{"id":8494,"date":"2017-11-14T12:26:35","date_gmt":"2017-11-14T12:26:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8494"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:39:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:39:58","slug":"nao-acidental-cabra-de-lado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-acidental-cabra-de-lado\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o seja uma cabra lateral acidental"},"content":{"rendered":"

Most women don\u2019t set out to be the \u2018other woman\u2019. Some do, sure, but a good number of us come by it accidentally. We become entrenched in it before we even realize what <\/span>ele<\/span><\/i> \u00e9. <\/span>O que se passa \u00e9 que os homens que traem s\u00e3o muito astutos. Eles sabem como te enrolar, acalmar-te e manter-te por perto, enquanto usam as mesmas t\u00e1cticas com outra pessoa. <\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s easy to say, but if you don\u2019t want to be the side bitch, don\u2019t be the side bitch<\/a>, and don\u2019t let him make you into one. But it\u2019s harder to put into practice if you\u2019re in the dark about his intentions. Learn how to recognize lyrics for what they are and don\u2019t hide your head in the sand. If you know something ain\u2019t right, then something ain\u2019t right. <\/span><\/p>\n

But just in case you were trying to ignore the things you didn\u2019t want to see, let me share with you some signs you might not be his one and only…<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Ele nunca atende as tuas chamadas.<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n

Is he always on the road when he calls you back? Do all of your conversations take place when it\u2019s convenient for him? Pay attention to when he calls, where he is when he calls you, and when he ignores your calls. It\u2019s not hard to detect if there is someone else he is answering to.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Ele vai sempre a tua casa.<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n

Eventually, you have got to see where he lives and if he\u2019s shady about it, chances are good he doesn\u2019t live alone.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. Ele nunca dorme c\u00e1 em casa.<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n

Vamos l\u00e1. Esta \u00e9 simplesmente \u00f3bvia. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 encontros suficientemente cedo de manh\u00e3 para impedir que um homem que quer ir para a cama consigo fique na cama consigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. He ghosts you for days at a time and his excuses don\u2019t add up.<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n

Really, if he wanted to communicate with you, he would. And if he doesn\u2019t, for any reason, can we wave a grande bandeira vermelha<\/a>?<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Despedidas abruptas.<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n

Seemingly out of nowhere your call gets \u2018dropped\u2019 or his phone dies in the middle of your conversation. Maybe it\u2019s a bad network, or maybe his wife walked in.<\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

6. Presentes extravagantes para compensar o mau comportamento.<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n

This one is hard to resist because, well, who doesn\u2019t like presents? But if he\u2019s using them in place of affection and\/or attention, you should be on high alert.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Ele nunca diz o teu nome.<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n

It\u2019s so sweet that he started calling you \u2018babe\u2019 already, but is that so he doesn\u2019t slip up and call you Becky? Generic nicknames right off the bat should not flatter, but concern you. <\/span><\/p>\n

8. Won\u2019t make future plans.<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n

Not even that far in the future either, but if he has to run his schedule by someone else, it will definitely take more than a glance at his planner. Meanwhile you\u2019re holding up your plans \u00e0 espera dele.<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

9. You\u2019re not friends on social media.<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n

If you can\u2019t see his Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram or Twitter, but you know he has them? And you\u2019ve see him using them while he\u2019s with you? Girl, run. <\/span><\/p>\n

10. He\u2019s met all of your friends and you\u2019ve met none of his.<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n

Why? Where are they? Aren\u2019t they curious about you? Do they even know about you? After you\u2019ve been dating for a certain amount of time, these are questions you should feel comfortable to ask.<\/span><\/p>\n

11. Confia no teu instinto.<\/b><\/span><\/h1>\n

Listen to the little voice in the back of your head that always pops up at the worst moment, just in time to ruin everything (i.e. to save you from yourself). That voice isn\u2019t talking to hear itself, it\u2019s trying to save you the pain of ignorance. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes it\u2019s hard to face what you don\u2019t want to know<\/b>. But if you\u2019re someone\u2019s side bitch, the odds are good that\u2019s all you\u2019ll ever be\u2026 and if they\u2019re lying to you, and they\u2019re lying to her, then they are a liar. Anyone capable of doing it once, will be capable of doing it again. You don\u2019t need that mess.<\/span> Find someone who isn\u2019t acting shady and has the room in his life to make you a priority.<\/b><\/p>\n

by\u00a0Tia Grace<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Most women don\u2019t set out to be the \u2018other woman\u2019. Some do, sure, but a good number of us come by it accidentally. We become entrenched in it before we even realize what it is. The thing is that men who cheat are as slick as fuck. They know how to reel you in, calm…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":8499,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29626],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8494","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-affair"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29626,"label":"affair"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/gary-bendig-192227.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29626,"name":"affair","slug":"affair","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29626,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","parent":29620,"count":132,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29626,"category_count":132,"category_description":"If you want to learn more about affairs, here you'll learn about different types of infidelity, how affairs happen, how to recognize a cheater, and more.","cat_name":"affair","category_nicename":"affair","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8494","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8494"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8494\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8499"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8494"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8494"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8494"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}