Todas as noites sem dormir, para qu\u00ea? Mais uma desilus\u00e3o e mais um recome\u00e7o, come\u00e7ando do zero.<\/span><\/p>\n How do you let go of something that defined your life for so long? How do you make peace knowing what you thought was real suddenly isn\u2019t?<\/b><\/p>\n Trouxeste-me tanta dor e deixaste-me sozinha e confusa. Perdi todo o rumo da minha vida porque estava t\u00e3o empenhada em fazer-te feliz.<\/span><\/p>\n Esqueci-me de quem era sem ti e depois de teres sa\u00eddo da minha vida, de repente apercebi-me. Precisava de me encontrar de novo.<\/span><\/p>\n I don\u2019t want to see you as an enemy, but I do want to see myself as the hero of my own life.<\/b><\/p>\n For a moment I got scared I\u2019d never get back on my feet again, but now I know I will.<\/span><\/p>\n Life\u2019s an unpredictable journey and I\u2019ve always been a wanderer. I\u2019ve always felt too much yet never ever given up. You couldn\u2019t change that.<\/b><\/p>\n Nem mesmo depois de tudo o que me fizeste passar. Nem mesmo quando me magoaste intencionalmente. Nem mesmo depois de todas as coisas imagin\u00e1rias pelas quais me culpavas.<\/span><\/p>\n I always saw the good in you. I still do\u2026 but it\u2019s time for you to take care of yourself and for me to care about myself.<\/b><\/p>\n That\u2019s the lesson life taught me through you. You can\u2019t change somebody if they don\u2019t want to change themselves, no matter how hard you try.<\/b><\/p>\n Cada um \u00e9 respons\u00e1vel pelos seus pr\u00f3prios actos e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 empatia que fa\u00e7a algu\u00e9m ver os seus pr\u00f3prios defeitos quando se dedica tanto a evit\u00e1-los e a culpar os outros.<\/span><\/p>\n It\u2019s not my responsibility to save you. It\u2019s not my responsibility to keep you entertained and happy.<\/b><\/p>\n Nunca me tinha apercebido disso, mas agora apercebo-me.<\/span><\/p>\n A \u00fanica forma de algu\u00e9m crescer \u00e9 atrav\u00e9s da autorreflex\u00e3o e da humildade, atrav\u00e9s do equil\u00edbrio entre o nosso ego e as nossas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/b><\/p>\n The ego is not always bad, because it\u2019s there to protect us. The problem is when it gets so big there\u2019s no room for anything else but ego.<\/span><\/p>\n That\u2019s when the lack of self-reflection makes you blind to other people\u2019s feelings and needs.<\/span><\/p>\n That\u2019s why I had to take care of them on my own. That\u2019s why I promised myself I will change my life for the better, even if that means living without you.<\/span><\/p>\n I will not make our story an example of failure but of a life\u2019s lesson that needed to happen in order for good things to come.<\/b><\/p>\n N\u00e3o farei do nosso amor uma trag\u00e9dia, mas sim uma aprendizagem.<\/span><\/p>\n This lesson requires self-love and braveness, and I\u2019m here for it.<\/span><\/p>\n I\u2019m slowly learning to love myself for all the things I am. I\u2019m learning how to forgive myself and give myself a second chance.<\/b><\/p>\n I know I\u2019m worthy of real love and pure attention, and I won\u2019t accept anything less.<\/span><\/p>\n Sei que o amor que dou pode ser-me devolvido da mesma forma.<\/span><\/p>\n And above all, I know that I\u2019m enough the way I am.<\/span><\/p>\n Lutei durante tanto tempo para me aceitar e agora come\u00e7o finalmente a ver o que h\u00e1 de bom em mim. Ironicamente, foi s\u00f3 depois de j\u00e1 n\u00e3o estares aqui.<\/b><\/p>\n Recuso-me a colocar a minha felicidade nas m\u00e3os de outras pessoas.<\/span><\/p>\n Now that I know my life is in my hands, I\u2019m ready to make something great out of it.<\/span><\/p>\n I\u2019m ready to start over and think of you as someone who helped me get there.<\/b><\/p>\n As I said before, life\u2019s an unpredictable journey, but I\u2019m determined to make it the best it can be.<\/b><\/p>\n I wish I could say I\u2019m happy I met you, but that would be a lie. On the contrary, I sometimes wish we never met at all. Either way, it is what it is, and now I\u2019m learning to live with your memory in the back of my mind, hoping it would somehow cease to…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":83145,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-83144","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Our-Relationship-Wasnt-A-Failure-But-Redirection-Toward-Good-Things-To-Come.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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