{"id":8301,"date":"2020-08-10T08:30:00","date_gmt":"2020-08-10T08:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8301"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:11:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:11:54","slug":"carta-aberta-que-o-homem-deu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-aberta-que-o-homem-deu\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta aberta ao homem que desistiu de mim"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>O sentimento de desespero que me deixaste foi ineg\u00e1vel. Dei tudo de mim em ti, para n\u00e3o receber nada em troca.<\/p>\n<p>I hoped one day that you would return. But another part of me knows you gave up on me for more reasons than one. I wish you the best of luck on your journey. I hope one day you find the happiness you couldn\u2019t find in me.<\/p>\n<p>Depois de notar essas flutua\u00e7\u00f5es nas suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es, eu sabia que o que t\u00ednhamos tinha acabado.<\/p>\n<p><strong>I wasn&#8217;t your main priority anymore<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I thought what you were going through was just a phase. You spent less time reaching out to me. You didn\u2019t make plans to see me anymore.<\/p>\n<p>As chamadas eram cada vez menos frequentes. S\u00f3 queria acreditar que talvez a pessoa carism\u00e1tica e persistente que costumavas ser voltasse.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/you-distancing-yourself-is-killing-me\/\">O teu distanciamento est\u00e1 a matar-me<\/a><\/p>\n<p><b>Perdeste o interesse em mim <\/b><\/p>\n<p>I tried to earn you back but I knew I wasn\u2019t the issue. <i> O interesse que tinhas por mim desapareceu. <\/i> Comecei a aperceber-me de que, quanto mais eu me impunha a ti, mais tu fugias.<\/p>\n<p>Your mind was on another agenda. You had your own goals, aspirations, and realities that couldn\u2019t be fulfilled with me as a lifelong partner.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-104916\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/a-woman-sitting-on-a-stone.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher sentada numa pedra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/a-woman-sitting-on-a-stone.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/a-woman-sitting-on-a-stone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/a-woman-sitting-on-a-stone-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/a-woman-sitting-on-a-stone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/a-woman-sitting-on-a-stone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I tried my best to get you to love me again. I wasn&#8217;t able to satisfy your needs. My love will now be given to somebody who desires me as much as I desire them.<\/p>\n<p><b> Teve outros <\/b><\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to lie to me. I knew the whole time. I knew that you weren&#8217;t just focused on me. I saw the way you acted when I accused you of having others. I was never enough for you.<\/p>\n<p>That is why you had to find other versions of me. To achieve a sense of admiration I couldn\u2019t provide for you. I gave you everything. The others that you had on the side just made you feel more empty. I could\u2019ve given you everything that you asked for.<\/p>\n<p><b>You weren&#8217;t ready to settle down<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sempre fui demasiado maduro para o meu pr\u00f3prio bem. As minhas expectativas aumentavam \u00e0 medida que envelhecia. Isso deixou-me cada vez mais insatisfeito. Tentei falar contigo sobre os nossos planos para o futuro juntos.<\/p>\n<p>A verdade \u00e9 que, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sinais-de-que-ele-nao-esta-pronto-o-compromisso-simplesmente-nao-quer-ver\/\">you just weren&#8217;t ready to settle down<\/a>. Em vez disso, levaste-me a acreditar que um dia serias. Eu acreditei em ti. Agora, sinto-me mais sozinho e mais desanimado do que nunca.<\/p>\n<p>Now, we live our lives on completely different spectrums. Different cities. Different lifestyles. A part of me wishes that it didn\u2019t have to be this way. My heart yearns for you to return. I hope you are content in any direction life decides to gravitate you to.<\/p>\n<p>Desististe de mim.<\/p>\n<p>And I hope that one day you seek a person who fulfills you in a way that I couldn&#8217;t. I wish the best for you and your endeavors.<br \/>\n<strong>por Isabella Piper<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-104917 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Gave-Up-On-Me-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Uma carta aberta ao homem que desistiu de mim\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Gave-Up-On-Me-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Gave-Up-On-Me-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Gave-Up-On-Me-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Gave-Up-On-Me-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Gave-Up-On-Me-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The hopeless feeling you left me was undeniable. I put my all into you, to receive nothing in return. I hoped one day that you would return. But another part of me knows you gave up on me for more reasons than one. I wish you the best of luck on your journey. I hope&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":104915,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8301","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/An-Open-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Gave-Up-On-Me-e1603027132108.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8301","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8301"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8301\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/104915"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8301"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8301"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8301"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}