{"id":88201,"date":"2020-08-14T06:38:47","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T06:38:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88201"},"modified":"2021-11-12T17:29:35","modified_gmt":"2021-11-12T17:29:35","slug":"as-pessoas-perguntam-te-porque-e-que-ainda-es-solteiro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/as-pessoas-perguntam-te-porque-e-que-ainda-es-solteiro\/","title":{"rendered":"Eis como responder quando as pessoas te perguntam porque \u00e9 que ainda est\u00e1s solteiro"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019re single, chances are people are looking at you with that distinctive facial expression that feels a bit like pity. You know, <\/span>after they learned you\u2019re single<\/span><\/i>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Some of them are even brave enough to ask why you\u2019re still \u00fanico<\/a>, like it\u2019s a casual question and not a deeply intimate one.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re becoming slightly irritated with this kind of question, I\u2019ve got you!<\/span><\/p>\n

Here are some perfect responses I,  a single person who\u2019s just trying to live a normal life and be happy on her own, came up with:<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m perfectly happy on my own.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Simple and straight to the point. Apparently, lots of people think that a single woman can\u2019t be happy.<\/span><\/p>\n

I assume they think we\u2019re desperate and dissatisfied but the truth is so far from that.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you explain further that it is possible for a woman to be happy without a man and they don\u2019t understand, that\u2019s their problem, not yours.<\/span><\/p>\n

I haven\u2019t met anyone I wish to spend my life with.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

In other words, you\u2019re not the type to settle for just anyone. You and your ideal partner haven\u2019t crossed paths just yet and maybe you never will, who knows?<\/span><\/p>\n

What\u2019s important is that you\u2019re content with yourself and your decision.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esta resposta deveria ser bastante clara, mas ainda assim, para muitas pessoas, o simples facto de estar com algu\u00e9m \u00e9 um sinal de sucesso.<\/span><\/p>\n

What they don\u2019t understand is that maybe you\u2019re just an unconventional woman who doesn\u2019t see herself in a conventional relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que pergunta? H\u00e1 algo de mau em ser solteiro?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ok, esta pode parecer rude para alguns, mas a pergunta em si \u00e9 rude.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tecnicamente, isto n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma resposta mas uma contra-pergunta, no entanto, muda o foco de si para eles.<\/span><\/p>\n

Esperemos que isso os fa\u00e7a reconsiderar a sua decis\u00e3o de fazer tais perguntas.<\/span><\/p>\n

Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 a minha prioridade na vida, tenho outros planos.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Outra coisa que as pessoas assumem \u00e9 que toda a gente valoriza da mesma forma uma parceria, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o e um casamento.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s a perfect opportunity to surprise them by saying you have different priorities in life \u2013 for your career, for example.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re an ambitious woman with different life values and there\u2019s nothing wrong with that.<\/span><\/p>\n

Divirto-me demasiado sozinho.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Relationships can be great, but sometimes they\u2019re nothing but a hassle and that\u2019s a fact.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sometimes it\u2019s just easier and more fun to do things alone. It feels more genuine.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re the type of person who\u2019s never bored, you know what I\u2019m talking about.<\/span><\/p>\n

There are so many things to experience, so many ways to fill your time with meaningful activities, and it\u2019s more than possible to do this on your own.<\/span><\/p>\n

Gosto demasiado dos namoros casuais para desistir deles.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Not every woman dreams about the prince charming she\u2019s going to spend her life with.<\/span><\/p>\n

Algumas mulheres s\u00e3o mais descontra\u00eddas e gostam de se divertir sem compromissos.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re this kind of woman, you probably won\u2019t be bothered by this question at all because you\u2019re at peace with your decisions and know what you want in life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fazes a mesma pergunta aos homens?<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Chame-os \u00e0 aten\u00e7\u00e3o. Porque \u00e9 que s\u00f3 \u00e0s mulheres \u00e9 feita esta pergunta, enquanto os homens podem desfrutar do facto de serem solteiros?<\/span><\/p>\n

This is not fair; in fact, it\u2019s a <\/span>mis\u00f3gino<\/span> coisa a dizer.<\/span><\/p>\n

If they want to make you uncomfortable, why shouldn\u2019t you do the same?<\/span><\/p>\n

Your life and your relationships are a private matter and shouldn\u2019t be anyone else\u2019s business.<\/span><\/p>\n

A woman\u2019s value shouldn\u2019t be measured through her relationship status.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re so much more than that and it\u2019s time for people to realize.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lastly, don\u2019t let anyone tell you how you should live your life. Follow your intuition, your values, and your dreams.<\/span><\/p>\n

Everything else will fall into place once you\u2019re happy with your decisions \u2013 whatever they may be.<\/span><\/p>\n

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If you\u2019re single, chances are people are looking at you with that distinctive facial expression that feels a bit like pity. You know, after they learned you\u2019re single. Some of them are even brave enough to ask why you\u2019re still single, like it\u2019s a casual question and not a deeply intimate one. If you\u2019re becoming…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":88211,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88201","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Heres-How-To-Respond-When-People-Ask-You-Why-You\u2019re-Still-Single.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88201","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=88201"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88201\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/88211"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=88201"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=88201"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=88201"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}