{"id":87501,"date":"2020-09-08T06:44:53","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T06:44:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=87501"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:09:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:09:33","slug":"nao-o-deixes-contar-os-teus-defeitos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-o-deixes-contar-os-teus-defeitos\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o deixes que ele conte os teus defeitos enquanto n\u00e3o reparas nos dele"},"content":{"rendered":"

As mulheres apaixonadas s\u00e3o outra coisa.<\/strong> Ficamos t\u00e3o apaixonados e cegos que a realidade objetiva deixa de fazer sentido.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, part of that is not seeing the person we\u2019re in love with as they truly are. We\u2019re quick to forgive or even ignore things that are not to be ignored.<\/p>\n

No matter how much we like or love someone, we shouldn\u2019t let them mistreat us.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tudo come\u00e7a com simples sugest\u00f5es e coment\u00e1rios, depois torna-se mais frequente e transforma-se num pesadelo.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There are many ways of subtle abuse; for example, constant criticizing and spotting other people\u2019s faults without ever seeing ours.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s even worse, sometimes you start to believe what\u2019s being said and start to question yourself about every little thing you do.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You start overthinking what you\u2019re going to say and do. Your life slowly turns into trying n\u00e3o fazer a coisa errada<\/em> even if you\u2019re not even doing so.<\/p>\n

If we\u2019re being heavily criticized on a regular basis, especially for things that don\u2019t matter, it\u2019s going to mess with our self-esteem.<\/p>\n

\"preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/p>\n

A person who loves us shouldn\u2019t count our flaws. Instead, they should help us overcome them and that can be done tactfully.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There are so many gentle ways to tell a person what\u2019s bothering you and criticism is not one of them. It\u2019s probably the least effective way to change a person\u2019s behavior.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Para n\u00e3o falar do facto de ser problem\u00e1tico ter uma pessoa sempre insatisfeita enquanto a outra se mant\u00e9m em sil\u00eancio.<\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t be afraid to call someone out on their bad behavior. In fact, you have to do that or the relationship otherwise doesn\u2019t make sense.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If partners don\u2019t call out each other on their bad behavior, no progress can\u2019t be made. The problem is when it\u2019s one-sided and one person spots only the flaws of the other and forgets theirs.<\/p>\n

Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o precisa de paci\u00eancia, compreens\u00e3o, amor, apre\u00e7o e apoio.<\/strong><\/p>\n

All those things need two people for it to work out. If you don\u2019t have those things, you should reconsider your choices. I\u2019m not saying you have to break up with someone but something has to change.<\/p>\n

The first step is to react when you\u2019re being criticized. Stop and ask the right questions.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

We\u2019re human and we make mistakes but we also have reason and emotions that let us improve existing situations.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Almost everything in life can be solved with good conversation and having empathy and an open mind\u2014at least for your partner.<\/p>\n

Se nada mais funcionar e se sentir constantemente posto de lado e desvalorizado, abandone a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not here to be liked by other people.<\/strong> You\u2019re enough as you are and if someone can\u2019t see it, you can\u2019t make them.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to be aware of your own value, of your self-worth. Knowing your self-worth is vital for your happiness. Happiness is the ultimate goal of life.<\/p>\n

Quando conhecemos o nosso valor pr\u00f3prio, nunca nos apaixonamos ao ponto de o esquecermos por causa de um homem.<\/p>\n

A relationship is a big part of any life but it makes sense only if we\u2019re happy in it.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 que significa ser feliz?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Significa ter uma pessoa com quem se pode contar sempre, algu\u00e9m que nos levanta e nos ajuda a sermos melhores.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Significa ser realista em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a si pr\u00f3prio, ao seu parceiro e \u00e0 vida e ser otimista e solid\u00e1rio.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Constant criticism is how we lose faith in ourselves and in life. It\u2019s a vicious circle that\u2019s hard to escape once your mind gets stuck on it.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you have to set boundaries and learn to say enough when it\u2019s enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o s\u00f3 isso, mas tamb\u00e9m tens de te curar de qualquer abuso verbal.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let the other person get away with their wrongdoings because you are too insecure with yourself and don\u2019t feel like you should speak up.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deves sempre falar quando algu\u00e9m te trata menos do que mereces. Deves saber sempre que o abuso verbal nunca \u00e9 aceit\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him count your flaws while you\u2019re overlooking his because otherwise, you\u2019re disrespecting yourself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let him convince you that you\u2019re something you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a person capable of great things if only you let yourself be.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Women in love are something else. We get so infatuated and blind that objective reality stops making sense. Unfortunately, part of that is not seeing the person we\u2019re in love with as they truly are. We\u2019re quick to forgive or even ignore things that are not to be ignored. No matter how much we like…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":98113,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-87501","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Dont-Let-Him-Count-Your-Flaws-While-Youre-Overlooking-His.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87501","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=87501"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87501\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98113"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=87501"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=87501"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=87501"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}