{"id":88334,"date":"2020-08-14T08:00:12","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T08:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88334"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:55:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:55:16","slug":"eu-fiz-catfishing-com-o-meu-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/eu-fiz-catfishing-com-o-meu-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"Catfishi o meu ex e descobri algumas coisas inesperadas"},"content":{"rendered":"

I didn’t know how to approach my ex and I thought that contacting him from my fake social media account was my only way<\/strong><\/em> para perceber porque \u00e9 que ele me deixou.<\/p>\n

I just couldn\u2019t come to terms with the break-up.<\/p>\n

Queria saber se ele ia ficar agarrado a outra pessoa de imediato ou se ainda n\u00e3o me tinha esquecido. A separa\u00e7\u00e3o deixou a minha cabe\u00e7a a fervilhar de perguntas e o pior \u00e9 que eu queria-o de volta.<\/p>\n

As it turns out, this wasn\u2019t one of my best or most sane ideas. I found out some unexpected and unpleasant things.<\/p>\n

Da minha experi\u00eancia pessoal, fazer \"catfishing\" ao seu ex nunca \u00e9 a forma correcta de se reconciliar ou de descobrir a verdadeira raz\u00e3o da sua separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/strong><\/em>. You shouldn’t even think about trying it.<\/p>\n

It won’t do you any good. It may only cause you more pain.<\/p>\n

Quando o meu ex acabou comigo, fiquei com algumas lutas p\u00f3s-rutura<\/a>. Esta \u00e9 a minha hist\u00f3ria sobre o catfishing do meu ex.<\/p>\n

It wasn’t worth the effort<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It really wasn’t. It only helped me realize that man wasn\u2019t in love with me anymore and as time passed by, I realized that I also didn\u2019t love him the same way I did before.<\/p>\n

We broke up. He became my ex, a part of my past and that’s exactly where I should leave him, in the past.<\/p>\n

It’s so hard to pretend that you are someone else<\/h2>\n

Sinceramente, admiro as pessoas que est\u00e3o sempre a fingir que s\u00e3o outra pessoa s\u00f3 para agradar aos outros ou para que os outros gostem delas.<\/p>\n

I have always been my true self. This is the first time I had to lie and pretend that I was someone else. It’s so hard.<\/p>\n

It’s so hard to remember all those lies and you’re afraid of being caught all the time.<\/p>\n

Os encontros online nunca s\u00e3o seguros<\/h2>\n

\"pessoa<\/p>\n

This time it was safe because I really didn’t have any bad intentions. I didn’t want to hurt my ex, I just wanted to find out some things that were bothering me after the break-up.<\/p>\n

No entanto, fez-me pensar. Quantos perfis falsos existem? Quantas pessoas mentem sobre si pr\u00f3prias s\u00f3 para que outras pessoas gostem delas ou se apaixonem por elas?<\/p>\n

Todos temos de ser mais cuidadosos com as redes sociais e a Internet.<\/strong> <\/em>You can never be sure who’s hiding behind someone’s profile.<\/p>\n

Lying is never a good way to achieve something…<\/h2>\n

Como j\u00e1 referi, mentir sobre<\/a> myself was the hardest part for me. I’m truly not used to lying. It was so complicated for me and Por vezes, perdia-me completamente nas minhas pr\u00f3prias mentiras.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Really, what was I thinking? That we\u2019d be chatting forever and that he\u2019d never ask me on a date? It’s so funny but in the beginning, I had the feeling like we were falling in love again.<\/p>\n

A rela\u00e7\u00e3o tem de ser baseada na confian\u00e7a<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

I’m sure that trust is the foundation for every sincere relationship, that a relationship can’t survive without trust.<\/p>\n

Nothing is worth it if you have lost your partner’s trust.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I managed to get my ex to open up to me but I didn’t like what he had to say<\/h2>\n

Depois de conversarmos durante algum tempo, o meu ex abriu-se totalmente comigo. Perguntei-lhe sobre o seu passado e as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es anteriores.<\/p>\n

Ele disse-me que j\u00e1 tinha estado apaixonado uma vez antes de mim, verdadeiramente, loucamente, incondicionalmente apaixonado por uma rapariga, mas que ela nunca mostrou qualquer compreens\u00e3o por ele e nunca lhe disse o quanto ele significava para ela.<\/p>\n

Houve uma raz\u00e3o para a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o ter acabado e a \u00fanica coisa correcta era seguir em frente<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Devia ter aceitado o facto de termos seguido caminhos diferentes. Devia ter dado eu pr\u00f3prio algum tempo<\/a> para curar e depois seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

We broke up and we stayed friends but now, my ex is angry at me and he doesn’t even want to keep in touch with me.<\/p>\n

De facto, some things can’t be fixed<\/em><\/strong>Por muito que tentemos, s\u00f3 podemos piorar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

A verdade acaba sempre por vir ao de cima<\/h2>\n

Eventually, my ex started doubting me and he asked around a little bit. He always knew I had a fake profile because I would play games on it and it didn’t take him long to put the pieces together.<\/p>\n

Ele sabia h\u00e1 algum tempo que era eu e depois, mesmo no meio de uma conversa, chamou-me pelo meu nome verdadeiro e perguntou-me porque \u00e9 que eu estava a fazer aquilo.<\/p>\n

I sat frozen in front of my computer. I didn’t know what to do or what to answer with. I couldn’t understand what gave me away. Of course, I admitted that was me and explained why I did it.<\/p>\n

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