{"id":83038,"date":"2020-07-09T08:14:45","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T08:14:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=83038"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:48:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:48:16","slug":"tu-vales-mais-do-que-segundos-pensamentos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tu-vales-mais-do-que-segundos-pensamentos\/","title":{"rendered":"Tu vales mais do que segundos pensamentos e talvez"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Querida rapariga,<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Stop selling yourself short. You\u2019re an amazing human being who deserves real love, care, and attention.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t fall for the made-up stories he tells you because he\u2019s unsure about his feelings. If he\u2019s unsure about his love for you, trust me \u2013 you don\u2019t need him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A man who loves you will say he loves you and show it with his actions, he won\u2019t mess around.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A man who truly wants a woman will never leave her wondering if she\u2019s enough. Yes, he could be concerned about some other stuff, but don\u2019t let yourself settle for his <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">talvez<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Talvez<\/i><\/b><b> is a word people use when they don\u2019t want to make an effort but also when they don\u2019t want to deal with the consequences of saying no.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>In other words, it\u2019s a word full of empty promises.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-83041 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-on-road.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com casaco de ganga parada na estrada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-on-road.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-on-road-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-on-road-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s not what you want, in fact, I know you\u2019re sick of it. You\u2019re fed up with \u2018almost\u2019 relationships, feeling like you\u2019re not enough, wondering what\u2019s wrong with you and the men around you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It seems like everyone has their life figured out \u2013 everyone but you. So, what\u2019s the problem?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The problem is you don\u2019t have boundaries, you ignore red flags when you see them, and you make yourself an easy target for men with unresolved emotional issues.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don\u2019t have to wait for someone to decide whether they like you enough or not. That\u2019s a major red flag that usually consists of frequent <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">talvez<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If he takes way too long to respond, if he doesn\u2019t call for days and then texts you out of the blue and struggles to call you his \u2013 I\u2019m sorry, this man isn\u2019t for you. This man isn\u2019t going to make a woman happy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What you need is a person who\u2019s decisive and makes you feel like you\u2019re a team. Someone you can count on at all times.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Life isn\u2019t only about romance and passion, it\u2019s about boring, unpleasant, mundane stuff too.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>That\u2019s why you need someone who chooses you above anything else over and over again and not someone who treats you like an option.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-83054 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-8.jpg\" alt=\"mulher e homem com rel\u00f3gios de m\u00e3os dadas ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-8.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-8-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-holding-hands-8-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A relationship means commitment. It\u2019s a big life project, with the goal of long-term happiness.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t waste your precious time on men who can\u2019t see past superficial things, because you\u2019re worth more than that. You\u2019re not just your looks, a casual good time, or a fun date.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re a woman. A woman who has it all, who doesn\u2019t have to settle for less than she deserves because she knows her worth.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Forget about his sweet-talking if there\u2019s no actual effort. Don\u2019t let yourself be played. Deep down you already know these things, but you\u2019re waiting for a sign to prove you\u2019re right. This is it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Move on and you\u2019ll be happier, I promise you. Move on because there are men who dream about being with women like you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t let his words get to you, don\u2019t think you\u2019re not interesting or pretty enough \u2013 that\u2019s simply not the case. Don\u2019t lose confidence over a man who can\u2019t even take responsibility for the smallest thing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He was the wrong man at the wrong time \u2013 don\u2019t analyze anything further. Be happy because you dodged a bullet.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Once real love comes your way, you\u2019ll see how silly all of this looks. There will be no second thoughts or <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">talvez<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2026 Nothing but big, committed, true love.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-83060 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-fence-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher encostada a uma veda\u00e7\u00e3o de madeira durante o p\u00f4r do sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-fence-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-fence-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-leaning-on-fence-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mereces esse tipo de amor e nada mais.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Mas, antes de tudo isso, lembrem-se disto: A autoestima vem de dentro. Ningu\u00e9m mais \u00e9 respons\u00e1vel pela nossa autoestima.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It doesn\u2019t come from what someone said about you and it doesn\u2019t come from men choosing you or leaving you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>A nossa autoestima vem do facto de nos orgulharmos de quem somos. Vem do respeito por si pr\u00f3prio e da aprecia\u00e7\u00e3o do seu pr\u00f3prio ser, dos seus talentos, da sua criatividade, da sua beleza.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many things in life change and you can\u2019t control everything, but there\u2019s one thing nobody has control over, and that\u2019s you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ame-se a si pr\u00f3prio antes de qualquer outra coisa e veja a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o mudar diante dos seus olhos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Aceite os seus defeitos e celebre os seus pontos fortes. Seja suficientemente corajoso para partilhar a sua beleza com o mundo.&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Deixe-se ver por quem \u00e9 e encontre algu\u00e9m que o aprecie assim.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-83061 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Are-Worth-More-Than-Second-Thoughts-And-Maybes-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Tu vales mais do que segundos pensamentos e talvez\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Are-Worth-More-Than-Second-Thoughts-And-Maybes-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Are-Worth-More-Than-Second-Thoughts-And-Maybes-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Are-Worth-More-Than-Second-Thoughts-And-Maybes-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Are-Worth-More-Than-Second-Thoughts-And-Maybes-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear girl, Stop selling yourself short. You\u2019re an amazing human being who deserves real love, care, and attention. Don\u2019t fall for the made-up stories he tells you because he\u2019s unsure about his feelings. If he\u2019s unsure about his love for you, trust me \u2013 you don\u2019t need him. A man who loves you will say&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":83039,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-83038","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Are-Worth-More-Than-Second-Thoughts-And-Maybes.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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