{"id":83591,"date":"2020-07-09T08:20:45","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T08:20:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=83591"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:45:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:45:49","slug":"as-pessoas-mais-solitarias-sao-as-mais-amaveis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-pessoas-mais-solitarias-sao-as-mais-amaveis\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 verdade que as pessoas mais solit\u00e1rias s\u00e3o as mais am\u00e1veis? (Cita\u00e7\u00f5es)"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cThe <\/span><\/i>pessoas mais solit\u00e1rias<\/span><\/i> s\u00e3o os <\/span><\/i>mais am\u00e1vel<\/span><\/i>. O <\/span><\/i>pessoas mais tristes<\/span><\/i> smile the brightest. The most damaged people are the wisest. All because they don’t wish to see anyone else suffer the way they did.\u201d<\/span><\/i>\u2015Jellal Fernandes <\/span><\/p>\n

Esta frase sincera de Fernandes, antagonista transformado em protagonista de um famoso <\/span>mang\u00e1<\/span>\/<\/span>anime<\/span> s\u00e9rie <\/span>Conto de fadas, <\/span><\/i>levanta uma s\u00e9rie de quest\u00f5es sobre o comportamento das pessoas tristes e solit\u00e1rias.<\/span> <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

O desgosto muda uma pessoa.<\/span><\/p>\n

As pessoas t\u00eam tend\u00eancia para se curarem, mas ser\u00e1 que temos essa capacidade? Ser\u00e1 a recupera\u00e7\u00e3o total verdadeiramente poss\u00edvel? <\/b><\/p>\n

Diz-se frequentemente que o tempo ajuda o processo de cura e torna poss\u00edvel a recupera\u00e7\u00e3o. Mas ser\u00e1 que ajuda?<\/b><\/p>\n

There are things we do when we feel like there’s a huge burden hanging over our emotions that make us unable to continue living our lives.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Cada pessoa far\u00e1 algo diferente para se livrar desta sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de cansa\u00e7o e melhorar a sua vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, o facto de se ter conhecido a perda, a dor, o abuso, ou de se sentir exclu\u00eddo e espiritualmente quebrado parece deixar os mais fortes mais s\u00e1bios e bondosos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Porqu\u00ea?<\/span><\/p>\n

Jellal Fernandes says that such a thing happens because those who’ve been hurt try to avoid hurting others. This can, in fact, be very true.<\/span><\/p>\n

As pessoas que passam por um desgosto de amor sabem exatamente como \u00e9 aterrador e desesperante sentir-se no fundo do po\u00e7o e fariam muito para impedir que outros enveredassem por esse mesmo caminho.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, ser magoado faz de si um <\/span>pessoa simp\u00e1tica<\/span>? Sem d\u00favida que sim. A <\/span>cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/span> pode tornar-se mais suave e gentil.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas ser\u00e1 que as pessoas mais solit\u00e1rias s\u00e3o sempre as mais simp\u00e1ticas?<\/h2>\n

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No entanto, por vezes, esta hist\u00f3ria pode ser completamente diferente. Uma pessoa que sofreu um desgosto de amor pode fechar-se, escondendo-se atr\u00e1s de muros feitos para a proteger de ser magoada de novo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Those people will purposely drive their loved ones away because they simply can’t risk experiencing any more pain.<\/span><\/p>\n

Inconscientemente, em vez de se conduzirem \u00e0 recupera\u00e7\u00e3o, oferecendo aos outros mais bondade e aceita\u00e7\u00e3o, magoam as pessoas que os amam.<\/span><\/p>\n

They hide in their loneliness and can’t seem to continue living a fulfilling life anymore. Heartbreak, sadness, and loneliness make them lose their trust and their belief that true love exists. <\/span><\/p>\n

We’ve put together a collection of some really well-put quotes that explore themes of love, loneliness, and kindness. <\/b><\/p>\n

We hope they help those who feel like there’s no way to enjoy their life any more realize that they’re one step away from bliss. <\/b><\/p>\n

Esse passo \u00e9 compreender e aceitar a sua tristeza e transform\u00e1-la em beleza.<\/b><\/p>\n

Cita\u00e7\u00f5es positivas sobre o poder e a beleza de estar por conta pr\u00f3pria:<\/h2>\n

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\u00c9 poss\u00edvel encontrar uma beleza e uma inspira\u00e7\u00e3o incr\u00edveis na solid\u00e3o, se nos atrevermos a explor\u00e1-la at\u00e9 \u00e0s suas profundezas. Estas cita\u00e7\u00f5es falam de como a solid\u00e3o pode ser encantadora.<\/b><\/p>\n

1. \u201cLoneliness is the poverty of self; solitude is the richness of self.\u201d\u2015May Sarton, Journal of a Solitude<\/p>\n

2. \u201cFall in love with your solitude.\u201d\u2015Rupi Kaur, Milk and Honey<\/p>\n

3. \u201cA man can be himself only so long as he is alone; and if he does not love solitude, he will not love freedom; for it is only when he is alone that he is really free.\u201d\u2015Arthur Schopenhauer, Essays and Aphorisms<\/p>\n

4. \u201cI never found a companion that was so companionable as solitude.\u201d\u2015Henry David Thoreau, Walden.<\/p>\n

5. \u201cWe’re born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we’re not alone.\u201c\u2015Orson Welles<\/p>\n

6. \u201cIf you want to be happy, learn to be alone without being lonely. Learn that being alone does not mean being unhappy. The world is full of plenty of interesting and enjoyable things to do and people who can enrich your life.\u201c\u2015Michael Josephson<\/p>\n

Cita\u00e7\u00f5es motivacionais para o fazer apreciar os benef\u00edcios da solid\u00e3o:<\/h2>\n

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As pessoas que disseram estas palavras compreendem obviamente o que significa estar sozinho e encontraram uma forma de beneficiar de toda a experi\u00eancia, melhorando a si pr\u00f3prias e as suas vidas.<\/b><\/p>\n

1. \u201cSometimes you need to take a break from everyone and spend time alone to experience, appreciate, and love yourself.\u201d\u2015Robert Tew<\/p>\n

2. \u201cYour solitude will be a support and a home for you, even in the midst of very unfamiliar circumstances, and from it you will find all your paths.\u201d\u2015Rainer Maria Rilke<\/p>\n

3. \u201cBut many of us seek community solely to escape the fear of being alone. Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.\u201d\u2015bell hooks<\/p>\n

4. \u201cIn order to be open to creativity, one must have the capacity for constructive use of solitude. One must overcome the fear of being alone.\u201d\u2015Rollo May, Man\u2019s Search for Himself<\/p>\n

5. \u201cThe more powerful and original a mind, the more it will incline towards the religion of solitude.\u201d\u2015Aldous Huxley<\/p>\n

6. \u201cMy alone feels so good, I’ll only have you if you’re sweeter than my solitude.\u201d\u2015Warsan Shire<\/p>\n

7. \u201cNobody is ever going to be able to fill your you shaped hole for you…The gaping hole we all have inside that deeply craves validation, love and comfort.\u201d\u2015Chidere Eggerue<\/p>\n

Cita\u00e7\u00f5es inspiradoras: Cita\u00e7\u00f5es do dia sobre a aceita\u00e7\u00e3o da solid\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

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Estes s\u00e3o <\/b>cita\u00e7\u00f5es inspiradoras<\/b> sobre aceitar a solid\u00e3o como algo que pode mudar a forma como se v\u00ea o mundo e as rela\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ser solit\u00e1rio pode significar viver uma vida incrivelmente inspirada, art\u00edstica e criativa.<\/b><\/p>\n

1. \u201cAll great and precious things are lonely.\u201d\u2015John Steinbeck<\/p>\n

2. \u201cLoneliness adds beauty to life. It puts a special burn on sunsets and makes night air smell better.\u201d\u2015Henry Rollins<\/p>\n

3. \u201cLoneliness is not a lack of company, loneliness is lack of purpose.\u201d\u2015Guillermo Maldonado<\/p>\n

4. \u201cI used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone. It\u2019s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone.\u201d\u2015Bobcat Goldthwait<\/p>\n

5. \u201cA season of loneliness and isolation is when the caterpillar gets its wings. Remember that next time you feel alone.\u201d\u2014Mandy Hale<\/p>\n

6. \u201cPeople think being alone makes you lonely, but I don\u2019t think that\u2019s true. Being surrounded by the wrong people is the loneliest thing in the world.\u201d\u2015Kim Culbertson<\/p>\n

7. \u201cIt is better to be lonely than allow people who are not going anywhere keep you from your destiny.\u201d\u2015Joel Osteen<\/p>\n

8. \u201cIt is only when we silent the blaring sounds of our daily existence that we can finally hear the whispers of truth that life reveals to us, as it stands knocking on the doorsteps of our hearts.\u201d\u2015K.T. Jong<\/p>\n

9. \u201cI wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness the astonishing light of your own being.\u201d\u2015Hafiz<\/p>\n

Cita\u00e7\u00f5es de vida para solit\u00e1rios: Estar sozinho pode ser incr\u00edvel:<\/h2>\n

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As pessoas mais tristes<\/b> podem realmente brilhar mais, se aprenderem quanta beleza pode ser encontrada na sua vida.<\/b><\/p>\n

1. \u201cBeing alone & actually sitting with our own thoughts can lead to such growth and realizations that are rare in our everyday busy lives.\u201d\u2015Kourtney Kardashian<\/p>\n

2. \u201cWhat a lovely surprise to finally discover how unlonely being alone can be.\u201d\u2015Ellen Burstyn<\/p>\n

3. \u201cAs I get older I\u2019m more and more comfortable being alone.\u201d\u2015Sienna Miller<\/p>\n

4. \u201cThe best part about being alone is that you really don\u2019t have to answer to anybody. You do what you want.\u201d\u2015Justin Timberlake<\/p>\n

5. \u201cIf you smile when you are alone then you really mean it.\u201d\u2015Andy Rooney<\/p>\n

6. \u201cSometimes I think that my own company is more suitable for me than if I were around others. Because of the person that I am.\u201d\u2015Kyle Labe<\/p>\n

7. \u201cUntil you get comfortable with being alone, you’ll never know if you’re choosing someone out of love or loneliness.\u201d\u2015Mandy Hale<\/p>\n

Cita\u00e7\u00f5es engra\u00e7adas para o ajudar a deixar de se sentir triste:<\/h2>\n

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Sometimes, cracking a laugh about something completely random can help you break the cycle of sadness. Let’s give it a try with these <\/b>cita\u00e7\u00f5es engra\u00e7adas<\/b>.<\/b><\/p>\n

1. “I hate it when people ask me what I did yesterday. I don’t know. I breathed a lot. Probably got mad at something … Sighed heavily. The list goes on.”\u2014Anonymous<\/p>\n

2. “Well, apparently rock bottom has a basement.”\u2014Anonymous<\/p>\n

3. “I wanna be 14 again and ruin my life differently. I have new ideas.”\u2014Anonymous<\/p>\n

4. “Honestly, I don’t even play an active role in my life anymore … Things just happen & I’m like ‘Oh, is this what we’re doing now? OK.'”\u2014Anonymous<\/p>\n

5. \u201cNobody realizes that some people expend tremendous energy merely to be normal.\u201d\u2014Albert Camus<\/p>\n

Kindness & Love Quotes: They Aren’t Overrated, They Are Underused<\/h2>\n

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1. \u201cBecause that\u2019s what kindness is. It\u2019s not doing something for someone else because they can\u2019t, but because you can.\u201d\u2015Andrew Iskander<\/span><\/p>\n

2. \u201cMy life’s message is my kindness and love.\u201d\u2015Debasish Mridha<\/p>\n

3. \u201cTreat everyone with politeness and kindness, not because they are nice, but because you are.\u201d\u2015Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart<\/p>\n

4. \u201cLife becomes easier and more beautiful when we can see the good in other people.\u201d\u2015Roy T. Bennett<\/p>\n

5. \u201cLove and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver.\u201d\u2015Barbara De Angelis<\/p>\n

6. \u201cWhat wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness?\u201d\u2015Jean-Jacques Rousseau<\/p>\n

7. \u201cBe kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a harder battle.\u201d\u2015Plato<\/p>\n

8. \u201cBe the reason someone smiles. Be the reason someone feels loved and believes in the goodness in people.\u201d\u2015Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart <\/p>\n

Esperamos que a nossa hist\u00f3ria e as nossas cita\u00e7\u00f5es lhe tenham dado uma nova compreens\u00e3o da solid\u00e3o e da bondade. <\/b><\/p>\n

Lembre-se sempre que as pessoas mais fortes s\u00e3o aquelas que conseguem usar os lim\u00f5es que a vida lhes d\u00e1 para fazer limonada.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ser suficientemente poderoso para usar os seus infort\u00fanios para criar algo belo \u00e9 uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n

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\u201cThe loneliest people are the kindest. The saddest people smile the brightest. The most damaged people are the wisest. All because they don’t wish to see anyone else suffer the way they did.\u201d\u2015Jellal Fernandes  This heartfelt quote from Fernandes, antagonist turned protagonist from a famous manga\/anime series Fairy Tale, raises a lot of questions about…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":83593,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29657],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-83591","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-quotes"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29657,"label":"quotes"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Is-It-True-That-The-Loneliest-People-Are-The-Kindest_-Quotes.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29657,"name":"quotes","slug":"quotes","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29657,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Collection of quotes: These inspirational words of wisdom perfectly capture the essence of love and life with all their challenges, beauty, ups and downs.\r\n","parent":29651,"count":213,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29657,"category_count":213,"category_description":"Collection of quotes: These inspirational words of wisdom perfectly capture the essence of love and life with all their challenges, beauty, ups and downs.\r\n","cat_name":"quotes","category_nicename":"quotes","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/83591","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=83591"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/83591\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/83593"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=83591"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=83591"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=83591"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}