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He stole it from me and turned me into something I didn\u2019t want to be. Something he wanted me to be. <\/strong><\/p>\n Something he could control\u2014a mannequin disguised as a woman.<\/strong><\/p>\n He was an infinite bastard. A heartless mother fucker. He didn\u2019t care for a single soul in this world except for himself.<\/p>\n He didn\u2019t care for his family or his friends. Actually, he didn\u2019t even have any friends.<\/p>\n And he robbed me of mine, as well. It was so calculated, it was so sneaky and I didn\u2019t get it.<\/p>\n I couldn\u2019t leave just like that. Even when I started to realize what he was doing to me, I couldn\u2019t just walk away.<\/p>\n It\u2019s not as easy as it seems. I know people sometimes judge women who are being abused for still sticking to their abusers.<\/p>\n These abused women even defend their abusers and make excuses for them. Well, it\u2019s easy to play the role of just an observer and judge those women.<\/p>\n Mas viver esse cen\u00e1rio e acordar todas as manh\u00e3s com o est\u00f4mago cheio de medo e com a desilus\u00e3o estampada na cara \u00e9 algo completamente diferente.<\/strong><\/p>\n Estas mulheres t\u00eam medo<\/strong> to leave because they got used to the poor treatment they get. They don\u2019t know any better.<\/p>\n It is insanely weird, because, to some extent, they have at least some kind of security, even if it\u2019s living with an abuser. These homens t\u00f3xicos<\/a> sabem como nos enganar e fazer-nos pensar que gostam mesmo de n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n Sabem como dar-vos aten\u00e7\u00e3o suficiente para vos fazer ficar.<\/strong><\/p>\n And when they do, they turn into toxic sociopaths, their actual real selves, all over again, and the vicious circle goes on. That\u2019s why you can\u2019t leave.<\/p>\n Ele continua a dar-te esperan\u00e7a de que vai mudar.<\/p>\n A \u00fanica coisa que estas mulheres conhecem s\u00e3o os maus-tratos. Quando algu\u00e9m grita e nos agride todos os dias, isso torna-se o nosso ambiente natural.<\/p>\n After some time, those harsh loud insults don\u2019t offend you as much.<\/p>\n His threats and his violent behavior don’t affect you as much. I mean it does affect you, but you swallow it all up.<\/p>\n You don\u2019t shake anymore in front of him, but you go through hell inside of you.<\/p>\n Ele d\u00e1-nos uma dose de si pr\u00f3prio e ficamos viciados.<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s like you are a drug addict. He made you try it a few times and now, you can\u2019t stop.<\/p>\n You need more and more and he keeps giving you something you think you need, something you think you can\u2019t live without.<\/p>\n Quando um toxicodependente fica s\u00f3brio, apercebe-se do que estava a fazer a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n He realizes how much damage he has done to his precious mind and body and he realizes how stupid he was up to the point when he couldn\u2019t have enough.<\/p>\n It\u2019s either give up on drugs or die. It\u2019s the same for you. Leave him or die from the inside.<\/p>\n If your guts are telling you something is wrong, and if you\u2019re feeling like you\u2019ve been imprisoned, if your true self is slowly starting to fade or if you have disappeared completely, then you are being abusado emocionalmente<\/a>.<\/p>\n All of the things I wrote are true, but most of the women who are living it can\u2019t accept it or are afraid to.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re still too scared to take the step to being \u2018sober\u2019, to abandon the sociopath that constantly feeds you with toxicity, remember this\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n Love isn\u2019t supposed to be that way. Love isn\u2019t supposed to yell at you because it\u2019s having a bad day.<\/p>\n Love isn\u2019t supposed to emotionally blackmail you. Love isn\u2019t supposed to make you feel less worthy.<\/p>\n Love isn\u2019t supposed to break you.<\/strong><\/p>\n Mas estes homens s\u00e3o tudo menos amor. Eles gritam, berram e desrespeitam.<\/p>\n These men don\u2019t know how to love. They know how to pretend to love you.<\/p>\n They use their villain manipulative power to gaslight you and make you completely oblivious to what\u2019s happening.<\/p>\n They have the power to control you, but only until you wake up from the nightmare they\u2019ve directed and realize you deserve and want way better than you have now.<\/strong><\/p>\n Open your eyes to save yourself. See what he\u2019s doing to you, and just like myself, run for your life.<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: Voc\u00ea \u00e9 o alvo de um sociopata? 10 maneiras de descobrir<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s his favorite tactic, something he does best. He makes you believe things which are not true.<\/p>\n Mesmo que duvide dele no in\u00edcio e o confronte sobre o assunto, ele apresentar\u00e1 desculpas t\u00e3o fortes e vivas que a discuss\u00e3o se prolongar\u00e1 durante dias.<\/p>\n He will act like it\u2019s not a big deal. Even if you caught him texting another woman who is clearly his mistress, he will make you believe it\u2019s not true.<\/p>\n At first, you will insist on him explaining you the situation, but after some time of hearing the same excuses, you\u2019ll start doubting yourself.<\/p>\n You will actually make yourself believe it\u2019s all in your head, that you are pushing things too far.<\/p>\n That was his plan all along. To make you believe you\u2019re the crazy one and that he never did anything wrong.<\/p>\n He is totally guilt-tripping you. He makes you think you are the one to blame for literally anything\u2014his and your mistakes.<\/p>\n Afinal, ele \u00e9 o perfeito e \u00e9 imposs\u00edvel que cometa um erro. Tu \u00e9s a incapaz, a submissa, a \u00faltima da lista.<\/p>\n \u00c9 assim que ele te chantageia emocionalmente.<\/p>\n If he has troubles in his life, he will guilt you by saying you don\u2019t love him or that you don\u2019t give him enough of your time and that\u2019s why he\u2019s been failing. Not because he is incompetent, but because you don\u2019t try hard enough.<\/p>\n He is obsessed with control. That\u2019s why he has isolated you from the rest of the world.<\/p>\n He doesn\u2019t want you to communicate with anybody but him, so he can feed you with his toxic thoughts and violent behavior.<\/p>\n Por isso, pensa que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada melhor para si, apenas o que ele lhe d\u00e1.<\/p>\n He also knows he can\u2019t keep your attention. After you fall for him, he knows he has to do something to force you to stay.<\/p>\n To make this come true, he has mastered controlling any possible situation, so there won\u2019t be any surprises. This makes you feel like a prisoner.<\/p>\n No in\u00edcio, ele ser\u00e1 perfeito. Ele mover\u00e1 montanhas por si e voc\u00ea por ele. Mas, passado algum tempo, ele mudar\u00e1 e tornar-se-\u00e1 cada vez pior.<\/p>\n Ele vai fazer batota, vai mentir e vai manipular-te. Vai tratar-te como se fosses a \u00faltima da lista de prioridades dele, porque, na verdade, \u00e9s.<\/p>\n And what\u2019s hilarious is that you are supposed to remain perfect and flawless.<\/p>\n Tens de ter cuidado com o teu comportamento e tens de ter cuidado para n\u00e3o o magoares de qualquer forma poss\u00edvel enquanto ele te trata como lixo.<\/p>\n Ele precisa de ser o centro das aten\u00e7\u00f5es e todo o vosso mundo tem de girar \u00e0 volta dele.<\/p>\n If you do something that doesn\u2019t have to do anything with him, he\u2019ll get insanely jealous and make you pay for that \u2018mistake\u2019 you made.<\/p>\n In fact, he doesn\u2019t have an identity of his own. He needs you to boost his ego and to feed him with your approval which is sad when you look at it more closely.<\/p>\n This is again because he doesn\u2019t respect you enough to care. We all have boundaries, we all draw the line when something is too much for us.<\/p>\n Temos coisas que toleramos e coisas que desprezamos.<\/p>\n Well, he doesn\u2019t respect that. He thinks he has the right to set your boundaries for you.<\/p>\n And even if you remain firm and let him realize when it\u2019s enough, he won\u2019t respect it.<\/p>\n He will cross those boundaries every time he wants because he doesn\u2019t care at all about what you need or think.<\/p>\n Ele nasceu assim. Quase tudo o que ele diz \u00e9 mentira. Mente t\u00e3o perfeitamente que nunca se duvidaria dele e \u00e9 coerente.<\/p>\n Ele nunca se perde na confus\u00e3o de mentiras que cria. Mesmo que o apanhem a mentir, ele mant\u00e9m-se calmo e tranquilo. E tamb\u00e9m mentir\u00e1 para sair dessa situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Ele vai us\u00e1-la e sugar a sua energia. E isto vai continuar enquanto ele precisar.<\/p>\n Mesmo quando se est\u00e1 esgotado e n\u00e3o resta mais nada, ele vai deix\u00e1-lo por um tempo para recarregar as baterias e voltar<\/a> e banquetear-se contigo mais um pouco.<\/p>\n Ele vai contagiar-te com a sua toxicidade e impedir-te de veres como \u00e9s capaz, forte e bonita.<\/p>\n O seu principal objetivo \u00e9 assegurar-lhe que \u00e9 um grande nada sem ele.<\/p>\n![\"mulher](\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-worried-woman-starring-at-one-point.jpg\")
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<\/p>\nEle est\u00e1 a enganar-te e a fazer-te sentir que tu \u00e9 que \u00e9s a maluca<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEle est\u00e1 a fazer-te pensar que tudo \u00e9 culpa tua.<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nHe\u2019s a control freak<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nHe\u2019s a complete hypocrite<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nO mundo gira \u00e0 volta dele<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nHe doesn\u2019t respect your boundaries<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEle mente perfeitamente<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEle vai consumir-te lentamente<\/h2>\n
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