{"id":8511,"date":"2017-11-14T13:11:46","date_gmt":"2017-11-14T13:11:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8511"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:35:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:35:43","slug":"rapariga-marcou-territorio-hes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/rapariga-marcou-territorio-hes\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a rapariga que marcou o seu territ\u00f3rio, ele \u00e9 todo teu"},"content":{"rendered":"

Antes de mais. Podes ficar com ele. <\/b>Sinceramente. Pensei que conseguia lidar com isso. Apenas a sair casualmente. \u2018Friends with benefits\u2019<\/a>ou como lhe queiras chamar. Tinha a certeza de que, desta vez, conseguiria aguentar. <\/span>When I picked up the phone and called his number, I knew who I was calling and what he would offer. I knew that he would give me the \u2018boyfriend experience\u2019 without anything pesky like an attachment or a commitment to go with it.<\/b> Eu sabia que ele me levaria para o seu mundo e me faria sentir como se pertencesse l\u00e1, mas o meu lugar seria, na melhor das hip\u00f3teses, prec\u00e1rio.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sentia-me s\u00f3 e a verdade \u00e9 que gostava dele.<\/b> I liked hanging out with him, spending time with him. We got along well and we laughed together. I liked him so much in fact that during both our first and second go \u2018round I thought it was actually going to turn into something. When I met his daughter I thought, for sure, it was going somewhere, I was excited that she seemed to like me right away, and that he was bringing me into his world. <\/span><\/p>\n

It didn\u2019t take long after that meeting before he dropped it on me that he just wanted to be friends. He didn\u2019t want to settle down.\u00a0<\/a>\u00c9 que ele era assim. A honestidade. Depois de ter sido enganado e mentido durante anos, era refrescante. <\/span>De alguma forma, pensei que saber logo \u00e0 partida que havia outra pessoa era melhor do que ser enganado. <\/b>I was a fucking moron settling for table scraps. And it would never take long for the reality that I didn\u2019t want to settle for table scraps to bring me back from my delusion. <\/span><\/p>\n

This last time I wasn’t going to be taken in. I wasn’t going to confuse what was what. I was going to go along, enjoy the ride and not catch any real feelings. And that\u2019s what I did, for a minute. Until we started spending more time together, going out on cute little dates, hanging out with his friends. <\/span>I stopped asking questions I didn\u2019t want to know the answers to, and I tried to ignore the sick feeling inside my stomach that knew this was just pretending.<\/b><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o demorou muito at\u00e9 que me lembrasse daquilo em que me tinha metido. Entrei um dia enquanto ele estava em alta voz com um dos seus rapazes. Esse rapaz ouviu-me e perguntou-me, <\/span>\u201cIs that Sarah?\u201d Nope. Not Sarah.<\/b> E esse foi o princ\u00edpio do fim, pela \u00faltima vez.<\/b> Of course I asked, \u201cWho\u2019s Sarah?\u201d and for once his honesty faltered. I knew he must really care about me if he was going so far as to lie. That\u2019s fucked up, right? In any case, he wasn\u2019t committed to me so what could I do? <\/span><\/p>\n

The next time I walked in and saw your pink slippers, I was like, \u2018Whose fucking slippers are these? And why would he leave them for me to see?\u2019<\/b> The answer was so obvious, because he didn\u2019t care if I saw them, and he didn\u2019t care how seeing them would make me feel. You would have thought I would have left immediately. I didn\u2019t. I stayed, we chilled. <\/span><\/p>\n

Fui para casa e sonhei com chinelos cor-de-rosa. Voltei noutro dia e os teus chinelos tinham-se mexido. De certa forma, duvidei que ele as tivesse mudado. <\/span>Os seus p\u00e9s devem ter estado neles enquanto andava por a\u00ed, sentindo-se em casa, e depois voltou a coloc\u00e1-los noutro s\u00edtio.<\/b> O seu territ\u00f3rio estava claramente marcado. Os teus chinelos, \u00e0 porta, como se pertencessem ali. Como se tu pertencesses ali. E onde \u00e9 que isso me deixava? Iria eu deixar algum sinal, ou marca, para que soubesses que eu tamb\u00e9m estava l\u00e1? Ia come\u00e7ar uma guerra com os teus chinelos? Vejo os teus chinelos cor-de-rosa e levanto-te o meu roup\u00e3o roxo?<\/span> No, not me. I\u2019m going to leave this place and never come back. <\/b>Os teus chinelos e aquele tipo est\u00e3o ambos a salvo de mim.<\/span><\/p>\n

by\u00a0Tia Grace<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

First of all. You can have him. Honestly. I thought I could handle it. Just casually hanging out. \u2018Friends with benefits\u2019, whatever you want to call it. I was sure this time I could handle it. When I picked up the phone and called his number, I knew who I was calling and what he…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":8517,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8511","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/jake-davies-252800.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8511","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8511"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8511\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8517"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8511"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8511"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8511"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}