{"id":86563,"date":"2020-08-13T20:18:01","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T20:18:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=86563"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:43:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:43:34","slug":"razoes-pelas-quais-o-narcisista-o-pode-ter-traumatizado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/razoes-pelas-quais-o-narcisista-o-pode-ter-traumatizado\/","title":{"rendered":"4 raz\u00f5es pelas quais estar com um gaslighter\/narcisista pode t\u00ea-lo traumatizado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Toda a gente admite o facto de que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um gaslighter\/narcisista \u00e9 extremamente prejudicial e perigosa.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, everyone talks about the impact it leaves on you while you\u2019re a direct victim of this abuser; the impact it leaves while you\u2019re still involved with him.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sadly, these consequences don\u2019t end with the end of your toxic relationship. In fact, this experience traumatizes you for life and here is exactly how. <\/span><\/p>\n

Assassinato espiritual<\/h2>\n

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A narcissist is not always physically violent. It doesn\u2019t mean that he will actually punch you or leave bruises on your body but he will certainly <\/span>abusar de si emocionalmente<\/span><\/a> e mentalmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to tell you is that this man won\u2019t kill you in the real sense of that word. Your life won\u2019t end with everything he does to you. However, he might do something even worse; he can make you wish it had. <\/span><\/p>\n

After this kind of man is done with you, you feel like you\u2019ve been spiritually murdered and that is one of the worst sensations you\u2019ll ever experience. <\/b><\/p>\n

When this kind of man is done with you, you feel dead on the inside. It\u2019s like you\u2019re not living but merely surviving day to day.<\/span><\/p>\n

What you feel is very similar to depression. You have lost the will to live and you don\u2019t see a light at the end of the tunnel. <\/span><\/p>\n

O seu sistema de cren\u00e7as<\/h2>\n

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Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o com um narcisista destr\u00f3i a sua cren\u00e7a na bondade inerente \u00e0s pessoas. P\u00f5e em causa tudo o que pens\u00e1vamos saber sobre a vida e o mundo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Antes de este homem horr\u00edvel ter entrado na sua vida, acreditava verdadeiramente que havia algo de bom em toda a gente. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mesmo que as pessoas fizessem coisas m\u00e1s, encontrava sempre uma raz\u00e3o para o seu comportamento; tentava compreend\u00ea-las e procurava sempre as suas qualidades positivas, mesmo quando elas n\u00e3o estavam \u00e0 vista.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, this toxic romance changed all of this. After having experienced this real-life hell, you didn\u2019t only <\/b>perder a confian\u00e7a no amor<\/b><\/a>Tamb\u00e9m perdeste a f\u00e9 em toda a humanidade. <\/b><\/p>\n

If the man who swore he\u2019d love you forever could do this much harm to you, what can you expect from others? <\/span><\/p>\n

If someone you wanted to spend your life next to destroyed it, how can you have any hope that others won\u2019t do the same?<\/span><\/p>\n

Besides, as much as you try, you can\u2019t seem to find anything good in this guy.<\/b><\/p>\n

Demorou muito tempo a aceitar esta terr\u00edvel verdade, mas o facto \u00e9 que, essencialmente, ele \u00e9 uma pessoa m\u00e1, sem qualquer empatia ou bondade.<\/b><\/p>\n

No, he doesn\u2019t hide his good sides; they\u2019re not buried deep inside of him, underneath all the layers he shows to the world.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s pretty simple; there is no good in him. So, I guess it is possible that there is no inherent goodness in every human being.  <\/span><\/p>\n

O impacto negativo nas suas outras rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n

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When you\u2019ve spent a significant amount of time next to a narcissistic person, he somehow manages to shut you off from the rest of the world.<\/span><\/p>\n

For a long time, you see him as the only person who matters in your life, the only one whose opinions are important and the only one who knows what\u2019s right from you. <\/span><\/p>\n

Consequentemente, todas as suas outras rela\u00e7\u00f5es sofrem. Este tipo tenta o seu melhor para a afastar de todos os seus entes queridos para a poder manipular com mais facilidade. <\/b><\/p>\n

Passado algum tempo, quando finalmente termina a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, estas s\u00e3o as pessoas de quem mais precisa de apoio. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nevertheless, whether you like to admit it or not, your relationships are now not the same. Also, you don\u2019t trust them unconditionally anymore even though they have never done you any harm. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve simply changed and you have become extra careful so you can\u2019t relax in front of anyone. <\/b><\/p>\n

This is especially true when it comes to any new, potential romances. As much as you try, you can\u2019t seem to expect anything good from new guys who come into your life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Parte-se do princ\u00edpio de que <\/span>todos os homens s\u00e3o iguais<\/span><\/a> e que todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es v\u00e3o acabar da mesma maneira. <\/span><\/p>\n

Auto-d\u00favida<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A quest\u00e3o do gaslighting, que \u00e9 quase sempre uma grande parte do <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00f5es narc\u00edsicas<\/span><\/a>\u00e9 que nos faz questionar a nossa sanidade mental.<\/span><\/p>\n

A outra pessoa esfor\u00e7a-se por fazer com que pare\u00e7amos loucos para nos poder controlar melhor.<\/span><\/p>\n

After you finally escape this abuse, you know that you aren\u2019t crazy. However, you\u2019re just aware of that on a conscious level.<\/b><\/p>\n

Por outro lado, h\u00e1 sempre uma pequena voz no fundo da nossa cabe\u00e7a que nos diz que devemos duvidar de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios, que nos diz para questionar cada passo que damos e cada palavra que dizemos. <\/span><\/p>\n

This shouldn\u2019t come as a surprise since you were exposed to this voice for years.<\/span><\/p>\n

You had a man by your side who kept telling you that nothing you ever did was good enough so it\u2019s perfectly normal that this left some marks on you. <\/span><\/p>\n

The truth is that all of this sounds harsh. However, trust me when I tell you that you\u2019re in no way damaged beyond repair.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mesmo que n\u00e3o acredites em mim, acabar\u00e1s por te curar. A tua alma despeda\u00e7ada ir\u00e1 reparar-se a si pr\u00f3pria e tudo isto ficar\u00e1 para tr\u00e1s.<\/span><\/p>\n

The only thing you have to do is cut this guy off for good, if you haven\u2019t done that already. Put all of your strength into kicking him out of your life, mind and heart.<\/span><\/p>\n

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