{"id":88581,"date":"2020-09-08T07:09:08","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T07:09:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88581"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:03:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:03:47","slug":"os-comportamentos-provam-que-ele-e-de-facto-um-manipulador","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/os-comportamentos-provam-que-ele-e-de-facto-um-manipulador\/","title":{"rendered":"Ele diz que \u00e9 sens\u00edvel, mas estes 9 comportamentos provam que ele \u00e9, na verdade, um manipulador"},"content":{"rendered":"

Est\u00e1s muito feliz por finalmente teres encontrado um rapaz que \u00e9 emotivo e n\u00e3o tem medo de se abrir sobre as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es. Ainda assim, algo parece estranho.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re blaming yourself for not being able to deal with his emotions, thinking you\u2019re just not used to having a sensitive boyfriend.<\/p>\n

If you can sense that there\u2019s something wrong, there\u2019s a chance he\u2019s a manipulator who pretends to be sensitive as a part of his con.<\/p>\n

Veja estes sinais de um manipulador disfar\u00e7ado<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Ele compromete-se a fingir<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Aos olhos destreinados, parece que ele fez de facto um compromisso em prol de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

However, in reality, he uses every possible situation to make it look like he\u2019s doing you favors.<\/p>\n

For example, if you ask him to go out with you, he might say something like: \u201cWell, I already had plans but I can cancel them for you.\u201d<\/p>\n

In fact, he didn\u2019t even have plans but wanted to use the chance to make himself look good and flexible.<\/p>\n

Parece que ele descarrega sempre a sua bagagem em ti<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Of course, it\u2019s okay for a guy to share his problems with you but a manipulator has a unique way of doing that. He finds a way to control you with his traumas or sad experiences from his past.<\/p>\n

Por exemplo, ele pode ter sido tra\u00eddo e agora usa isso para a obrigar a ter muito cuidado com a forma como interage com outros homens, porque diz que o facto de falar com outros homens desencadeia todas as emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas que ele tem do passado.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s always the victim<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You often hear him say that he\u2019s such a nice guy and that\u2019s probably why everyone is always hurting him. He can make every situation look like he\u2019s the one who got hurt, no matter what the real story is.<\/p>\n

Everyone is out to get him and it\u2019s always him who ends up being a victim in almost every possible scenario.<\/p>\n

His \u2018care\u2019 feels weird<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He\u2019s sneaky with giving you advice that only serves him. He formulates his sentences so it seems like he truly cares but he\u2019s actually trying to get you to do what he wants.<\/p>\n

So, if he doesn\u2019t want you to do something, he might say something like, \u201cI just really don\u2019t want you to get hurt\/disappointed.\u201d<\/p>\n

At first, you think that he must really care about you but it feels really weird and it\u2019s like every time you listen to his advice, you\u2019re left feeling empty and confused.<\/p>\n

Ele puxa-nos para os seus estados de esp\u00edrito<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve noticed that however he feels, you start feeling. Sure, you might be um verdadeiro emp\u00e1tico<\/a> but you\u2019ll notice that he intentionally tries to pull you down and isn\u2019t satisfied until he succeeds.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t stand you being happy if he\u2019s sad and he wants you to feel responsible for his feelings as this gives him a way to blame you whenever something goes wrong.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t seem sincere<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He usually does what you want him to do and says all the right things. He\u2019s a natural people pleaser but you can sense that there\u2019s something fake about it.<\/p>\n

You can see by paying attention to his facial expressions that he isn\u2019t honest.<\/p>\n

As coisas que ele faz por si parecem exageradas e planeadas com demasiado cuidado e ele raramente comete erros, especialmente no in\u00edcio da rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Quando algo parece demasiado bom para ser verdade, normalmente \u00e9.<\/p>\n

Ele procura uma aten\u00e7\u00e3o constante<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019re just about to go to a party which he knew about and he calls you to tell you he\u2019s not feeling well and you have to go see him.<\/p>\n

You will be glad to at first but with time, you\u2019ll notice that this is a pattern. He does this on purpose to drag you away from having fun with other people and focus all your energy and time on him.<\/p>\n

He tells you sad stories at \u2018convenient\u2019 times<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Ele tem muitas hist\u00f3rias tristes e, de alguma forma, consegue partilh\u00e1-las consigo nas alturas mais convenientes.<\/p>\n

Usually, when he\u2019s done speaking and crying, he\u2019ll ask for something such as a favor or money or he\u2019ll ask for you to do something you\u2019ve already said no to.<\/p>\n

This is a definite sign he\u2019s manipulating you and you should dump him, no questions asked.<\/p>\n

Ele chora a toda a hora<\/h2>\n

\"Um<\/p>\n

A guy being brave enough to show his emotions is amazing but this guy cries all the time, especially when things aren\u2019t going his way.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a good chance that whenever you need to tell him something really important which he assumes will be uncomfortable, he suddenly gets super emotional and cries.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like he can cry on command whenever it\u2019s convenient for him.<\/p>\n

Se, ao ler isto, se apercebeu de que o seu namorado emocional \u00e9, na verdade, um manipulador e agora se sente desiludida ou zangada, n\u00f3s compreendemos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Leaving that kind of guy will be tricky since that\u2019s where his manipulation tactics will reach their highest level.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Stay strong and don\u2019t let him trick you into staying with him. You now know better.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Ele<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You\u2019re so happy to have finally found a guy who\u2019s emotional and isn\u2019t afraid to open up about his emotions. Still, something feels weird. You\u2019re blaming yourself for not being able to deal with his emotions, thinking you\u2019re just not used to having a sensitive boyfriend. If you can sense that there\u2019s something wrong, there\u2019s…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88581","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88581","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=88581"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88581\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=88581"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=88581"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=88581"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}