{"id":8334,"date":"2020-09-10T11:52:16","date_gmt":"2020-09-10T11:52:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8334"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:26:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:26:00","slug":"5-sinais-de-que-esta-a-perder-tempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-de-que-esta-a-perder-tempo\/","title":{"rendered":"5 sinais de que est\u00e1s a perder tempo com ele"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No mundo em que vivemos hoje, toda a gente est\u00e1 demasiado ocupada e competitiva para ter tempo para assentar e encontrar uma parceira digna. Os homens s\u00e3o particularmente afectados por esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o, n\u00e3o porque estejam mais ocupados ou mais activos do que as mulheres, mas porque fingem n\u00e3o se importar ou est\u00e3o-se mesmo nas tintas para encontrar um amor profundo e devocional.<\/p>\n<p>A meaningful relationship seems like everyone\u2019s dream, but for a guy these days, a hookup is the easier and more convenient option. Even if it becomes more than a hookup, it\u2019s still a question of how serious he\u2019s gonna take it, and the sad truth is that he is probably just wasting your time <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bustle.com\/articles\/159709-11-ways-to-deal-with-a-selfish-partner-have-a-healthier-relationship\" rel=\"noopener\">para as suas necessidades ego\u00edstas<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>These are the 5 most obvious signs you\u2019re just wasting your time with him.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">He won&#8217;t consider real commitment anytime soon<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121359 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-while-standing.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher conversam de p\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-while-standing.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-while-standing-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-while-standing-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-while-standing-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-while-standing-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-while-standing-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-while-standing-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-talk-while-standing-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So you&#8217;ve met, you like each other, maybe had a few hookups\u2014what now? You talk a lot, and you really start feeling some kind of connection with him but every time you talk you want to ask him: \u201cWhat are we?\u201d. You hesitate with it because you\u2019re too afraid of the answer.<\/p>\n<p>If this is the case, and if he is not going to be the one asking it, then finally do it. If he doesn\u2019t give you a normal answer, avoids the question or states his opinion and expectations of the relationship in a way that doesn\u2019t suit you\u2014end it.<\/p>\n<p>End it before it consumes even more of your life because you don\u2019t have time for that kind of game.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">As conversas giram apenas em torno dos seus interesses<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121360 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-man-explains-to-the-woman.jpg\" alt=\"o homem explica \u00e0 mulher\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-man-explains-to-the-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-man-explains-to-the-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-man-explains-to-the-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-man-explains-to-the-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-man-explains-to-the-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-man-explains-to-the-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-man-explains-to-the-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-man-explains-to-the-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He never asks anything about you except the \u201cHow\u2019s it going\u201d question. After only a few dates, you literally know everything about him\u2014his interests, hobbies, his exes, etc.<\/p>\n<p>Yet, if you said that you like something, he will forget it in the next 5 seconds. I mean, come on, you\u2019re better than that. Don\u2019t waste your time on self-centered, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/strong-women-shut-narcissistic-people\/\">homens narcisistas.<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You can\u2019t be yourself around him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121361 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher est\u00e3o a falar\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-are-talking-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Por muito divertido e bonito que ele seja, sentimos sempre que temos de fingir que somos outra pessoa quando ele est\u00e1 por perto.<\/p>\n<p>Toda a gente quer apresentar-se da melhor forma, mas isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 poss\u00edvel em todos os momentos.<\/p>\n<p>When you two hang out, you don\u2019t talk like you usually do, you don\u2019t dress like you usually would and if you\u2019re not around him, you stalk him trying to find out what he likes.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t ever change for a guy! Don\u2019t pretend you\u2019re someone else. Don\u2019t be uncomfortable around someone just to make that person like you.<\/p>\n<p>You can feel that it\u2019s not going to last for long, so stop wasting your time and keep searching for<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/wait-man-whose-love-feels-like-home\/\"> o homem que se sentir\u00e1 em casa<\/a>. Ele anda por a\u00ed!<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He\u2019s immature<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121363 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-man-laughs-and-paints.jpg\" alt=\"o homem ri-se e pinta\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-man-laughs-and-paints.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-man-laughs-and-paints-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-man-laughs-and-paints-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-man-laughs-and-paints-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-man-laughs-and-paints-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-man-laughs-and-paints-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-man-laughs-and-paints-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-man-laughs-and-paints-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Rapariga, de certeza que n\u00e3o queres perder o teu tempo com este tipo. Se ele ainda joga jogos ou tem figuras de a\u00e7\u00e3o que ainda est\u00e3o na embalagem original, isso n\u00e3o significa que seja imaturo.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 certo que os seus interesses s\u00e3o bastante infantis, mas se o fazem feliz, quem somos n\u00f3s para julgar, certo?<\/p>\n<p>Mas se ele n\u00e3o for capaz de cuidar de si pr\u00f3prio ou de si, n\u00e3o vale a pena dedicar-lhe o seu tempo.<\/p>\n<p>His immaturity can be seen in so many ways and his behavior will probably even embarrass you in public. When something like this happens\u2014it\u2019s time to bounce.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">N\u00e3o parece ter quaisquer planos para o futuro<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121362 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-quarrel.jpg\" alt=\"um homem e uma mulher discutem\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-quarrel.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-quarrel-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-quarrel-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-quarrel-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-quarrel-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-quarrel-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-quarrel-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-man-and-a-woman-quarrel-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Is there anything worse than people who have no ambitions and no plans in their lives? Why would you waste your time with a guy who can\u2019t motivate you in any sense?<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t mean you should dump a guy who hasn\u2019t achieved anything in his life so far, but if he is not planning to change that in the future\u2014do yourself a favor, end it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121358 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Signs-Youre-Just-Wasting-Your-Time-With-Him-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 sinais de que est\u00e1s a perder tempo com ele\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Signs-Youre-Just-Wasting-Your-Time-With-Him-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Signs-Youre-Just-Wasting-Your-Time-With-Him-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Signs-Youre-Just-Wasting-Your-Time-With-Him-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Signs-Youre-Just-Wasting-Your-Time-With-Him-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Signs-Youre-Just-Wasting-Your-Time-With-Him-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the world we live in today, everyone is too busy and too competitive to have time to settle down and find a worthy partner. Men are particularly affected by this, not because they are busier or more active than women but because they are either pretending not to care or really not giving a&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":121357,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8334","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Signs-Youre-Just-Wasting-Your-Time-With-Him-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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