{"id":84451,"date":"2020-08-13T13:38:58","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T13:38:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=84451"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:31:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:31:26","slug":"as-relacoes-sao-mais-dificeis-para-as-pessoas-que-pensam-demasiado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-relacoes-sao-mais-dificeis-para-as-pessoas-que-pensam-demasiado\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que os relacionamentos s\u00e3o mais dif\u00edceis para as pessoas que pensam demais"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>As rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o um trabalho \u00e1rduo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Yes, they are beautiful and a lot of times worth that hard work, but sometimes it\u2019s just too much for some people. Especially <\/b><b><i>pensadores excessivos<\/i><\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In order to have a stable and strong relationship, you need to believe in yourself and your partner, and \u2013 you guessed it \u2013 overthinking is what stops that from happening.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/pensar-demasiado-arruina-a-relacao\/\"><b>Pensar demais \u00e9 o que muitas vezes mata as rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/b><\/a><b> no final.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>The problem is the following: Anxious people already know they\u2019re anxious and that makes them feel like a burden right at the start.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anxiety is often accompanied by low self-esteem, which doesn\u2019t help either.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Overthinkers want to meet a person who will understand this, but it\u2019s hard for them to believe anyone could accept them the way they are because \u2013 let\u2019s be honest \u2013 anxiety affects life habits big time.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s what makes you weird at parties and occasionally hate yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-84453 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-touching-her-hair-5.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a tocar no seu cabelo enquanto est\u00e1 ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-touching-her-hair-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-touching-her-hair-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-touching-her-hair-5-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tudo o que parece t\u00e3o f\u00e1cil e normal para as outras pessoas \u00e9 t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil e inating\u00edvel para uma pessoa ansiosa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Porqu\u00ea? A ansiedade \u00e9, de certa forma, uma quest\u00e3o de ser <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/se-tens-medo-do-teu-futuro-estas-a-viver-no-presente\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">incapaz de viver no momento presente<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A vida de um homem \u00e9 uma preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o constante com o que aconteceu ou com o que pode acontecer.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s like a constant premonition of something bad that you can\u2019t control.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s understandable that no one can function normally if they\u2019re in a constant state of stress and fear. That\u2019s what paralyzes a person and makes everyday tasks draining.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>What\u2019s worse, anxious people are more often than not the type of people who notice every little detail around them, which only means there are more things to overthink about.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reparam em olhares estranhos, mudan\u00e7as na voz e nos mais pequenos gestos, e depois exageram o seu significado na sua cabe\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ent\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 que se pode fazer para ajudar uma pessoa ansiosa a ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o normal e saud\u00e1vel?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Uma das principais coisas que pode fazer \u00e9 dizer-lhes que est\u00e1 tudo bem, e faz\u00ea-lo frequentemente. Uma a\u00e7\u00e3o muito simples mas eficaz.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-84455 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-bench-9.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher sentados num banco a conversar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-bench-9.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-bench-9-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-bench-9-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make them see things that are happening at that moment; don\u2019t let them wander around in their mind (especially at the beginning of the relationship where it\u2019s normal for everyone to be a little bit anxious around their partner.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t give them a reason to overthink \u2013 say what you feel right away when something happens.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t be afraid to take control of some aspects of your relationship or life together. You can be the one who decides things because they probably have a problem with being indecisive.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ler nas entrelinhas.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Por vezes, quando respondem com frases curtas, isso pode significar que algo os est\u00e1 a incomodar, mas sentem-se demasiado constrangidos para o admitir.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>O mesmo se aplica a h\u00e1bitos nervosos como brincar com as m\u00e3os, balan\u00e7ar o joelho, etc.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se se aperceber desses h\u00e1bitos, evite diz\u00ea-los: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Porque \u00e9 que est\u00e1s t\u00e3o nervoso?<\/span><\/i> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Est\u00e1s bem?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s only going to make things worse because they will become hyper-aware of themselves and their body language that obviously screams <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">nervoso<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead, try to just communicate and take their mind off of what\u2019s bothering them at that moment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Uma conversa aberta, honesta e atenta resolve quase tudo, incluindo isto. Fa\u00e7am-no com mais frequ\u00eancia.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Understanding someone\u2019s fears is one of the most ultimate love languages. It\u2019s just good to keep in mind that not everyone\u2019s fears are obvious to the eye.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-84457 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5.jpg\" alt=\"homem de t-shirt amarela a abra\u00e7ar uma mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Other than reassuring, conversations, and mindfulness \u2013 it\u2019s important to let them know you accept them for who they are.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Set an example to show them it\u2019s possible to love and care about somebody even when they have certain issues and have a hard time accepting themselves.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Be their safe place, but also be their reality check. It\u2019s possible to do both, it just needs to be done the right way.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Uma pessoa ansiosa pensa demasiado, mas isso tamb\u00e9m significa que se preocupa muito.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The only thing they need is to have full trust in you \u2013 that\u2019s when everything gets better.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Confiar em algu\u00e9m para nos compreender, amar, cuidar de n\u00f3s, proteger-nos e passar por momentos dif\u00edceis connosco n\u00e3o tem pre\u00e7o.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>In return, you get the most amazing love you\u2019ll ever experience \u2013 the love of a person who cares about your every thought and every part of you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Algu\u00e9m que vos apreciar\u00e1 para o resto da vossa vida.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>E quem pensa demais \u00e9 apenas um grande amante disfar\u00e7ado.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-84792 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Is-Why-Relationships-Are-Hardest-For-People-Who-Overthink-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"\u00c9 por isso que os relacionamentos s\u00e3o mais dif\u00edceis para as pessoas que pensam demais\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Is-Why-Relationships-Are-Hardest-For-People-Who-Overthink-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Is-Why-Relationships-Are-Hardest-For-People-Who-Overthink-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Is-Why-Relationships-Are-Hardest-For-People-Who-Overthink-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/This-Is-Why-Relationships-Are-Hardest-For-People-Who-Overthink-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Relationships are hard work. Yes, they are beautiful and a lot of times worth that hard work, but sometimes it\u2019s just too much for some people. Especially overthinkers. In order to have a stable and strong relationship, you need to believe in yourself and your partner, and \u2013 you guessed it \u2013 overthinking is what&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":84457,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-84451","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-hugging-woman-5.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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