{"id":84537,"date":"2020-07-09T08:48:30","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T08:48:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=84537"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:39:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:39:56","slug":"ignorar-coisas-que-nao-interessam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ignorar-coisas-que-nao-interessam\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c0s vezes, a \u00fanica maneira de estar em paz \u00e9 ignorando as coisas que n\u00e3o importam"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Li uma vez que a inseguran\u00e7a mata tudo o que \u00e9 belo e n\u00e3o podia estar mais de acordo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I\u2019ve spent too much time thinking and worrying about the things that add no real value to my life. That\u2019s why I decided to change things around.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I made a set of rules for myself to follow and now I\u2019m sharing them with you hoping you will do the same.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ignore as coisas que o fazem sentir inseguro.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t let insecurities ruin your life. Don\u2019t let them scare you to the point where you alter your life trying to avoid them rather than doing what you really want to do.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O nosso tempo nesta vida \u00e9 limitado. Este pode ser um pensamento aterrador, mas por vezes coloca as coisas em perspetiva.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pense nas coisas que s\u00e3o realmente importantes para si e concentre-se nelas. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/romantic-love\/love-advice\/a-vida-e-demasiado-curta-para-nos-apaixonarmos-por-pessoas-que-nao-nos-tratam-bem\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Life\u2019s too short to waste it on superficial things<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that don\u2019t add value to your life but instead just make you feel miserable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-84539 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-near-wall-7.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente, de camisola vermelha, junto a uma parede e a pensar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-near-wall-7.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-near-wall-7-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-standing-near-wall-7-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Retire do seu ambiente as coisas que o mant\u00eam desmotivado.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aceite a incerteza e continue a avan\u00e7ar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ignorar as pessoas que t\u00eam sempre algo de mau para dizer.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don\u2019t have to listen to or talk to people you don\u2019t like. In fact, you can tell them to get the hell out of your life any time you want.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some people feed off making you feel insecure, ashamed, and sad \u2013 don\u2019t let them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nem todas as cr\u00edticas s\u00e3o m\u00e1s, mas algumas pessoas n\u00e3o fazem outra coisa sen\u00e3o criticar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A forma como os outros vivem a sua vida n\u00e3o \u00e9 a forma como deve viver a sua. Confie no seu julgamento e viva a vida de acordo com as suas pr\u00f3prias regras.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A maneira de viver uma vida aut\u00eantica \u00e9 ouvir o seu pr\u00f3prio cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ignore people who don\u2019t care about you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This is a hard one because sometimes people who don\u2019t care about us are the people we still care about and that\u2019s okay.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What\u2019s not okay is letting them back into your life after they mistreated you, broken promises, and failed you in other ways.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/merecer-a-primeira-opcao-de-alguem\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t let yourself be someone\u2019s option<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> or a second thought. There are so many people who care for you and love you at all times \u2013 focus on their love.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can\u2019t make someone love you and why should you? If they don\u2019t see you for who you are, there\u2019s no point.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Leave behind those who\u2019ve left you behind. As soon as you do that \u2013 new people will enter your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ignore the crippling thoughts that tell you you\u2019re not enough.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-84541 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-leaf-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de top floral preto segurando uma folha verde\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-leaf-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-leaf-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-holding-leaf-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">H\u00e1 tantas perguntas que fazemos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios que ningu\u00e9m consegue responder. Por exemplo: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Porque \u00e9 que isto me est\u00e1 a acontecer?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The truth is there\u2019s nothing we can do but keep our hopes up and look at the bigger picture.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We must work on our self-esteem and invest in our personal growth and that means accepting the fact we\u2019re enough as we are.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not only that but we must make peace and apologize for all the times we\u2019ve said and thought a bad thing about ourselves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Toda a gente tem os seus limites pessoais; toda a gente \u00e9 diferente e toda a gente \u00e9 digna de amor e felicidade, apesar das diferen\u00e7as.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We can\u2019t pretend we\u2019re something we\u2019re not because if we do failure is inevitable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Life doesn\u2019t tolerate fakeness \u2013 it pushes you to discover who you truly are by putting you through painful and stressful situations.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you learn to let go of fear and things that don\u2019t matter, you\u2019ll experience the true beauty of life. You\u2019ll be at peace.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s why learning to let go is one of the main lessons in life. In order to know your worth, you first need to let everything and everyone else go.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Escolhe a paz acima de tudo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Todas as outras coisas passar\u00e3o e tornar-se-\u00e3o in\u00fateis, mas a sua paz interior \u00e9 o que lhe trar\u00e1 a felicidade no final.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-84544 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Sometimes-The-Only-Way-You-Can-Be-At-Peace-Is-By-Ignoring-Things-That-Don\u2019t-Matter-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"\u00c0s vezes, a \u00fanica maneira de estar em paz \u00e9 ignorando as coisas que n\u00e3o importam\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Sometimes-The-Only-Way-You-Can-Be-At-Peace-Is-By-Ignoring-Things-That-Don\u2019t-Matter-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Sometimes-The-Only-Way-You-Can-Be-At-Peace-Is-By-Ignoring-Things-That-Don\u2019t-Matter-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Sometimes-The-Only-Way-You-Can-Be-At-Peace-Is-By-Ignoring-Things-That-Don\u2019t-Matter-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Sometimes-The-Only-Way-You-Can-Be-At-Peace-Is-By-Ignoring-Things-That-Don\u2019t-Matter-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I read once that insecurity kills everything that is beautiful and I couldn\u2019t agree more. I\u2019ve spent too much time thinking and worrying about the things that add no real value to my life. That\u2019s why I decided to change things around. I made a set of rules for myself to follow and now I\u2019m&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":84538,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-84537","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Sometimes-The-Only-Way-You-Can-Be-At-Peace-Is-By-Ignoring-Things-That-Don\u2019t-Matter.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84537","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=84537"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84537\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/84538"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=84537"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=84537"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=84537"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}