{"id":88436,"date":"2020-08-14T06:41:07","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T06:41:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88436"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:28:59","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:28:59","slug":"nunca-ser-esposa-de-um-homem-com-quem-se-esta-a-namorar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nunca-ser-esposa-de-um-homem-com-quem-se-esta-a-namorar\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca sejas a esposa de um homem com quem andas a sair, s\u00f3 vais acabar desiludida"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eu conhe\u00e7o-vos, meninas.<\/span><\/p>\n

O seu bom cora\u00e7\u00e3o, as suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es inocentes e os seus planos sinceros para o futuro fazem-na pensar que a melhor forma de conquistar um homem \u00e9 mostrar-lhe o qu\u00e3o boa pode ser para ele.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o esconde nada, abre-se completamente com ele e mostra-lhe como seria a sua vida consigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

It makes perfect sense to you. You\u2019re in a loving relationship that\u2019s moving towards commitment and <\/span>casamento<\/span><\/a>, so why shouldn\u2019t you act like you\u2019re already married? After all, in your mind and heart, you already are.<\/span><\/p>\n

There\u2019s only one problem \u2013 that\u2019s not how he feels. It will take a lot for him to understand he\u2019s married and start acting like he is even when you actually do get married. Right now, that\u2019s not where he is in his mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t invest too much too soon. Don\u2019t love too hard too soon. Don\u2019t make too many plans before the time comes.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Muitas raparigas come\u00e7am a tratar os seus namorados como maridos assim que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o se torna exclusiva.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tens um anel no dedo? N\u00e3o. Isso diz o suficiente.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You\u2019re there, thinking how fulfilled you are by the commitment and closeness you get from your \u201cplaying house\u2019\u2019 kind of relationship, believing that it\u2019s a testament to how much you care about each other.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You give more and more each day and are suddenly left broken, surprised, and confused when he treats you like you\u2019re just some girl in his life.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 que acontece?<\/span><\/p>\n

Cen\u00e1rio um:<\/i><\/b> He leaves you without batting an eye because to him, you\u2019re \u2018\u2019just\u2019\u2019 a girlfriend.<\/span><\/p>\n

Your pain is that much bigger because you assumed you\u2019d found the one from the way he accepted being treated like your hubby.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ele estava feliz por a ter a fazer tudo por ele, mas n\u00e3o estava disposto a retribuir o favor. Quando chegou a altura de ele agir como um marido, foi-se embora.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cen\u00e1rio dois:<\/i><\/b> You wait for years for him to actually decide to marry you, and he still doesn\u2019t. He gets all the benefits of a wife without marrying you, so there\u2019s nothing motivating him to actually do it.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Depois de muitos anos a viver como uma esposa a fingir, passa por uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o de div\u00f3rcio <\/span>romper<\/span><\/a> sem nunca terem sido casados.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se um homem quer que sejas a sua mulher, tem de o merecer. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t devote yourself completely to a man who still hasn\u2019t shown he\u2019s willing to commit to you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re impatient to give him everything you have, to make him feel like a king, and to be his queen. By the time you realize he\u2019s a million miles away from that kind of perspective, you\u2019ll be long hurt.<\/span><\/p>\n

Aguenta. Tens tanto para dar, mas guarda-o por agora. Chegar\u00e1 o momento em que um homem se mostrar\u00e1 digno da tua devo\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t give him the benefits of marriage if he doesn\u2019t give you the <\/span>compromisso<\/span><\/a> e responsabilidade de um.<\/span><\/p>\n

Always remember that acting like a wife to your boyfriend doesn\u2019t guarantee that he\u2019ll eventually marry you<\/i><\/b>.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

It only guarantees that there\u2019s a huge chance you\u2019ll be left broken and disappointed in love and men.<\/span><\/p>\n

Usa o teu tempo para seres uma namorada. Conhece-o melhor. Diverte-te.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t dive headlong into tracking his appointments, cleaning his home, and cooking his meals.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t make him your absolute priority in life, putting him before your family, friends, job, education. Make sure he proves he\u2019s worthy of making huge compromises.<\/span><\/p>\n

Valorize-se a si pr\u00f3prio e ao seu tempo. Valorize a sua pr\u00f3pria vida. Colocar expectativas demasiado elevadas ou mesmo irracionais sobre ele e sobre a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9, na verdade, a forma mais r\u00e1pida de esta falhar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Being like a wife to your boyfriend is not the way towards a successful marriage but it can be the way to the relationship\u2019s total failure.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Aprecie e ame o seu namorado, mas mantenha-o sempre com d\u00favidas e esperan\u00e7as. Deixe-o ansioso por casar consigo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t push him towards taking you for granted \u2013 know your worth and make sure he knows it too.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Nunca<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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