{"id":8602,"date":"2019-11-16T11:54:52","date_gmt":"2019-11-16T11:54:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8602"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:14:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:14:24","slug":"gosto-mais-de-estar-sem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/gosto-mais-de-estar-sem\/","title":{"rendered":"Gosto mais de mim quando estou sem ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

I hate what we have become. I hate that now we\u2019re just another \u201cman breaks girl\u201d story. I never expected this to happen to us, but here we are. Our relationship wasn\u2019t that bad, you know?<\/p>\n

T\u00ednhamos os nossos altos e baixos como toda a gente, mas o que eu adorava neles era o facto de que, depois dos baixos, os nossos altos eram sempre fant\u00e1sticos. Mas no final, tudo o que nos restava eram os baixos. Nada de altos.<\/p>\n

Eu adorava a forma como me fazias sentir. Senti-me segura, amada e admirada.<\/a> Tinha-te a ti para me amares, por isso nunca o fiz por mim. Tinha-te para me protegeres, para cuidares de mim, por isso nunca o fiz por mim.<\/p>\n

E quando te foste embora, foi como come\u00e7ar a minha vida de novo. Para ser sincera, na altura odiava-te. Odiava o facto de me poderes deixar, mas agora, quando olho para tr\u00e1s, at\u00e9 eu me deixaria.<\/p>\n

I had to rebuild myself all the way from the beginning. I thought about \u201cus\u201d for so long, that I had to learn to think about \u201cme\u201d.<\/p>\n

Tive de aprender a dar prioridade a mim pr\u00f3pria, a saber quem sou verdadeiramente, sem ti, sem a minha fam\u00edlia e sem os meus amigos. Tive de estar sozinha, para poder abra\u00e7ar a solid\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\"Gosto<\/p>\n

And let me tell you\u2014estar sozinho \u00e9 fant\u00e1stico.<\/a> Rocking that single life like I don\u2019t get to live another day. I even did bungee jumping. Crazy right? I love the new fearless version of myself.<\/p>\n

Adoro este novo eu forte e independente. Um novo eu que deixou o seu antigo emprego e agora \u00e9 escritora, algo que eu acreditava ser o sonho mais louco. Um novo eu que agora tenta fazer algo diferente todos os dias.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not all sunshine and rainbows, but it doesn\u2019t have to be. Some days a new thing to do is just to take a different route home and see something I could do tomorrow.<\/p>\n

Some days I don\u2019t feel like leaving home and facing the world, so a new thing is finding a TV show I never saw before. What I learned is that it\u2019s okay to have bad days, as long as you don\u2019t let them beat you down.<\/p>\n

Agora, Gosto da forma como me sinto<\/a>. Gosto do facto de me teres quebrado ter sido a melhor coisa que me aconteceu. Agora, sinto-me confiante, algo que nunca tive contigo.<\/p>\n

I was always trying to be that perfect girl you imagined, only to lose who I was. I don\u2019t blame you for doing that. You never really pressured me to do it, but I was so insecure I felt if I don\u2019t change, you will leave me.<\/p>\n

Fiz de ti a minha \u00fanica prioridade, o que jurei nunca fazer. Tu transformaste-me lentamente em algo que eu nunca quis ser. Por isso, tive de me tornar algu\u00e9m que admirasse, amasse e, acima de tudo, respeitasse. E fiz um \u00f3timo trabalho.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I hate what we have become. I hate that now we\u2019re just another \u201cman breaks girl\u201d story. I never expected this to happen to us, but here we are. Our relationship wasn\u2019t that bad, you know? We had our ups and downs like everyone else, but what I loved about them was the fact that…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":8605,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8602","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/IZJKSG1FLK.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8602","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8602"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8602\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8605"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8602"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8602"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8602"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}