{"id":86989,"date":"2020-09-08T06:35:23","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T06:35:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=86989"},"modified":"2022-08-25T12:01:13","modified_gmt":"2022-08-25T12:01:13","slug":"coisas-estranhas-que-os-narcisistas-fazem-para-manipular","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/coisas-estranhas-que-os-narcisistas-fazem-para-manipular\/","title":{"rendered":"13 coisas estranhas que os narcisistas fazem para manipular as suas v\u00edtimas"},"content":{"rendered":"

It doesn’t matter if you’ve had a rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a> with a narcissistic ex or you’re still involved with someone suffering from NPD \u2013 either way, you know very well that there are some behavior patterns every narcissist follows.<\/p>\n

Sim, todos eles s\u00e3o pessoas individuais, mas, estranhamente, h\u00e1 algumas coisas estranhas que os narcisistas fazem e que s\u00e3o comuns a todos eles.<\/p>\n

I’m not talking here about their individual personality traits that have nothing to do with their disorder. I’m referring to some strange things that characterize them.<\/p>\n

Each one of these habits or actions can serve as a bulletproof sign that you’re dealing with a narcissist and can help you save yourself in time.<\/p>\n

Esta lista definitiva de coisas estranhas que os narcisistas fazem vai um pouco mais fundo nas camadas da sua personalidade e vai para al\u00e9m de algumas coisas que se podem esperar de algu\u00e9m assim.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get into it.<\/p>\n

Intimidade artificial<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When you meet a malignant narcissist for the first time, his goal is to get to know you better. He is not doing it because he\u2019s genuinely interested in your life.<\/p>\n

It’s all a part of his abuso narc\u00edsico<\/a> t\u00e1cticas que come\u00e7am de imediato.<\/p>\n

Na verdade, esta pessoa quer que exponha as suas vulnerabilidades. Quer conhecer todas as suas fraquezas para poder us\u00e1-las contra si mais tarde.<\/p>\n

However, it would be too weird if he asked you deeply personal questions right away \u2013 you\u2019d see through his intentions and his plan would fail at the first step.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he uses reverse psychology techniques on you. Instead of openly snooping around your life, he is the one who starts to confide in you first.<\/p>\n

Once he does this, you begin to trust him more. You feel like he\u2019s someone who will keep your secrets and won\u2019t take advantage of you letting him in.<\/p>\n

Desta forma, algu\u00e9m com uma perturba\u00e7\u00e3o da personalidade narc\u00edsica cria uma intimidade artificial.<\/p>\n

O mesmo se aplica a bombardeamento de amor<\/a>. Ele finge que gosta de si mais do que qualquer outra pessoa antes dele, por isso n\u00e3o tem outra escolha sen\u00e3o dar todas essas emo\u00e7\u00f5es em troca.<\/p>\n

Consequentemente, a maior parte das rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas narc\u00edsicas movem-se a uma velocidade enorme.<\/p>\n

Before you know it, you\u2019re already seriously involved with this person and basically, you don\u2019t even know when and how it happened.<\/p>\n

You feel incredibly close to your narcissist and get the impression that you\u2019ve found your long lost soulmate.<\/p>\n

You feel an emotional connection you\u2019ve never felt before and that you could trust this man with your life, even though things are nowhere near that.<\/p>\n

Identidade inventada<\/h2>\n

\"narcisistas<\/p>\n

Another one of the weird things narcissists do is pretend to be someone they\u2019re not. You see, deep down, every narcissistic person is perfectly aware of their true selves.<\/p>\n

De facto, debatem-se com inseguran\u00e7as e raramente aceitam as suas verdadeiras personalidades. Em vez disso, fazem tudo o que est\u00e1 ao seu alcance para esconder as suas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why a narcisista<\/a> inventar\u00e1 uma nova identidade para impressionar a sua v\u00edtima.<\/p>\n

Ele sabe que voc\u00ea nunca se apaixonaria pelo homem que ele realmente \u00e9, por isso precisa de se fazer passar por outra pessoa s\u00f3 para a irritar.<\/p>\n

Tenha cuidado porque estas pessoas s\u00e3o normalmente mentirosas compulsivas, entre todas as outras perturba\u00e7\u00f5es mentais de que sofrem.<\/p>\n

Por conseguinte, as suas v\u00edtimas demoram geralmente muito tempo a chegar ao fundo das suas fraudes.<\/p>\n

No, a person suffering from NPD won\u2019t give you a fake name. They\u2019ll probably dizer-vos a verdade<\/a> relativamente a alguns dados b\u00e1sicos sobre si pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n

However, they\u2019ll completely disregard certain information they don\u2019t find appealing. They\u2019ll hide their failures and, most importantly, they\u2019ll do everything in their power for you not to see their dark side.<\/p>\n

When you first meet someone like this, you think that he is too good to be true. You can\u2019t believe that you\u2019re so lucky to cross paths with such a perfect person.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, a narcissist\u2019s personality is actually a blend of different people.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not rare for them to take over the things they like about their friend\u2019s and family\u2019s past and present them as their own personal history.<\/p>\n

The worst part about all this is that once you do find out that you\u2019ve been lied to, it\u2019s usually too late.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re already trapped in this narcissistic relationship and you love this person so much that you forgive them for their misdeeds from the beginning.<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: 52 Coisas Manipuladoras que os Narcisistas Dizem Numa Discuss\u00e3o<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Campanha de difama\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"empregados<\/p>\n

Uma grande parte da oferta narc\u00edsica reside no facto de o narcisista se sentir melhor do que os seus v\u00edtima<\/a> \u2013 doing everything in his power to make you feel like he is above you in all ways possible.<\/p>\n

Basicamente, o que estas pessoas procuram \u00e9 aprova\u00e7\u00e3o. Precisam que as idealizemos e, para o conseguirem, t\u00eam de nos deitar abaixo primeiro, pois s\u00f3 assim podemos estar abaixo delas.<\/p>\n

That is exactly why they often do something called a smear campaign, spreading negative propaganda about you just to ruin your reputation \u2013 yet another one of the things weird things narcissists do.<\/p>\n

Um narcisista vai falar mal de si aos seus amigos, familiares e colegas de trabalho. Ele far\u00e1 o poss\u00edvel para que todos eles percam o respeito por si.<\/p>\n

Durante esse tempo, ele usar\u00e1 mentiras e manipula\u00e7\u00f5es. Espalhar\u00e1 sabiamente boatos a seu respeito, tudo com o objetivo final de fazer com que os outros pensem mal de si.<\/p>\n

Desta forma, uma pessoa narcisista destr\u00f3i a sua credibilidade. As pessoas deixam de o considerar fi\u00e1vel e a sua palavra perde todo o seu peso.<\/p>\n

Consequently, even when you try looking for help from others \u2013 once you try escaping this mental prison he\u2019s put you in \u2013 you keep finding shut doors.<\/p>\n

Even when you try telling people that he\u2019s an abuser, nobody actually believes you since their opinion of you is already tainted.<\/p>\n

No final do dia, n\u00e3o tem mais ningu\u00e9m a n\u00e3o ser o seu narcisista a quem recorrer. E isso \u00e9 exatamente o que ele sempre quis alcan\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, esta \u00e9 a sua forma de vos impedir de progredir na vida. Uma forma de controlo sobre si.<\/p>\n

After all, how can you hope of getting the promotion you need so you could gain your financial independence if your partner\u2019s made sure your boss and coworkers consider you irresponsible or even a thief?<\/p>\n

How do you expect your friends to give you a shelter once you finally decide to leave him and go no contact if your partner\u2019s made sure they consider you a liar or abuser?<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que se pode iniciar o processo de recupera\u00e7\u00e3o de abuso narc\u00edsico<\/a> se n\u00e3o tiveres ningu\u00e9m para te ajudar?<\/p>\n

Guardar rancores<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it, all of us are resentful from time to time. Some things seem completely irrelevant, but you can\u2019t force yourself to forget them or to forgive the ones who did you harm.<\/p>\n

Dito isto, os narcisistas s\u00e3o campe\u00f5es de guardar rancor<\/a>. They have a memory of an elephant and never forget something that\u2019s hurt them, even if they act like they accept someone\u2019s apology.<\/p>\n

In fact, the problem is that a narcissist\u2019s ego rarely allows him to show anyone that he is heartbroken or emotionally damaged. He will often act like someone hurting him isn\u2019t such a big deal.<\/p>\n

No entanto, ele s\u00f3 se comporta assim no in\u00edcio. Por outro lado, assim que surge o primeiro desentendimento, ele faz quest\u00e3o de mencionar algo do passado e reabrir velhas feridas.<\/p>\n

O mesmo se aplica \u00e0s rela\u00e7\u00f5es amorosas. Uma pessoa narcisista est\u00e1 pronta a intimidar o seu parceiro durante anos por causa de algo que fizeram h\u00e1 muito tempo.<\/p>\n

Ele vai esfregar no seu nariz algumas coisas que voc\u00ea tinha certeza que eram \u00e1guas passadas, sempre que voc\u00eas dois brigarem.<\/p>\n

This man has no capacity for forgiveness. He doesn\u2019t accept apologies and always remembers every time his feelings got hurt.<\/p>\n

Dois pesos e duas medidas<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

On the other hand, a narcissist will rarely remember the things he\u2019s done to his victims, which is also a red flag that you’re dealing with a sociopata<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Este tipo de pessoas tem normalmente dois pesos e duas medidas. T\u00eam um conjunto de regras para as suas v\u00edtimas, outro para o resto do mundo e um terceiro para si pr\u00f3prias.<\/p>\n

O narcisista v\u00ea-se como um privilegiado. Ele \u00e9 o melhor dos melhores e uma criatura dada por Deus.<\/p>\n

Por conseguinte, \u00e9-lhe permitido comportar-se como quiser. Tem direito a fazer certas coisas que mais ningu\u00e9m faz.<\/p>\n

Esta pessoa v\u00ea-se a si pr\u00f3pria como realeza, enquanto todos os outros s\u00e3o apenas seus servos. O mundo gira \u00e0 sua volta.<\/p>\n

These people lack empathy and think they have the full right to do whatever they want, without taking other people\u2019s opinions or feelings into consideration.<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, devido \u00e0 sua falta de empatia, o narcisista consegue sempre justificar as suas m\u00e1s ac\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

He finds excuses for his toxic behavior and doesn\u2019t have trouble forgiving himself, since he doesn’t have the ability to observe things from your point of view.<\/p>\n

Na verdade, ele espera que o resto do mundo tamb\u00e9m seja tolerante com as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es. Segundo ele, fa\u00e7a o que fizer, merece sempre um perd\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, he is extremely judgmental when it comes to others \u2013 especially when it comes to his romantic partner.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que fazes \u00e9 observado atrav\u00e9s de um microsc\u00f3pio. Cada erro seu \u00e9 dissecado, discutido e analisado at\u00e9 ao fundo.<\/p>\n

This man holds you accountable for all the wrong choices you\u2019ve ever made. On the other hand, if he happens to do exactly the same thing, he doesn\u2019t go so hard on himself.<\/p>\n

De facto, ele espera compreens\u00e3o e tratamento gentil, apesar de ele nunca dar o mesmo em troca.<\/p>\n

Ser um camale\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Another one of the weird things narcissists are capable of is to transform into whoever they want. And no, I\u2019m not talking about this in a good way.<\/p>\n

Of course, one\u2019s adaption skills are quite significant \u2013 they give you the possibility of hanging out with different people and chase away one\u2019s fears.<\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to tell you is that most of the people with NDP are actually skilled actors, which can be extremely dangerous for your relationship.<\/p>\n

After all, whenever you hear about cases of domestic violence, you think of yourself \u2013 that the abuser seemed like a nice guy and you can\u2019t believe the accusations against him.<\/p>\n

You wonder how this sociopath in disguise tricked the entire world into considering him a high-value man, even though he can\u2019t be further from one.<\/p>\n

Well, narcissists are usually chameleons. They don\u2019t go around acting like abusadores<\/a> since they\u2019re extremely careful about their reputation and the public image they present.<\/p>\n

Instead, at first sight, these people are usually perceived as the kindest and the most polite human beings you\u2019ve ever met.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re masters at putting on a mask of a decent man and pretending to be someone they\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

However, when they come home, they usually turn into real-life beasts. A narcissist knows that his victim is head over heels for him so he doesn\u2019t have any more need for false pretenses.<\/p>\n

Now, he is safe to show you his worst sides. Nobody could ever connect these two personalities with each other \u2013 and there is exactly where lies their magical ability.<\/p>\n

You know how there are some parts of you you simply can\u2019t hide, even if you tried? Some aspects of your personality that always swim to the surface and you can\u2019t control it?<\/p>\n

Well, that is where you\u2019re similar to the rest of the world.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, enquanto um narcisista est\u00e1 a tentar conquist\u00e1-la, tem um sentido de auto-controlo t\u00e3o forte que pode esconder o que quiser sobre si pr\u00f3prio e reinventar a pessoa que \u00e9.<\/p>\n

Anular a outra pessoa<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Como j\u00e1 foi referido, outro dos sintomas da sua perturba\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 o facto de os narcisistas se considerarem os mais importantes do mundo.<\/p>\n

Esperam que os outros vejam e saibam como s\u00e3o especiais e \u00fanicos.<\/p>\n

According to them, the entire universe revolves around them. They\u2019re always the number one priority and everyone else comes behind them.<\/p>\n

Embora isto possa parecer apenas um caso de autoestima elevada, \u00e9 na realidade uma parte da sua perturba\u00e7\u00e3o mental e uma carater\u00edstica que causa problemas em todas as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es, incluindo as rom\u00e2nticas.<\/p>\n

What I\u2019m trying to tell you is that when you\u2019re in an rela\u00e7\u00e3o abusiva<\/a> com algu\u00e9m que sofre de NPD, deixamos de existir como o nosso verdadeiro eu.<\/p>\n

According to his views, you\u2019re no longer an individual with your own personality, best friends, family, interests, dreams, fears, hopes\u2026<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, o teu \u00fanico papel neste mundo \u00e9 o de parceira rom\u00e2ntica dele. Foste enviada a este mundo para lhe agradar e como instrumento para ele conseguir o que quer.<\/p>\n

A quest\u00e3o \u00e9 que este tipo de pessoa nunca o reconhecer\u00e1 ou \u00e0s suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, o que tamb\u00e9m \u00e9 uma forma de abuso narc\u00edsico<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Sempre que algo se passa contigo, ele tem algo mais importante a que todos t\u00eam de prestar aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

For example, when you talk to this person about your problems or tell him you\u2019re feeling bad, he\u2019ll never put any energy in trying to help you.<\/p>\n

Instead, he\u2019ll immediately turn the tables and make it all about him. He\u2019ll start talking about a similar situation he was once in, or connect what you\u2019re going through with something he experienced.<\/p>\n

Seja como for, o que interessa \u00e9 que ele anula a sua v\u00edtima. Ele tenta apagar a sua individualidade e o seu objetivo final \u00e9 o seu assassinato espiritual.<\/p>\n

Persegui\u00e7\u00e3o e espionagem<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

A coisa mais arrepiante de estar envolvido com um narcisista \u00e9 o seu possessivo<\/a> e ciumento.<\/p>\n

And we\u2019re not talking of the normal jealous because someone cares for you a lot and obviously can\u2019t stay immune to picturing you next to someone else.<\/p>\n

Com uma personalidade narcisista, os ci\u00fames fazem parte do seu dist\u00farbio e normalmente ultrapassam a sua compreens\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

O n\u00facleo do seu comportamento possessivo reside em duas coisas principais: um desejo de controlo e problemas de confian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

Em primeiro lugar, estas pessoas t\u00eam uma vontade incontrol\u00e1vel de estar sempre no controlo de todos os aspectos da sua vida e da vossa.<\/p>\n

They deny your right to privacy and things as boundaries and personal space don\u2019t exist for them.<\/p>\n

Secondly, we all think that the rest of the world is just like us. Therefore, a narcissist knowing that he can\u2019t be trusted, expects everyone else, including you to be the same.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why he usually engages in things such as spying and stalking. Yes, you heard it right: This is not just something you only see in the movies.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Um narcisista detalhado escolher\u00e1 a sua potencial v\u00edtima muito antes de a abordar pela primeira vez.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll spend some time stalking her and trying to collect as much information about her as possible.<\/p>\n

Esta persegui\u00e7\u00e3o continua tamb\u00e9m depois da vossa separa\u00e7\u00e3o. Ele segue todos os seus passos, fica obcecado com as suas publica\u00e7\u00f5es nas redes sociais e at\u00e9 incomoda as pessoas mais pr\u00f3ximas.<\/p>\n

When it comes to spying, it usually takes place during your narcissistic relationship and often includes techniques and equipment you don\u2019t even know exist.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be surprised if you find out that your narcissistic partner has put cameras all around your apartment or found a way to listen in on your phone conversations.<\/p>\n

These are the people who will hack your social media profiles, snoop through your phone while you\u2019re sleeping, or even get someone to intentionally flirt with you just to check your fidelity.<\/p>\n

The worst part is that you don\u2019t have to give your narcissist a reason to doubt you in order for him to start behaving like this. It\u2019s just a part of who he is and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n

Identifica\u00e7\u00e3o projectiva<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Um tra\u00e7o comum da personalidade narc\u00edsica \u00e9 a proje\u00e7\u00e3o. De facto, a identifica\u00e7\u00e3o projectiva \u00e9 o seu mecanismo de defesa n\u00famero um.<\/p>\n

No, they don\u2019t use this projection as a way to defend themselves from you since you\u2019re not the one attacking them.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, utilizam-na para se protegerem dos seus pr\u00f3prios impulsos e de partes ocultas do seu car\u00e1cter.<\/p>\n

A um certo n\u00edvel da sua consci\u00eancia, os narcisistas sabem quem s\u00e3o. Eles sabem que t\u00eam pelo menos algumas partes negativas da sua personalidade.<\/p>\n

However, they do their best to escape those aspects of themselves. In fact, they repress it to the point that they start pretending that they\u2019re not there.<\/p>\n

No entanto, o problema surge quando uma pessoa narcisista come\u00e7a a acusar a sua v\u00edtima de ter os impulsos que tenta esconder sobre si pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n

Quando um narcisista projecta as suas m\u00e1s qualidades em outra pessoa e come\u00e7a a odi\u00e1-la por ter essas caracter\u00edsticas imagin\u00e1rias.<\/p>\n

Basically, if your narcissist is an abuser, this is something he can\u2019t accept about himself.<\/p>\n

Por isso, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que ele a acuse de ser abusiva, apesar de ser ele o \u00fanico a mostrar tend\u00eancias violentas no seu comportamento.<\/p>\n

O mesmo se aplica \u00e0 fidelidade. Se o seu narcisista \u00e9 infiel<\/a>, it\u2019s not uncommon for him to accuse you of the same. If he hates himself or you, he\u2019ll constantly accuse you of hating him, and so on.<\/p>\n

O jogo da culpa<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Outra das coisas estranhas que os narcisistas fazem t\u00e3o bem \u00e9 jogar o jogo da culpa.<\/p>\n

A big problem with these people is that they literally have no sense of responsibility, which is also a red flag that you’re dealing with a psicopata<\/a>.<\/p>\n

According to them, they\u2019re never guilty for anything happening to them or around them.<\/p>\n

In fact, when they\u2019re in a relationship, the other person is always responsible for everything going downhill, while they\u2019re the ones who should be praised for the relationship\u2019s successes.<\/p>\n

Narcissists don\u2019t know how to apologize sincerely.<\/p>\n

In fact, even when they at some point act like they\u2019re ready to take responsibility, they turn the tables soon enough and make you look like the bad guy in the story.<\/p>\n

Mesmo que um narcisista consiga fisicamente violento<\/a> with you and has no other way of getting back into your life but to own up to his mistakes and promise he\u2019ll never repeat them again, don\u2019t expect to get a real apology.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Instead, he\u2019ll probably try to blame you for provoking him. You were either too loud, you didn\u2019t know when to stop arguing, or you told him something you knew would trigger him.<\/p>\n

The same goes for infidelity as well. Even if you catch him red-handed and he has no other choice but to admit his error, he\u2019ll use reverse psychology and make you guilty for his actions.<\/p>\n

He might tell you that he had doubts about your fidelity or that you weren\u2019t giving him enough attention. Practically, either way, you made him do it.<\/p>\n

A narcissist has this need to always be the victim of every possible situation. He\u2019s not mature enough to stand any kind of judgment or to take responsibility for his actions.<\/p>\n

Instead, for him, it\u2019s much easier to shift the blame to others and pretends to be perfect.<\/p>\n

No entanto, o problema \u00e9 que, passado algum tempo, a v\u00edtima come\u00e7a a acreditar nele.<\/p>\n

He brainwashes you into thinking that you\u2019re always the only one guilty, which makes it almost impossible for you to leave the cage he\u2019s put you in.<\/p>\n

Chantagem emocional<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Narcissists are the biggest blackmailers in this world. No, they\u2019re not the ones who will kidnap your loved one and ask for ransom (although you shouldn\u2019t put it past them.)<\/p>\n

Todos os narcisistas usam chantagem emocional<\/a> como uma ferramenta de sucesso contra a sua v\u00edtima. J\u00e1 se sabe que eles escolhem muito bem quem atacar e examinam as suas v\u00edtimas antes de as abordarem.<\/p>\n

Well, it\u2019s quite unlikely that a narcissist will pick a heartless victim with a lack of empathy. They don\u2019t choose selfish people with high self-esteem.<\/p>\n

Instead, they\u2019ll always focus on empaths with insecurity problems. Therefore, if a narcissist is involved with you, he is perfectly aware that you\u2019re an emotional person who is mostly led by her feelings.<\/p>\n

So, he uses this trait of yours against you. He threatens you, has anger outbursts, and does everything in his power to intimidate you every time he doesn\u2019t get his way.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, you start to feel fear, obligation, and guilt \u2013 often referred to as FOG.<\/p>\n

No, this man doesn\u2019t care that you\u2019re no longer with him out of your sincere love for him, he uses FOG to manipulate you into staying with him.<\/p>\n

Emotional blackmail doesn\u2019t only happen when you try leaving your narcissist.<\/p>\n

\"espelho<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m o chantageia quando decide partilhar a sua vers\u00e3o da hist\u00f3ria com algu\u00e9m, numa tentativa de se libertar das suas correntes.<\/p>\n

As suas amea\u00e7as diferem de pessoa para pessoa.<\/p>\n

While some narcissists tell you that they\u2019ll turn your life into a living hell if you don\u2019t do what they say, some threaten to make a huge scandal or drama and embarrass you in front of everyone.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 tamb\u00e9m aqueles com estrat\u00e9gias de chantagem mais s\u00e9rias. Aqueles que amea\u00e7am fazer-lhe mal fisicamente se os deixar ou prometem fazer mal a si pr\u00f3prios se se afastar.<\/p>\n

Naturally, when this group is in question, you can\u2019t help but feel FOG.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re afraid that your narcissist will turn his threats into reality, you feel obliged to be with him since you\u2019re the only one who can prevent him from doing something bad, and at the end of the day, the overwhelming guilt prevents you from turning your back on him.<\/p>\n

Consciously, you know that he wouldn\u2019t do anything to hurt himself. However, there is always that tiny voice in the back of your head, wondering: \u201cWhat if he really goes through with it?\u201d<\/p>\n

You know you couldn\u2019t live with such a huge responsibility \u2013 you\u2019d still consider yourself guilty for his actions, instead of realizing that this is a person who has a personality disorder and needs help.<\/p>\n

Sabotagem<\/h2>\n

\"empres\u00e1rio<\/p>\n

Quando vemos contos de fadas ou telenovelas foleiras, vemos que o mau da fita est\u00e1 preparado para fazer tudo o que for preciso s\u00f3 para criar problemas \u00e0 personagem principal.<\/p>\n

Fazem-no nas suas costas e recorrem ao inimagin\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Of course, you assume that this only happens in the movies. After all, who would go that far and through all of that trouble just to ruin another person\u2019s life?<\/p>\n

Bem, quando nos envolvemos com algu\u00e9m que sofre de transtorno de personalidade narc\u00edsica, vemos que todas estas intrigas s\u00e3o, de facto, bastante realistas.<\/p>\n

O facto \u00e9 que os narcisistas comportam-se muitas vezes de forma semelhante aos vil\u00f5es dos filmes. Fingem que o amam, mas na realidade fazem tudo o que est\u00e1 ao seu alcance para o sabotar de todas as formas poss\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll give their best to destroy all of your other healthy relationships. They will spread gossip about you to your best friends, play double games, and lie in every chance they get.<\/p>\n

O mesmo acontece com o trabalho.<\/p>\n

O seu parceiro narcisista \u00e9 capaz de lhe esconder correio importante, de partir literalmente o computador de que precisa para o seu projeto ou de telefonar anonimamente ao seu patr\u00e3o para se queixar do seu trabalho.<\/p>\n

Acredite, a madrasta m\u00e1 de todos os contos de fadas n\u00e3o tem nada a ver com um narcisista que est\u00e1 determinado a sabotar a sua v\u00edtima.<\/p>\n

However, he doesn\u2019t do this only when you try to go nenhum contacto<\/a> e deix\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

In fact, a narcissist behaves like this during your relationship since it\u2019s his way of forming stronger emotional codependency.<\/p>\n

Gaslighting<\/h2>\n

\"o<\/p>\n

Gaslighting is one of those weird things narcissists (and other people) do that you\u2019ve probably heard of.<\/p>\n

Resumindo, ilumina\u00e7\u00e3o artificial<\/a> significa brincar com a sua cabe\u00e7a e com a sua sa\u00fade mental, que \u00e9 algo que os narcisistas gostam de fazer e que \u00e9 outro dos sintomas da sua perturba\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a tactic every narcissistic person uses in attempts to control your world.<\/p>\n

You see, for a sociopath like this, it\u2019s not enough to have absolute control over everything going on around you, he wants to be in charge of all events taking place inside of you as well.<\/p>\n

Quando nos ilumina com g\u00e1s, o narcisista faz-nos uma lavagem cerebral para que acreditemos mais nele do que nos nossos pr\u00f3prios olhos, ouvidos e instintos.<\/p>\n

Ele faz-nos pensar que a sua perce\u00e7\u00e3o da realidade \u00e9 a \u00fanica em que devemos confiar e seguir.<\/p>\n

For example, when you\u2019re being gaslighted, your abuser will often accuse you of imagining things, for overreacting or exaggerating, which of course impacts your mental health.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

However, the suffering doesn\u2019t end there. In fact, he will probably try to convince you that some things didn\u2019t happen the way they did, even though you were there to experience them.<\/p>\n

Um narcisista maligno distorce os factos e interpreta-os da forma que mais lhe conv\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

This is especially true when it comes to you complaining about the treatment you\u2019ve been getting in your toxic relationship.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day, you’re not in an abusive relationship, you\u2019re being too sensitive, or you\u2019re too weak. He is not unfaithful, you\u2019re the one who is overly paranoid or jealous.<\/p>\n

Naturally, at first, you don\u2019t believe him. However, after a while, your narcissist skilfully manages to distort your reality.<\/p>\n

Passado algum tempo, come\u00e7a a sentir-se perdido e a perguntar-se se \u00e9 realmente o louco.<\/p>\n

Ao iludir as suas v\u00edtimas, os narcisistas fazem o seu melhor para as esgotar mentalmente ao ponto de n\u00e3o terem for\u00e7as para as confrontar.<\/p>\n

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