{"id":87706,"date":"2020-08-14T07:50:45","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T07:50:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=87706"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:55:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:55:41","slug":"ela-precisa-de-se-curar-mas-nao-sabe-como","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ela-precisa-de-se-curar-mas-nao-sabe-como\/","title":{"rendered":"Para todas as raparigas que sabem que precisam de se curar mas n\u00e3o sabem como"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Neste momento, sente-se completamente perdido. N\u00e3o sabe para onde est\u00e1 a ir e o que deve fazer a seguir.<\/p>\n<p>Your heart is shattered in million pieces and you feel completely broken from the inside. You don\u2019t see the way out or any light at the end of this dark tunnel you\u2019re trapped in.<\/p>\n<p>This man killed you spiritually and destroyed all of your hopes and dreams. You\u2019re convinced that you\u2019ll never go back to your old self and that he managed to crush you beyond repair.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The worst part is that you assume that you\u2019re the only one feeling this way.<\/strong> Afinal, toda a gente \u00e0 sua volta j\u00e1 passou por coisas semelhantes, mas parece ter sa\u00eddo delas muito bem.<\/p>\n<p>As pessoas separam-se a toda a hora e as rela\u00e7\u00f5es desfazem-se todos os dias. Perdem os seus entes queridos, mas cada um deles sobreviveu \u00e0 sua perda.<\/p>\n<p>It seems that everyone besides you has it all figured out. You\u2019re the only one who can\u2019t get a grip on herself.<\/p>\n<p>De facto, <strong>the biggest problem is that you\u2019re perfectly aware that you need to move from this dead spot. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You know that you can\u2019t keep on living like this forever and that you must make some changes as soon as possible.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>However, as much as you try, you can\u2019t figure out how to get over all that\u2019s happened. You know you need to heal, but you just don\u2019t know how.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87709\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem e triste, de cabelo encaracolado e morena, com camisa preta\" width=\"800\" height=\"538\"><\/p>\n<p>Sim, toda a gente continua a dar-te sempre o mesmo conselho. Tens de come\u00e7ar a pensar positivamente, tens de acabar com este tipo de vez, tens de fazer o teu melhor para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/11-things-to-do-when-you-cant-stop-thinking-about-him\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">parar de pensar nele<\/a>\u2026<\/p>\n<p>The list goes on. The point is that you\u2019ve done all this \u2013 in vain.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You play by the rules, but you still haven\u2019t managed to forget about your ex. You kicked him out of your life, but you can\u2019t seem to throw him out from your heart and head.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Basically, you feel like a failure. You\u2019ve been really giving your best and trying your hardest, but you still miss and love this guy, despite all the pain he\u2019s caused you.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t help but wonder if this situation will go on forever. Will you ever <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/como-esquecer-alguem-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">superar<\/a> ele completamente? Conseguir\u00e1s alguma vez voltar a apaixonar-te?<\/p>\n<p>The fact that your closest ones are secretly judging you \u2013<strong> it\u2019s like everyone is giving you a deadline, an amount of time up until you should be fine.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos uma coisa. <strong>We all heal at a different pace and just because you need a bit longer to recover, it doesn\u2019t mean it will never happen.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No, you\u2019re not broken beyond repair. No matter how things might look now, I promise you one thing: <strong>Vais ficar melhor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that it will happen tomorrow or even this year, but it will happen. Mark my words.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87710\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/selective-photography-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia selectiva de uma mulher a sorrir virada para a c\u00e2mara\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\"><\/p>\n<p>No entanto, <strong>I have to tell you another secret nobody wants you to know: There\u2019s no such thing as a magic formula for <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/psicologia\/healing\/a-todas-as-mulheres-que-se-curam-so-mais-um-bocadinho\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">cura<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ningu\u00e9m lhe pode dizer exatamente o que deve fazer para se sentir melhor. <strong>What helps one person, simply doesn\u2019t work for someone else.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t get me wrong. I\u2019m not saying that you should continue drowning in your despair for as long as you breathe.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not here to advise you to let your pain define you and for you to lose all hope of ever letting go.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m just begging you not to push yourself too hard.<strong> Don\u2019t go over your limits, but just listen to your inner rhythm.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Remember: Healing is a process and it doesn\u2019t happen at the switch of the button. Yes, we would all love it if things worked out that way, but sadly, it is way harder and takes much more effort.<\/p>\n<p>Para al\u00e9m disso,<strong> just because you still haven\u2019t reached your final goal, it doesn\u2019t mean that you haven\u2019t moved an inch.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>After all, you\u2019ve reached incredible progress just by being aware of the fact that you have to heal.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You know very well that you\u2019re not okay and that realization alone puts you one step closer to your full recovery.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87712\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/For-Every-Girl-Who-Knows-She-Needs-To-Heal-But-Doesn\u2019t-Know-How-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Para todas as raparigas que sabem que precisam de se curar mas n\u00e3o sabem como\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At the moment, you feel completely lost. You don\u2019t know where you\u2019re headed and what you should do next. Your heart is shattered in million pieces and you feel completely broken from the inside. You don\u2019t see the way out or any light at the end of this dark tunnel you\u2019re trapped in. 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