{"id":85439,"date":"2020-07-09T10:54:31","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T10:54:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=85439"},"modified":"2022-02-21T19:12:34","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T19:12:34","slug":"leia-isto-se-ja-esteve-numa-relacao-falhada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/leia-isto-se-ja-esteve-numa-relacao-falhada\/","title":{"rendered":"Leia isto se j\u00e1 esteve numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o de fracasso"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As separa\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o dif\u00edceis, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 d\u00favida. Perdemos a pessoa de quem gostamos muito e, de repente, temos de aprender a viver sem ela.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t matter who initiated the end of your relationship \u2013 whenever it happens, it\u2019s painful for both parties.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you\u2019re the one who happened to stop loving your romantic partner, you can\u2019t help but feel sorry for the fact that you two had to say your final goodbyes.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you\u2019re honest, you\u2019ll see that breakups happen all the time.<\/p>\n<p>This might sound harsh, but the truth is that every couple who doesn\u2019t end up married or as life partners, has to part ways sooner or later.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that statistically speaking, most of your romantic relationships will end up with breakups. Sadly, it\u2019s all a part of life and something we all have to face.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, what can be even worse is when you end things with someone you weren\u2019t even really a couple with.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Passar por um fracasso <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/o-que-e-situationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">situa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> \u00e9 muito mais doloroso do que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o falhada.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sei que muitos v\u00e3o discordar de mim neste ponto, mas acreditem em mim quando digo que <strong>it\u2019s quite possible to miss someone you never actually had<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t only miss this person, you suffer even more for the potential your romance might have had.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85443\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/young-woman-suffering.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher a sofrer com uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o a chorar e sentada num sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"502\"><\/p>\n<p>Chora por todas as coisas que podia e devia ter feito. Todas as coisas que imaginou ao lado deste homem, todos os planos futuros que tinha e o facto de que nada disso se tornar\u00e1 realidade.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve ever been in a failed situationship, you\u2019ll know that it leaves the most devastating consequences on your self-esteem.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Whether you like to admit it or not, you\u2019re not only hurt by the fact that you have to go on without this man, but you\u2019re also devastated that he never had the decency to choose you for real.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Depois de todo este tempo que passaram juntos, ele nunca te chamou namorada. Nunca pegou na tua m\u00e3o e te apresentou orgulhosamente a todos os seus amigos e familiares.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-sinais-de-que-o-grito-nao-quer-o-compromisso-que-esta-a-ignorar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ele nunca quis comprometer-se<\/a> e continuava a recusar-se a p\u00f4r um r\u00f3tulo na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Voc\u00eas nunca foram exclusivos e nunca soube qual era a sua posi\u00e7\u00e3o em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a ele.<\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o, <strong>you assume that you can\u2019t expect anything more or better from any other man<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re clearly not meant to be loved, and you\u2019ll never be enough for a guy to prioritize you and make you the only woman in his life.<\/p>\n<p>Well, let me tell you that you can\u2019t be more wrong. <strong>Just because you had one situationship like this, it doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t form a real relationship<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>I know that this sounds like I\u2019m trying to comfort you, but believe me on this one: It\u2019s not you, it\u2019s him.<\/p>\n<p>It was never your fault that this immature boy didn\u2019t have the capacity to give you what you deserve.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85444\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-woman-staring.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a olhar pela janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"507\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-woman-staring.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-woman-staring-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/sad-woman-staring-768x487.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not to blame for the fact that he didn\u2019t know what he wanted and couldn\u2019t make up his mind about you.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you. You\u2019re guilty of allowing him to keep treating you like this, after realizing that he\u2019ll never be the man you need. I get it.<\/p>\n<p>Esperava que ele mudasse, mas tudo continuava na mesma.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, n\u00e3o vale a pena estar agora a pensar no passado. O que aconteceu, aconteceu, e tudo o que se pode fazer \u00e9 aprender com isso.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez de deixar que esta experi\u00eancia o arru\u00edne de forma irrepar\u00e1vel, tome-a como uma li\u00e7\u00e3o. Aprenda a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/12-tipos-de-homens-que-evitam-namorar\/\">evitar o tipo de homens<\/a> que s\u00e3o claramente jogadores e que, obviamente, v\u00e3o esmagar o vosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Mais importante ainda, <strong>ensinar-se a nunca se contentar com menos do que merece<\/strong>. Realize that it\u2019s not acceptable to be someone\u2019s last resort and don\u2019t let another man ever treat you as such.<\/p>\n<p><strong>S\u00f3 quando atingirem esta mentalidade \u00e9 que ver\u00e3o que o fim desta situa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 certamente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/o-fim-da-sua-relacao-nao-e-o-fim-da-sua-vida\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">n\u00e3o \u00e9 o fim da sua vida<\/a> \u2013 it\u2019s actually a chance for your new beginning.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Only then will you be ready to meet a man who won\u2019t just treat you like his first choice, but his one and only choice.<\/p>\n<p>A man who will always be sure about you, won\u2019t have any doubts about his feelings and will make you feel safe and loved.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-85452\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Read-This-If-You\u2019ve-Been-In-A-Failed-Situationship-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Leia isto se j\u00e1 esteve numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o de fracasso\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Read-This-If-You\u2019ve-Been-In-A-Failed-Situationship-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Read-This-If-You\u2019ve-Been-In-A-Failed-Situationship-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Read-This-If-You\u2019ve-Been-In-A-Failed-Situationship-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Read-This-If-You\u2019ve-Been-In-A-Failed-Situationship-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Breakups are tough, there\u2019s no doubt about that. You lose the person you deeply care about and all of a sudden, you have to learn how to live without them. It doesn\u2019t matter who initiated the end of your relationship \u2013 whenever it happens, it\u2019s painful for both parties. Even if you\u2019re the one who&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":85450,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-85439","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Read-This-If-You\u2019ve-Been-In-A-Failed-Situationship..jpg",800,507,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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