{"id":85466,"date":"2020-08-13T13:41:16","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T13:41:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=85466"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:28:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:28:40","slug":"diferentes-niveis-de-amizade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/diferentes-niveis-de-amizade\/","title":{"rendered":"Diferentes n\u00edveis de desenvolvimento da amizade e a sua import\u00e2ncia"},"content":{"rendered":"

When we’re young and (somewhat) naive, friendship seems like the simplest thing in the world… But did you know that there are actually 5 different <\/span>n\u00edveis de amizade<\/span> desenvolvimento?<\/span><\/p>\n

O seu <\/span>melhor amigo<\/span> era um completo desconhecido, e o <\/span>amigos casuais<\/span> que outrora se transformou em tal <\/span>amigos \u00edntimos<\/span> que muitas vezes nos maravilhamos com o qu\u00e3o imprevis\u00edvel a vida pode ser.<\/span><\/p>\n

You know what they say – a <\/span>bom amigo<\/span> is hard to find and even harder to keep! And they’re not wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n

A fim de manter um n\u00edvel desejado de <\/span>n\u00edvel de amizade<\/span>Em primeiro lugar, tem de perceber qual \u00e9 a sua posi\u00e7\u00e3o em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a certas pessoas e quem s\u00e3o os seus <\/span>verdadeiros amigos<\/span> s\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

So let’s dive into why it’s so vital to take it step-by-step and not rush into anything, and pin down the friendship levels.<\/span><\/p>\n

Diferentes fases da progress\u00e3o da amizade<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

It’s time to pinpoint the main <\/span>n\u00edveis de amizade<\/span> development and how each of them differs from the other. Find out where you stand with each friend and if there’s hope for leveling up.<\/span><\/p>\n

Primeira fase: meros desconhecidos<\/h2>\n

\"duas<\/p>\n

\u00c9 evidente que este <\/span>n\u00edvel de amizade<\/span> is based on a clear lack of awareness of the other person. This stage is the lowest one, but at the same time, it’s one of the most important.<\/span><\/p>\n

How is that? Well, simply put – we all start as strangers. Like I’ve already mentioned, your <\/span>melhor amigo<\/span> was once a stranger. Your co-workers with whom you’re close were once complete strangers.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o tinha qualquer no\u00e7\u00e3o do impacto que eles teriam na sua vida e olhe para si agora. Por isso, dizer que este \u00e9 um n\u00edvel vital \u00e9 um eufemismo.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you’re still strangers, it all depends on the first impression. As sad as it is, if one leaves a bad first impression, chances of a friendship blossoming are slim to none.<\/span><\/p>\n

But if you click, you’ve got a good chance of turning it all around.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s all about continued interaction and the will to <\/span>encontrar-se<\/span> num semi<\/span>base regular<\/span> to establish if there’s a chance for a deeper bond.<\/span><\/p>\n

And by no means should you force anything. If it happens organically, great. But if you don’t feel any type of connection, it’s just not in the cards.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s not the end of the world if things don’t pan out. Those who are meant to be in your life will always find their way to you. A stranger today could become a <\/span>amigo \u00edntimo<\/span> em poucos meses. <\/span><\/p>\n

And isn’t that the beauty of life? You never know how it will surprise you, and that way there’s always a sense of excitement and anticipation.<\/span><\/p>\n

Segunda fase: Conhecimentos<\/h2>\n

\"tr\u00eas<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 o segundo <\/span>n\u00edvel de amizade<\/span> development, and it comes right after the ‘stranger’ one. <\/span><\/p>\n

O <\/span>n\u00edvel de conhecimento<\/span> can be characterized by random interactions on an occasional level that don’t necessarily amount to much.<\/span><\/p>\n

You don’t experience constant communication and you’re not familiar with each other’s personal lives, but you do bump into each other from time to time and develop a brisk conversation.<\/span><\/p>\n

Um conhecido \u00e9 algu\u00e9m que se conhece casualmente do trabalho ou de outro s\u00edtio qualquer, o que, por sua vez, faz com que se vejam frequentemente.<\/span><\/p>\n

But this doesn’t result in meaningful conversation but rather a ”Hi, how are you” – ”Good, how about you” or something along those lines.<\/span><\/p>\n

The other person doesn’t know any of your <\/span>amigos \u00edntimos<\/span>, membros da fam\u00edlia ou com quem gosta de passar o seu tempo.<\/span><\/p>\n

But that’s perfectly normal for this <\/span>n\u00edvel de amizade<\/span>. No entanto, h\u00e1 esperan\u00e7a de progress\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s not uncommon for two acquaintances to become closer with time after they realize that their casual run-ins always result in fun banter or chit-chat.<\/span><\/p>\n

But there has to be a mutual will for that to happen. If it’s one-sided, it’s unlikely to work. Both of you need to be willing to see if you have actual friendship potential.<\/span><\/p>\n

Depois de decidir que quer <\/span>encontrar-se<\/span> and actually see each other intentionally, you’re slowly moving toward the third stage of friendship, which I’ll elaborate on below.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span>Rela\u00e7\u00e3o epistolar: 6 raz\u00f5es para trazer de volta o romance \u00e0 moda antiga<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Terceira fase: Amigos casuais<\/h2>\n

\"duas<\/p>\n

De todos os <\/span>n\u00edveis de amizade<\/span>\u00c9 nesta fase que tem realmente hip\u00f3teses de conseguir. <\/span>Amizades casuais<\/span> significa que tem algum conhecimento b\u00e1sico da outra pessoa.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nesta altura, o seu <\/span>encontros<\/span> s\u00e3o mais frequentes do que as dos conhecidos, uma vez que o n\u00edvel de proximidade \u00e9 mais profundo.<\/span><\/p>\n

What bonds two people in the ‘causal friends’ stage are some <\/span>interesses comuns<\/span> that you both partake in, and your interactions aren’t accidental, but intentional.<\/span><\/p>\n

Moreover, you’re much more likely to be personally invested in the other person, as you’re up-to-date with their life and achievements, and often give them pep talks and support them fully.<\/span><\/p>\n

But on the other hand, the emotional connection isn’t yet as deep as it has a chance of becoming. <\/span><\/p>\n

Quando se trata de <\/span>n\u00edveis de amizade<\/span>, in this one, you start seeing this person for who they are, and vice versa, without putting on a mask and pretending to be someone you’re not.<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 ainda certas qualidades que o impedem de aprofundar a amizade, mas o potencial est\u00e1 definitivamente l\u00e1. Algumas rela\u00e7\u00f5es quebram-se nesta altura, mas a maioria fortalece-se e persevera.<\/span><\/p>\n

The foundation for this friendship isn’t rock-solid, and that can play a large role in how it all pans out.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00eam, sem d\u00favida, potencial para subir de n\u00edvel, mas ambos t\u00eam de estar dispostos a ultrapassar as vossas diferen\u00e7as e a dedicar tempo e esfor\u00e7o para que tudo funcione.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quarta fase: Amigos \u00edntimos<\/h2>\n

\"duas<\/p>\n

De todos os <\/span>n\u00edveis de amizade<\/span>\u00c9 a fase a que a maioria das pessoas aspira. Nesta fase, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 qualquer tipo de conten\u00e7\u00e3o e as duas pessoas est\u00e3o intimamente ligadas a n\u00edvel emocional e pessoal.<\/span><\/p>\n

Amizades \u00edntimas<\/span> such as this allow for a freedom you don’t often experience in other types of friendships.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o s\u00e3o muitas as pessoas que chegam a este n\u00edvel, mas as que chegam sabem como \u00e9 valioso e precioso um <\/span>verdadeiro amigo<\/span> \u00e9. Esta \u00e9 uma zona de amor, compreens\u00e3o, comunica\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel e um sentimento de perten\u00e7a.<\/span><\/p>\n

Amigos \u00edntimos<\/span> cheer each other on like no one else. They push each other to be better, and they are extremely emotionally connected, unlike the casual stage, where it’s still not fully there.<\/span><\/p>\n

O seu <\/span>melhor amigo<\/span> is the person you tell all your secrets to. There is no shame, judgment, or awkwardness. You can simply be your quirky self and share what’s in your heart.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ajudam-se mutuamente a alcan\u00e7ar o vosso <\/span>objectivos de vida<\/span> and you’re sad when the other one is sad, just like you’re pleased for their happiness.<\/span><\/p>\n

A sua exist\u00eancia d\u00e1-nos tanta alegria, como <\/span>amigos \u00edntimos<\/span> are almost like family. They’re not your blood, but they might as well be.<\/span><\/p>\n

To me, this stage is all about being in sync mentally, physically, and spiritually. Two individuals who go through life’s ups and downs together, hand in hand.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ve seen them at their worst and they held your hand when you were falling apart. There is almost no one else you’d call in time of need and vice versa. <\/span><\/p>\n

A compreens\u00e3o que os dois partilham \u00e9 extraordin\u00e1ria e agradece \u00e0 sua estrela da sorte por ter encontrado uma criatura t\u00e3o especial.<\/span><\/p>\n

No way did you ever think someone like them would end up meaning so much to you, but now, you can’t imagine how you’d function without their daily support and encouragement.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span>Como deixar tudo de lado: 12 segredos para a liberdade suprema<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Quinta fase: Membros da fam\u00edlia e parceiros rom\u00e2nticos<\/h2>\n

\"m\u00e3e<\/p>\n

Se pensava que <\/span>amigos \u00edntimos<\/span> was as good as it gets, you were wrong (and that’s amazing, isn’t it?)<\/span><\/p>\n

To think that there’s another level of closeness than the one you share with your <\/span>melhores amigos<\/span> \u00e9 espantoso. Mas existe. E todos os <\/span>n\u00edveis de amizade<\/span> N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada melhor do que os la\u00e7os que partilhamos com a nossa fam\u00edlia e com o nosso S\/O.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t get me wrong. <\/span>Amigos \u00edntimos<\/span> s\u00e3o absolutamente preciosos, e alguns deles chegam ao n\u00edvel da fam\u00edlia, o que s\u00f3 mostra como as rela\u00e7\u00f5es humanas n\u00e3o t\u00eam pre\u00e7o.<\/span><\/p>\n

I’m sure you already know how special the connection you share with your significant other is. They are probably the only person who puts up with your constant shenanigans and still loves you beyond words.<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 coisas que s\u00e3o completamente imposs\u00edveis de descrever (<\/span>which won’t stop me from trying though<\/span><\/i>). E uma dessas coisas s\u00e3o as rela\u00e7\u00f5es especiais.<\/span><\/p>\n

Think about it. The things you share with your siblings are some of the things you couldn’t imagine telling a friend.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o \u00e9 espantoso que, no nosso irm\u00e3o, tenhamos um <\/span>melhor amigo<\/span> for life? Only they’re so much more.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can fight, explode at each other, say all kinds of things you don’t mean, and you’ll always come back to each other. Sometimes, people take for granted how much family really matters.<\/span><\/p>\n

Poucas pessoas suportariam algumas das coisas que fazemos passar \u00e0s nossas fam\u00edlias e aos nossos entes queridos e que continuam a escolher-nos todos os dias.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

E penso que as pessoas deviam estar mais atentas a isso.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada melhor do que ter algu\u00e9m que sabemos que estar\u00e1 sempre presente. N\u00e3o importa o que fa\u00e7as, digas, ou o quanto tentes afast\u00e1-los. A fam\u00edlia (incluindo o S\/O) \u00e9 para toda a vida.<\/span><\/p>\n

Como manter estes n\u00edveis mais pr\u00f3ximos de amizade<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

For starters, never take them for granted. The foundation of every healthy relationship – be it with your partner, sibling, or closest friend – is continual support.<\/p>\n

Esteja presente para eles da mesma forma que eles est\u00e3o para si, sem segundas inten\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Keep an open line of communication. And no, this doesn’t mean constant communication. We all have lives, responsibilities, families, etc.<\/p>\n

All it takes is checking in with them and making sure they’re okay. You don’t have to talk every day for them to know you care.<\/p>\n

Don’t let it go too long without seeing each other. I know that sometimes it takes a lot of effort to find time to spend with those you love most.<\/p>\n

But if you don’t, the relationship will wither. Always make sure to see them on a regular basis, or at least try.<\/p>\n

Never let them think that you’ve forgotten about them. Your closest people need to know they’re not alone. And sometimes, we all get lonely.<\/p>\n

Text them out of the blue just to let them know they’re on your mind. Little things mean the most.<\/p>\n

Always say ”I love you”. Whether it’s your S\/O or your bestie. Everybody loves to hear those three words. And if you do love them, don’t be afraid to say it. Sometimes, that’s all it takes to brighten their day.<\/p>\n

Nunca se esque\u00e7a de que os n\u00edveis mais pr\u00f3ximos de amizade levaram muito tempo para se tornarem naquilo que s\u00e3o hoje. Por isso, nunca deixe de se esfor\u00e7ar para que continuem assim.<\/p>\n

Take care of these relationships, because they’re the most precious thing you have.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span>18 maneiras simples de dar prioridade a si pr\u00f3prio da forma que merece<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que nunca se deve saltar as fases de desenvolvimento da amizade<\/h2>\n

\"duas<\/p>\n

Let’s put it this way. Here is an interesting analogy that perfectly encapsulates the importance of moving up in your friendship level step by step.<\/span><\/p>\n

No jardim de inf\u00e2ncia, fazer <\/span>novos amigos<\/span> is beyond easy. You both agree to like the same animal and you’re immediately friends. And at that point – it’s totally justifiable.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quero dizer, o que \u00e9 que as crian\u00e7as de 5 anos sabem sobre <\/span>boas amizades<\/span>? A eles, dizendo <\/span>Eu adoro<\/span> n\u00e3o tem qualquer significado mais profundo, porque eles gostam dos seus brinquedos quase tanto como gostam dos seus pais (sabem o que quero dizer).<\/span><\/p>\n

When you’re that young, there is no meaning to <\/span>conversa fiada<\/span> and you don’t depend on that <\/span>uma pessoa<\/span> para outra coisa que n\u00e3o seja ser o teu companheiro de brincadeira.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas passados 15 anos, onde \u00e9 que eles est\u00e3o agora?<\/b> Are those friends still in your life? My experience tells me, no, and that’s okay.<\/span><\/p>\n

But do you now get why that’s the case? Because the whole premise behind your <\/span>tipo de amizade<\/span> baseou-se apenas no facto de serem dois mi\u00fados que gostam das mesmas coisas.<\/span><\/p>\n

And when friendships are based on something so silly, they don’t stand a chance. And you can easily incorporate that logic into adult friendships as well.<\/span><\/p>\n

Let’s say you’re in college, you just met your roommate, and you immediately clicked. You consider her part of your <\/span>c\u00edrculo interno<\/span>, as you’ve quickly got to know her on a <\/span>n\u00edvel mais profundo<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

E faz sentido. Quer dizer, passas a maior parte do teu tempo com essa pessoa e provavelmente conheces os seus favoritos <\/span>equipa desportiva<\/span>, ela <\/span>objectivos de vida,<\/span> e v\u00eaem-se num <\/span>base regular<\/span> (<\/span>quer se goste ou n\u00e3o<\/span><\/i>).<\/span><\/p>\n

Adicionaram-se imediatamente um ao outro no <\/span>redes sociais<\/span> e marcaram uma s\u00e9rie de fotografias uns com os outros no espa\u00e7o de tr\u00eas semanas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Saltou o <\/span>amizade casual<\/span> e come\u00e7\u00e1mos logo a ser amigos, pensando que era a s\u00e9rio desde o in\u00edcio.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

And for a while it was. Until your first argument happened and things started to unravel. Maybe you found out she stole your BF, or you heard that she’s been talking badly about you behind your back.<\/span><\/p>\n

Isto fez com que parasse imediatamente no seu caminho e ficasse sem palavras. <\/b>Como \u00e9 que a rapariga que desenvolveu tal <\/span>amizade \u00edntima<\/span> com t\u00e3o r\u00e1pido trair-te assim?<\/span><\/p>\n

I’ll tell you how. Because you never really knew her in the first place. You were two girls who were <\/span>passar o tempo<\/span> juntos num <\/span>base regular<\/span> e tinha muitas <\/span>interesses comuns<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Conheciam-se h\u00e1 algumas semanas e decidiram que eram mais pr\u00f3ximos do que realmente eram.<\/span><\/p>\n

E quando ela finalmente mostrou a sua verdadeira face, isso magoou-o imenso, porque s\u00f3 ent\u00e3o se apercebeu de como essa amizade era realmente superficial.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando se salta <\/span>n\u00edveis de amizade<\/span> de forma t\u00e3o imprudente que s\u00f3 acaba por se magoar a si pr\u00f3prio. N\u00e3o se pode fazer um <\/span>ao longo da vida<\/span> amigo rapidamente. \u00c9 preciso tempo, paci\u00eancia, amor e compreens\u00e3o m\u00fatua.<\/span><\/p>\n

Eu conhe\u00e7o-te<\/span> provavelmente pensavam que tinham algo muito especial, mas na verdade, eram apenas <\/span>l\u00e1. <\/span><\/i>N\u00e3o tinham outra op\u00e7\u00e3o sen\u00e3o verem-se constantemente, o que fazia com que parecesse mais profundo do que \u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n

O meu conselho \u00e9 que n\u00e3o se apresse a fazer estas coisas de cabe\u00e7a. H\u00e1, sem d\u00favida, amizades na faculdade que resistem ao teste do tempo. Posso dizer isso com orgulho.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mas \u00e9 preciso deix\u00e1-los desenvolver-se organicamente. Nada de saltar etapas e nada de se tratarem por \"besties\" no primeiro m\u00eas.<\/span><\/p>\n

If it’s meant to last, it will last. Skipping stages only means deluding yourself and making things worse than they need to be.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span>Como se desligar de algu\u00e9m emocionalmente: 14 passos para o sucesso<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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