{"id":84393,"date":"2020-07-09T08:31:06","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T08:31:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=84393"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:42:36","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:42:36","slug":"rapariga-que-nunca-foi-a-tal-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/rapariga-que-nunca-foi-a-tal-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a rapariga que nunca foi \"a tal\""},"content":{"rendered":"

For as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve always been a man\u2019s <\/span>segunda op\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve had multiple relationships and different guys have called you their girlfriend but you know that not one of them ever saw you as his soulmate. <\/span><\/p>\n

Esteve l\u00e1 quando eles precisaram de algu\u00e9m conveniente.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quando queriam uma namorada s\u00f3 para ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, quando queriam ser uma namorada de ricochete para os ajudar a curar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido e quando o medo de ficarem sozinhos os dominava. <\/b><\/p>\n

Desde que te lembras, <\/span>you\u2019ve always been a man\u2019s second best. <\/b>A rapariga simp\u00e1tica que, teoricamente, lhes d\u00e1 tudo o que precisam, mas tamb\u00e9m a rapariga que nunca amam verdadeiramente.<\/span><\/p>\n

To put things simply, you\u2019re a good girlfriend \u201con paper\u201d. You are good looking, people consider you funny and interesting, and you\u2019re definitely anything but stupid.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, at the end of the day, you actually have no idea why your relationships end. You never get the closure you need and every guy who has broken up with you just tells you that you\u2019re not the one. <\/span><\/p>\n

None of them have seen you as their forever person. You\u2019ve never felt their unconditional love and undivided attention.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, cada um dos teus namorados amou-te com <\/span>metade dos seus cora\u00e7\u00f5es<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eras suficientemente bom para eles at\u00e9 encontrarem outra pessoa, ou enquanto estavam pacientemente \u00e0 espera de uma rapariga que os p\u00f4s em espera.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s like they used you as a passing station instead of a final destination. They needed you on their journey to finding true love instead of seeing you as their goal.<\/b><\/p>\n

Verdade seja dita, <\/span>all of the loves you\u2019ve had were temporary<\/b>– you were someone who served the moment. <\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

Nenhum homem na tua vida te viu como algo permanente <\/b>ou como uma mulher com quem querem envelhecer.<\/span><\/p>\n

Consequentemente, <\/span>you can\u2019t help but feel like a consolation prize<\/b>. Como a rapariga a quem os rapazes recorrem quando n\u00e3o h\u00e1 ningu\u00e9m melhor por perto e a quem recorrem quando todos os outros os abandonam.<\/span><\/p>\n

The worst part is that you\u2019ve tried your best in each one of your relationships. You\u2019ve never held parts of yourself back and each time, you\u2019ve hoped you\u2019ve finally found your match made in heaven.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, it\u2019s always turned out to be different. You\u2019ve always ended up feeling like a supporting role and you\u2019ve never actually had the chance to be the star of your own love movie. <\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Well, I\u2019m here to ask you not to lose hope. <\/span>Pode n\u00e3o parecer agora, mas acreditem em mim quando vos digo que nenhum destes tipos foi <\/b>a pessoa certa para si<\/b><\/a>tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o. <\/b><\/p>\n

Nenhum deles foi a tua alma g\u00e9mea e a tua pessoa para sempre. Sabe porqu\u00ea? Porque <\/span>esse homem ainda est\u00e1 para cruzar o vosso caminho.<\/b><\/p>\n

As painful as this might be, the truth is that there are some things beyond your comprehension and some events you can\u2019t impact, as much as you try.<\/span><\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to tell you is that none of your past relationships were meant to last. None of your exes were meant to be yours and there is nothing you can really do about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, that doesn\u2019t mean that your Prince Charming won\u2019t come eventually. <\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re sentenced to a loveless life just because you\u2019ve had a few bad experiences. It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019re not meant to be loved or that you should give up on relationships altogether. <\/span><\/p>\n

Acredita em mim quando te digo que um dia destes o teu destino vai mudar drasticamente.<\/span><\/p>\n

There will come a man who will love you in all the ways you\u2019ve never been loved and a man who will always treat you as the only woman in the world. <\/span><\/p>\n

A man who won\u2019t see you as a rebound, as a girl to pick up his broken pieces, or as something temporary. <\/span>Um homem que est\u00e1 destinado a ser seu e que a ver\u00e1 como a sua primeira e \u00fanica pessoa. <\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 tens de esperar pelo momento certo. Al\u00e9m disso, tens de estar preparado para a sua chegada.<\/span><\/p>\n

Porque <\/span>when he comes, he\u2019ll make you realize why it\u2019s never worked with anyone before him.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Para<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

For as long as you can remember, you\u2019ve always been a man\u2019s second choice. You\u2019ve had multiple relationships and different guys have called you their girlfriend but you know that not one of them ever saw you as his soulmate.  You were there when they needed someone convenient. There when they wanted a girlfriend for…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":84394,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-84393","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Never-Been-\u201cThe-One\u201d.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84393","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=84393"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84393\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163602,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84393\/revisions\/163602"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/84394"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=84393"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=84393"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=84393"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}