{"id":86121,"date":"2020-08-13T13:45:23","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T13:45:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=86121"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:48:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:48:26","slug":"formas-de-tirar-a-sua-relacao-de-uma-fase-dificil-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/formas-de-tirar-a-sua-relacao-de-uma-fase-dificil-2\/","title":{"rendered":"6 maneiras poderosas de tirar o seu relacionamento de uma fase dif\u00edcil"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o parece diferente daquilo a que est\u00e3o habituados. Est\u00e3o a acontecer coisas que nunca aconteceram antes.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re feeling so many new, negative emotions and don\u2019t know what to think or how to react to them.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If this is a description of how you\u2019re feeling right now, you should read our heartfelt advice on how to save your relationship.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Accept that there\u2019s something going on<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-86124 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-touching-her-hair-8.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a mexer no cabelo e a olhar para a janela\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-touching-her-hair-8.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-touching-her-hair-8-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-touching-her-hair-8-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When people are in a happy, committed relationship and they encounter difficulties, it\u2019s hard for them to accept that there\u2019s something disturbing their peaceful romance.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What happens is that they go through a whole lot of denial before they decide to come clean to themselves and their partner that something\u2019s wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Admitir que tem um problema sempre foi e sempre ser\u00e1 o primeiro passo para o resolver. Re\u00fana os seus pensamentos e diga a si pr\u00f3prio que ter problemas \u00e9 normal, independentemente do quanto est\u00e1 apaixonado pelo seu parceiro.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Having difficulties doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re not a good couple or that you don\u2019t have a future together, it just means you have to find a way to get through them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A comunica\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 fundamental<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-86125 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-talking-3.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a falar com um homem sentado perto de \u00e1gua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-talking-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-talking-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-talking-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course, you\u2019re not supposed to solve everything on your own. You have to talk to your partner. Tell them exactly how you feel.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Encontrar <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-comunicar-com-os-homens\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">uma forma de comunicar<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> o que acha que causou esta fase dif\u00edcil na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e aguarde a resposta.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Incentive o seu parceiro a ajudar a resolver esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o dif\u00edcil em vez de o atacar ou de o fazer sentir-se culpado.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There\u2019s a good chance that you both played your own part in getting here so make sure they know you\u2019re not blaming them for everything and you\u2019re taking your part of the responsibility.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Manter-se positivo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-86127 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-2.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente de quimono estampado a olhar para um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/woman-looking-at-man-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t let negativity rule over you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Of course you\u2019re feeling many negative emotions such as disappointment, fear, confusion\u2026 still, stay aware that they are only a part of what you\u2019re feeling and aren\u2019t bigger or stronger than what you have with your partner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tell yourself and your partner that this tricky time will pass, and don\u2019t let yourself fall into a well of negativity.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you go down that road, there\u2019s a good chance you won\u2019t be able to save your relationship. Choose to think positive, your love deserves that.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don\u2019t make any rash decisions<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-86128 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-bench-13.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher sentados num banco a olhar para a \u00e1gua\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-bench-13.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-bench-13-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-sitting-on-bench-13-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">During this time, there\u2019ll be a voice in your head that will emphasize every single flaw or weakness your partner has ever shown.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A voz mal\u00e9fica dir-lhe-\u00e1 que voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro nunca foram feitos um para o outro e que deve pensar em encontrar outra pessoa.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do your best not to listen to it. It\u2019s just your insecurities speaking up. It\u2019s perfectly normal to have them, but you shouldn\u2019t let them rule over your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Fale com o seu melhor amigo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-86129 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/women-sitting-on-dock.jpg\" alt=\"duas mulheres sentadas numa doca de madeira a conversar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/women-sitting-on-dock.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/women-sitting-on-dock-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/women-sitting-on-dock-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por vezes, precisamos de uma nova perspetiva para nos ajudar a sair da confus\u00e3o de pensamentos e emo\u00e7\u00f5es em que nos encontramos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Confide in your best friend and ask for their opinion. They\u2019ll probably tell you things that you didn\u2019t even think of and remind you of how amazing your relationship is.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019ll get the motivation and encouragement you need to continue fighting for your love.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Aprofundar a intimidade emocional<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-86130 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-holding-woman-by-her-waist.jpg\" alt=\"homem com cabelo comprido a segurar mulher pela cintura ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-holding-woman-by-her-waist.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-holding-woman-by-her-waist-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/man-holding-woman-by-her-waist-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Since you and your partner have hit a bump, you were either somewhat disconnected before or you\u2019ve grown disconnected through this period of uncertainty.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tente voltar ao tempo em que se sentiam como uma s\u00f3 pessoa. Visualizem os vossos dias mais gloriosos de <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sinais-de-que-partilha-uma-ligacao-emocional-com-o-seu-parceiro\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e recri\u00e1-los.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A coisa mais importante que tem de fazer para ultrapassar os seus problemas \u00e9 dar o seu melhor para restabelecer a liga\u00e7\u00e3o com o seu ente querido.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t allow yourself to withdraw from them and don\u2019t stop including them in your thought process, your emotions, and plans.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019re both in this together, two parts of a whole \u2013 fight for your unity.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Always keep in mind that just because your relationship isn\u2019t perfect in every single moment that doesn\u2019t mean that it isn\u2019t worthy of your attention, time, and energy. Nothing functions perfectly all of the time.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Commitment, strength, and love are shown in the way you get through the difficult times. Remember that whenever you\u2019re thinking of giving up.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You\u2019ll get out of this stronger, happier, and more in love than ever before.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-86668 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/6-Powerful-Ways-To-Get-Your-Relationship-Out-Of-A-Rough-Patch-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"6 maneiras poderosas de tirar o seu relacionamento de uma fase dif\u00edcil\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/6-Powerful-Ways-To-Get-Your-Relationship-Out-Of-A-Rough-Patch-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/6-Powerful-Ways-To-Get-Your-Relationship-Out-Of-A-Rough-Patch-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/6-Powerful-Ways-To-Get-Your-Relationship-Out-Of-A-Rough-Patch-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/6-Powerful-Ways-To-Get-Your-Relationship-Out-Of-A-Rough-Patch-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Your relationship seems different than what you\u2019re used to. There are things happening that have never happened before. You\u2019re feeling so many new, negative emotions and don\u2019t know what to think or how to react to them. If this is a description of how you\u2019re feeling right now, you should read our heartfelt advice on&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":86123,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-86121","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/6-Powerful-Ways-To-Get-Your-Relationship-Out-Of-A-Rough-Patch.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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