{"id":87655,"date":"2020-09-08T06:49:19","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T06:49:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=87655"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:08:08","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:08:08","slug":"os-homens-toxicos-dizem-para-te-fazer-sentir-presa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/os-homens-toxicos-dizem-para-te-fazer-sentir-presa\/","title":{"rendered":"4 frases que os homens t\u00f3xicos dizem para te fazer sentir presa"},"content":{"rendered":"

When a third party sees a victim staying next to her toxic abuser for years, despite everything he\u2019s putting her through, the first question which logically arises is: \u201cWhy?\u201d<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que algu\u00e9m no seu perfeito ju\u00edzo ficaria ao lado de algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 a transformar a sua vida num inferno por mais um minuto?<\/p>\n

Well, what most people don\u2019t know is that toxic men use a set of strategies to keep their victims next to them as long as possible.<\/p>\n

Parte destas estrat\u00e9gias s\u00e3o normalmente algumas frases comuns que utilizam para o fazer sentir-se preso na rela\u00e7\u00e3o com eles.<\/p>\n

\u201cI will change\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

A primeira e mais comum mentira de todos homens t\u00f3xicos<\/a> say is that they will change. When you\u2019re involved with a guy like this and when you start seeing his destructive behavior, naturally you want to leave.<\/p>\n

However, he doesn\u2019t allow you to get rid of him so easily. In fact, he traps you to remain in this harmful relationship by giving you numerous false promises.<\/p>\n

Segundo ele, esta \u00e9 a \u00faltima vez que a trata mal. Alegadamente, ele apercebeu-se finalmente dos seus erros e est\u00e1 pronto para fazer a diferen\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

Pensa que o amor que ele sente por si \u00e9 t\u00e3o forte que est\u00e1 disposto a mudar de atitude por sua causa. Basicamente, quer acreditar nele, uma vez que gosta muito dele.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You\u2019re more than happy to give him another chance. Nevertheless, over time, you end up giving him endless second chances.<\/p>\n

Apesar das suas expectativas, o seu homem t\u00f3xico nunca muda de facto. A pior parte \u00e9 que ele nunca planeou sinceramente faz\u00ea-lo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, tudo isto fazia parte do seu plano maior. Uma parte do seu esquema para te manter por perto o m\u00e1ximo de tempo poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

Yes, after a while, you realize what he\u2019s been doing. However, that is once you\u2019re already buried in his manipulations so deeply that you don\u2019t see a way out.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019d be lost without you\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Algumas mulheres t\u00eam uma necessidade subconsciente de salvar toda a gente<\/a> around them. If you\u2019re one of them, you must think of yourself as this superwoman.<\/p>\n

You assume that you have the capacity to open a man\u2019s heart to love and the ability to turn his life upside down.<\/p>\n

Bem, deixe-me dizer-lhe uma coisa: os homens t\u00f3xicos sentem isso. Escolhem as suas v\u00edtimas com sabedoria e este homem sabia que era uma pessoa emp\u00e1tica que ele podia apanhar com a sua triste hist\u00f3ria de vida.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

That\u2019s exactly why he keeps you next to him by telling you that he would be completely lost without you.<\/p>\n

Whenever he says something like this, he is emotionally blackmailing you. You think that you can\u2019t leave him because he needs you.<\/p>\n

According to this sentence, you\u2019re the only ray of light in this man\u2019s existence. If you abandon him, he will be surrounded by darkness and his life will be ruined.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou need me\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, existe tamb\u00e9m um tipo diferente de pessoas t\u00f3xicas<\/a> que se concentram no facto de que precisa deles e n\u00e3o o contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re trapped with this kind of a man, he does everything in his power to convince you that you could never make it without him.<\/p>\n

He will put his maximum effort into making you financially and emotionally dependent on him. This guy brainwashes you into believing that you don\u2019t have anyone besides him.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Even though he doesn\u2019t care about you at all, he will persuade you into thinking that no man besides him would love you the way he does.<\/p>\n

After some time, this toxic man makes you believe that you\u2019re not meant to be loved. So you end up staying with him because you think you have nowhere else to go.<\/p>\n

\u201cYou\u2019re too sensitive\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

A list of common phrases narcissists use goes something like this: \u201cYou\u2019re overreacting,\u201d \u201cYou\u2019re too sensitive,\u201d \u201cWhat I did wasn\u2019t a big deal\u201d.<\/p>\n

Ao dizer estas frases, o seu parceiro t\u00f3xico est\u00e1 a minimizar a sua dor. Ele est\u00e1 a tentar inverter a situa\u00e7\u00e3o e virar o jogo a seu favor.<\/p>\n

According to him, he is not the one to blame for the hell he\u2019s putting you through. He is not the abuser and you\u2019re not his victim\u2014you\u2019re just overly emotional and take everything too personal.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

This is actually one of the forms of gaslighting. While you\u2019re going through all of this, you start to question your own sanity.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t help but wonder whether he is really right. Are you really exaggerating?<\/p>\n

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