes brancas nas ruas\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-building.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-building-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-building-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Well, I know that searching for love shouldn&#8217;t be our only goal in life and I know how important it is to create a relationship with yourself first.<\/p>\n<p>Mas demorei muito tempo a passar essa teoria \u00e0 pr\u00e1tica.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The moment I decided to stop settling with less than I deserved was the moment I started building a healthier relationship with myself. That&#8217;s when I realized how important self-love is.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Finalmente vi o meu pr\u00f3prio valor e comecei a valorizar-me mais. Descobri muitas formas de me fazer feliz. E o mais importante, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/passos-para-um-amor-proprio-incondicional\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Aprendi a amar<\/a> eu pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>That doesn&#8217;t mean I don&#8217;t want someone special in my life, it just means that I am special too.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I decided that I&#8217;m going to wait. I&#8217;m sure that my soulmate is out there somewhere. <strong><em>I&#8217;m sure that there are still good and consistent men out there.<\/em><\/strong> I&#8217;m going to wait for him to find me.<\/p>\n<p>If you are asking how I&#8217;ll know that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-sinais-invulgares-da-sua-alma-gemea\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Finalmente encontrei a minha alma g\u00e9mea<\/a>a resposta \u00e9 simples. Ele ser\u00e1 tudo o que eu nunca tive antes.<\/p>\n<p>He won&#8217;t play games like my exes did. He will immediately prove he is a good guy, that I&#8217;m the only woman in his<br \/>\nmind and heart and that he isn&#8217;t going to give up until I&#8217;m completely his.<\/p>\n<p>You see\u2026 <em><strong>I&#8217;m not asking for anything out of this world but a good, loyal and consistent man. It\u2019s just what I deserve and I&#8217;m not settling for less.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-82943\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/I-Dont-Need-A-Superman-All-I-Need-Is-A-Good-Loyal-And-Consistent-Man-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"N\u00e3o preciso de um super-homem, tudo o que preciso \u00e9 de um homem bom, leal e consistente\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/I-Dont-Need-A-Superman-All-I-Need-Is-A-Good-Loyal-And-Consistent-Man-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/I-Dont-Need-A-Superman-All-I-Need-Is-A-Good-Loyal-And-Consistent-Man-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/I-Dont-Need-A-Superman-All-I-Need-Is-A-Good-Loyal-And-Consistent-Man-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/I-Dont-Need-A-Superman-All-I-Need-Is-A-Good-Loyal-And-Consistent-Man-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Why are relationships so complicated? Why is it so hard to find someone who&#8217;ll see the real you and still choose to love you? I truly don&#8217;t ask for too much. All I want is to find someone who&#8217;ll love me no matter what. Someone who could reciprocate my feelings. Someone who&#8217;ll see all my&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":82944,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-82939","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/I-Dont-Need-A-Superman-All-I-Need-Is-A-Good-Loyal-And-Consistent-Man.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82939","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=82939"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82939\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/82944"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=82939"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=82939"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=82939"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}