{"id":85885,"date":"2020-07-09T08:53:54","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T08:53:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=85885"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:36:57","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:36:57","slug":"concentrar-se-em-ser-uma-grande-mulher","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/concentrar-se-em-ser-uma-grande-mulher\/","title":{"rendered":"Pare de se preocupar em encontrar um grande homem e concentre-se em ser uma grande mulher"},"content":{"rendered":"

I believe that there is an ideal person for all of us \u2013 our perfect match. I truly believe in soulmates <\/span>porque ainda n\u00e3o h\u00e1 muito tempo estava num processo de descoberta de mim pr\u00f3prio e, atrav\u00e9s dele, encontrei o meu<\/span>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Sei que \u00e9 dif\u00edcil de acreditar, mas <\/span>a sua alma g\u00e9mea<\/span><\/a> is out there somewhere and I’m sure he’ll find you. <\/span>Your paths will cross one day and he’ll be everything you ever asked for.<\/b><\/p>\n

He’ll be even more than that. He’ll be the prince you dreamed about when you were a little girl. He’ll be that kind-hearted \u201cbad boy\u201d you had a crush on as a teenage girl.<\/span><\/p>\n

He’ll be a successful and protective man with some serious plans and goals for the future. A man who knows what he wants and how to get it. A man whose priority is to settle down and start his own family. <\/span><\/p>\n

He’ll be that man you pray for every night before you go to bed.<\/b><\/p>\n

One day, I’m sure he’ll come. The only reason he isn’t here yet is because God thinks you need some more time. Some more time for yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Precisa de trabalhar mais em si pr\u00f3prio. Precisa de realizar alguns dos seus pr\u00f3prios sonhos e objectivos. <\/span>Primeiro, \u00e9 preciso construir-se como uma mulher independente.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Your soulmate will come into your life when it’s time. There are some things you can’t control in life and this is one of them.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, why bother about things that are out of your control? Why bother about it when you’re not the one who decides about the timing of these things?<\/b><\/p>\n

I was also focused on finding \u201cthe one\u201d my entire life and where did it get me? Nowhere. I only neglected my own needs. I was jealous of every happy couple I saw on the street.<\/span><\/p>\n

Comecei a pensar que talvez o verdadeiro problema esteja em mim. <\/span>Estava preso \u00e0 sensa\u00e7\u00e3o constante de <\/b>n\u00e3o ser suficientemente bom<\/b><\/a> and I didn’t know how to get rid of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

I wondered if I’d ever find someone who thinks that I’m good enough \u2013 who sees me with completely different eyes. Because God knows my self-image was terrible.<\/span><\/p>\n

I remember when I was in college, my goals for the future were to get my diploma, find a job I’d enjoy doing, and work hard to become a successful and independent woman.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I wanted to surround myself with a big circle of friends and somehow repay my parents for their love and everything they\u2019d done for me over the years.<\/span><\/p>\n

That futile search for a soulmate changed my goals for the future completely. The only thing that was important to me was to find someone who’d love me and stay with me for the rest of my life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don’t get me wrong. <\/span>Having a life partner is important and should be a part of everyone’s goals for the future. But it shouldn’t become your obsession.<\/b> <\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 tantas coisas que devemos tratar na nossa vida antes de come\u00e7armos a partilh\u00e1-la com outra pessoa.<\/span><\/p>\n

Um dia, vi algumas fotografias dos meus amigos no Instagram. Estavam a desfrutar das suas f\u00e9rias nas Maldivas. Depois descobri que a minha colega de trabalho foi promovida e passou a ser minha superior.<\/span><\/p>\n

That was the day I looked at myself in the mirror and said, \u201cStop right there, missy. It’s enough. You have to get your life in order and you have to do it now!\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m merecia viajar e divertir-me. Tamb\u00e9m merecia progredir na minha carreira. Aquela caloira estava a contar comigo e eu tinha de a deixar orgulhosa.  <\/span><\/p>\n

O dia em que decidi mudar a minha maneira de pensar foi o dia em que a minha vida come\u00e7ou a melhorar em todos os aspectos poss\u00edveis. Senti-me mais calmo e descontra\u00eddo. <\/span>Finalmente senti aquela sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de paz interior.<\/b><\/p>\n

Voltei a concentrar-me em mim. Comecei a trabalhar em mim pr\u00f3prio. <\/span>Tinha de voltar a p\u00f4r a minha auto-rela\u00e7\u00e3o no bom caminho.<\/b> O autocuidado tornou-se<\/span><\/a> my priority. I found my life purpose and it wasn’t finding the great guy.<\/span><\/p>\n

I worked hard to make myself better in every possible way and I did it. I am so damn proud of myself and everything I\u2019ve achieved so far.<\/span><\/p>\n

No final, s\u00f3 quero dizer uma coisa a todas as mulheres que andam \u00e0 procura de um homem fant\u00e1stico. O vosso grande homem pode chegar, mas tamb\u00e9m pode partir um dia. <\/span><\/p>\n

You are the only person you know for sure you’re stuck with for the rest of your life.<\/b> Tente torn\u00e1-lo divertido, excitante e interessante, melhorando a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/span><\/p>\n

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I believe that there is an ideal person for all of us \u2013 our perfect match. I truly believe in soulmates because not so long ago I was in the process of discovering myself and through it, I met mine.  I know that this is hard to believe, but your soulmate is out there somewhere…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":85886,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-85885","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Stop-Worrying-About-Finding-A-Great-Guy-And-Focus-On-Being-A-Great-Woman.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85885","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=85885"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85885\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163549,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85885\/revisions\/163549"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/85886"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=85885"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=85885"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=85885"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}