{"id":85741,"date":"2020-07-09T11:03:25","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T11:03:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=85741"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:22:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:22:58","slug":"os-narcisistas-conseguem-sobreviver-a-tudo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/os-narcisistas-conseguem-sobreviver-a-tudo\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que parece que os narcisistas conseguem sobreviver a tudo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Parece que, aconte\u00e7a o que acontecer, um narcisista<\/a> encontra sempre uma forma de aterrar de p\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Toda a gente \u00e0 sua volta fica magoada, zangada e devastada e eles conseguem, de alguma forma, encontrar uma maneira de ultrapassar qualquer desastre que encontrem ou criem.<\/p>\n

Depois de tudo they\u2019ve done to you<\/a>, it\u2019s even more frustrating to see them continuing their life as if absolutely nothing has happened.<\/p>\n

So, how do they do it? How come it\u2019s possible for them to survive every kind of tragedy without a scratch?<\/p>\n

First, we have to think about what \u201ca tragedy\u2019\u2019 means to a narcissist.<\/strong><\/p>\n

We can\u2019t compare them to our standards of basically anything that involves emotional attachment because their way of experiencing and perceiving emotions is very different than our own.<\/p>\n

One mistake we all make is to try to apply the rules that work for us to their lives \u2013 and that\u2019s just wrong.<\/p>\n

Porqu\u00ea? Descobri isto depois de muitos anos de luta contra a raiva e a ansiedade causadas por um narcisista na minha vida.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Foi isto que descobri:<\/strong> Passo pela vida utilizando a empatia, a l\u00f3gica e as emo\u00e7\u00f5es para equilibrar o que est\u00e1 a acontecer na minha vida e tomar decis\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Penso nas outras pessoas e se as minhas ac\u00e7\u00f5es as v\u00e3o magoar e tento evitar causar-lhes dor desnecess\u00e1ria.<\/p>\n

A narcissist, on the other hand, has a completely different thought process. When I go through something horrific, I process that tragedy through my emotional responses, and they don\u2019t.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s a tragedy to me is not a tragedy for them. They see the world through their personal gain. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Agem de uma forma que acreditam ser a melhor para os seus interesses, em vez de seguirem os seus impulsos emocionais.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, como \u00e9 que eles parecem livrar-se das emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas depois de perderem algo que lhes interessava, perguntam voc\u00eas?<\/p>\n

That\u2019s where the other aspect of their personality sets in.<\/p>\n

Os narcisistas vivem uma mentira.<\/strong><\/p>\n

O facto de eles atravessarem o caos que criam sem pestanejar \u00e9 apenas uma ilus\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

They seem like the luckiest, wittiest, most charming person in the room while they\u2019re actually using all their energy to appear that way.<\/p>\n

They are never actually happy. They spend most of their lives feeling so low that when something devastating happens it doesn\u2019t even feel new to them.<\/p>\n

They appear like they\u2019re flying and they never seem to fall, but that\u2019s because they were crawling all along.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They don\u2019t easily land on their feet after a disaster as they are never actually on their feet.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They live in a fantasy world that they seem to have created to hurt people around them in order to try and spread their negativity and, just because they can\u2019t seem to reach any high, pull everyone down with them.<\/p>\n

Concentram-se tanto em ganhar, n\u00e3o porque procurem realmente a vit\u00f3ria, mas porque querem que todos os outros vejam como s\u00e3o bem sucedidos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That\u2019s why they\u2019ll do anything in their power to make it look like they\u2019re always on top. Losing \u2013 or better yet \u2013 looking defeated, is the end of the world for a narcissist.<\/p>\n

Never believe anything they say, not even when their lies are supported by evidence, because they\u2019ll sacrifice everything and everyone to put on a show where they are the most superior being walking the earth.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

O maior medo que uma pessoa narcisista tem \u00e9 que as pessoas comecem a perceber tudo isto<\/a> e v\u00ea-los como eles realmente s\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Mesmo quando isso come\u00e7a a acontecer, entram em a\u00e7\u00e3o, enganando e mentindo para se apresentarem da melhor forma poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

O que tem de compreender sobre um narcisista \u00e9 que ele tem a convic\u00e7\u00e3o de que pode fazer tudo.<\/p>\n

Tornaram-se quem s\u00e3o lutando contra a tristeza, a dor, o abandono e passando por dificuldades.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ve created a coping mechanism that makes them believe they can do and be whatever they like, and they go through life with this attitude that no harm can be done to them and they can rise above any kind of misfortune.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ultimately, they\u2019ve built a world of deception, illusion, and fantasy in which they are the only ones who make decisions about what\u2019s real and what\u2019s not.<\/p>\n

A realidade tem muito pouco impacto na forma como se sentem porque lhes falta raz\u00e3o e empatia para aceitar a influ\u00eancia dos outros.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re sick of feeling annoyed, hurt, or angered by how a narcissist in your life seems to always find their way out of everything, just know that their life is completely fake \u2013 and ultimately \u2013 pathetic and sad.<\/p>\n

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It seems like whatever happens, a narcissist always finds a way to land on their feet. Everyone around them is left hurt, angry, and devastated and they somehow manage to find a way to rise above any disaster they come upon or create. After everything they\u2019ve done to you, it\u2019s even more frustrating to see…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":85869,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-85741","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Narcissists-young-man.jpg",800,511,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85741","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=85741"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85741\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/85869"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=85741"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=85741"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=85741"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}