{"id":83085,"date":"2020-07-09T09:21:54","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T09:21:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=83085"},"modified":"2022-06-01T19:41:16","modified_gmt":"2022-06-01T19:41:16","slug":"seras-sempre-demasiado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/seras-sempre-demasiado\/","title":{"rendered":"Tu ser\u00e1s sempre demasiado para algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o te merece"},"content":{"rendered":"

Let\u2019s be real about one thing: As a woman, there will be many opportunities when you\u2019ll be told that you\u2019re \u2018too much\u2019<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Situations in which you\u2019ll be accused of wanting too much, asking too much and expecting too much.<\/p>\n

This is especially true when it comes to romantic relationships. After all, this is something you\u2019ve been facing for as long as you can remember, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

You see, as a woman, you\u2019re always expected to make compromises.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong; I\u2019m not talking about meeting your partner halfway here, because that is something you should definitely try to do in every relationship.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about making compromises with yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about being less demanding, less emotional or even pretending to be less smart and less successful in order for men to accept you better.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re expected to lower yourself in order for a guy to feel like the bigger man. Expected to do everything possible to prevent him from feeling threatened by you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

De acordo com isto, o homem n\u00e3o tem culpa de n\u00e3o conseguir seguir o seu ritmo. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Instead, you\u2019re guilty of not stooping to his level so he doesn\u2019t feel intimidated. Guilty for being better and for having the decency of being everything more.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 em tenra idade, v\u00e1rios homens lhe disseram que os seus padr\u00f5es eram demasiado elevados.<\/p>\n

Even your closest friends accused you of believing in fairy tales and telling you that you were searching for Mr. Perfect, who didn\u2019t exist.<\/p>\n

Well, I\u2019m here to beg you not to believe them. Aqui para vos pedir que nunca o fa\u00e7am baixar os seus padr\u00f5es<\/a>Nunca desista dos seus obst\u00e1culos e, acima de tudo, nunca se contente com menos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It seems that in the modern dating world, you should consider yourself lucky to find a man who won\u2019t cheat on you right in front of you.<\/p>\n

Segundo algumas pessoas, devemos contentar-nos com um homem que tem a dec\u00eancia de nos escolher e de se decidir por n\u00f3s, sem nos enganar.<\/p>\n

No, you haven\u2019t won the lottery just because you ran into a guy who labels your relationship and who publicly calls you his girlfriend.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t hit the jackpot for having a boyfriend who sends you a goodnight text and who treats you as his equal.<\/p>\n

Todas estas coisas s\u00e3o fant\u00e1sticas, mas please don\u2019t let anyone tell you that you\u2019re \u2018too much\u2019 for wanting more<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Na verdade, todos os tipos errados que passar\u00e3o pela sua vida tentar\u00e3o fazer com que pense que o pouco que eles t\u00eam para oferecer deve ser suficiente.<\/p>\n

No entanto, quando se encontra um homem que realmente te merece<\/a>, he\u2019ll never make you settle for less.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Este tipo nunca tentar\u00e1 deitar-te abaixo para parecer maior.<\/strong> He\u2019ll never make you feel like you\u2019re not good enough just because it\u2019s the only way for him to feel better about himself.<\/p>\n

Um homem que a mere\u00e7a verdadeiramente nunca lhe pedir\u00e1 que baixe a sua voz para que a dele possa ser ouvida.<\/strong> He\u2019ll never hold you back from your accomplishments so he looks more successful.<\/p>\n

For him, you won\u2019t be too emotional, too demanding or too clingy.<\/strong> Instead, he\u2019ll cherish your vulnerable heart and make sure he never damages it in any way possible.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t be accused of being a smarty pants or a Ms \u2018know-it-all\u2019 just because you have opinions of your own.<\/strong> Instead, he\u2019ll be proud to have uma mulher inteligente e capaz<\/a> como tu ao seu lado.<\/p>\n

For him, you\u2019ll never be too strong or too powerful.<\/strong> Instead, he\u2019ll see you as a role model and as an inspiration to keep moving forward.<\/p>\n

Mais importante ainda, he\u2019ll never see you as too independente<\/a> ou demasiado autossuficiente<\/strong>. Instead, he\u2019ll be happy knowing that you chose him out of all the men in this world, despite not actually needing him.<\/p>\n

So, I\u2019m begging you, every time you are accused of being too much, remember that this guy is out there.<\/p>\n

Sempre que fores acusado de fazer com que um tipo imaturo se sinta menos homem, lembra-te que existe quem te mere\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, every time you are accused of being too much for a guy, remember this: You\u2019re a princess who doesn\u2019t need a smaller crown; you need a man with bigger hands.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t dim your light just because it might blind someone and keep on shining as bright as always!<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Let\u2019s be real about one thing: As a woman, there will be many opportunities when you\u2019ll be told that you\u2019re \u2018too much\u2019. Situations in which you\u2019ll be accused of wanting too much, asking too much and expecting too much. This is especially true when it comes to romantic relationships. After all, this is something you\u2019ve…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":83113,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-83085","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/You-Will-Always-Be-Too-Much-For-Someone-Who-Doesn\u2019t-Deserve-You.jpg",800,511,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/83085","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=83085"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/83085\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/83113"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=83085"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=83085"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=83085"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}