{"id":8860,"date":"2020-06-21T12:20:07","date_gmt":"2020-06-21T12:20:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8860"},"modified":"2022-08-10T07:12:41","modified_gmt":"2022-08-10T07:12:41","slug":"carta-sente-que-ninguem-se-importa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-sente-que-ninguem-se-importa\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para ti quando sentes que ningu\u00e9m se importa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Levanta-se de manh\u00e3 n\u00e3o porque est\u00e1 ansioso por ver o que o dia seguinte tem preparado para si, mas porque tem de o fazer.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t look forward to seeing people and you\u2019re not looking forward to new mornings and days because you forgot how amazing feels.<\/p>\n

Even if something amazing happens, you probably wouldn\u2019t be able to notice it. Because you\u2019re too busy feeling alone.<\/p>\n

A partir do momento em que abre os olhos, este sentimento apodera-se de si. Acordamos com um sussurro no ouvido que nos diz que ningu\u00e9m se importa.<\/p>\n

It tells you how you need to say, \u201cI\u2019m fine,\u201d whenever someone asks you how you’ve been or how you shouldn\u2019t tell others about your issues because nobody really cares.<\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

You get up, strip off your clothes and get under the shower. You let the water roll down your face while you continue thinking that there isn\u2019t a person in this world who could understand you.<\/p>\n

You feel like you’re the only one, like you\u2019re alone. So you end up getting out of that shower feeling tired even before your day started, but you somehow resist the urge to crawl back to your bed.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 mesmo esta a vida que queres ter? \u00c9 mesmo assim que queres viver? Sentir-se cansado, sentir que ningu\u00e9m se importa, que ningu\u00e9m compreende?<\/p>\n

Aren\u2019t you tired of feeling tired? Aren\u2019t you tired of constantly bringing yourself down?<\/strong><\/p>\n

At one point you’ll have to snap out of it. At one point you’ll have to find the strength to impedir-se de ser t\u00f3xico.<\/a><\/p>\n

You\u2019re the toxic one here.<\/a> You\u2019re hurting yourself. And you need to stop.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You have to stop hurting yourself and decide to take care of yourself for a change. Because if you don\u2019t do it, nobody else will be able to help you.<\/p>\n

Algures ao longo do caminho, no conforto da sua cama, esqueceu-se de como pode ser agrad\u00e1vel e caloroso ter algu\u00e9m que realmente se preocupa.<\/p>\n

Esqueceste-te de como \u00e9 n\u00e3o te sentires sozinho, de como \u00e9 ansiar por um novo dia e por novas coisas fant\u00e1sticas que a vida te pode dar.<\/p>\n

You might be unable to see it now, but this feeling of loneliness doesn\u2019t come when nobody cares. It comes when the person you care utterly about doesn\u2019t really care about you back.<\/strong><\/p>\n

There isn\u2019t an uglier feeling than to see that the person you\u2019d do anything for wouldn\u2019t even do half of the things you\u2019re ready to do.<\/p>\n

Only then your self-doubt starts and once that avalanche has been started, it won\u2019t take long until it buries you.<\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>\n

You start feeling like you\u2019re not good enough. You start thinking how you can\u2019t do a single thing right and you start hating yourself and your life for not being lovable.<\/p>\n

Mas o pior de tudo \u00e9 que come\u00e7a a sentir que ningu\u00e9m se importa. E fazes tudo isto sozinho.<\/p>\n

Em vez de culparmos a pessoa certa, acabamos por atribuir todas as ac\u00e7\u00f5es erradas de uma \u00fanica pessoa a todas as outras pessoas da nossa vida. E lentamente come\u00e7a a afastar as pessoas.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Because of this one person who did you wrong, who didn\u2019t reciprocate your feelings, you end up thinking that we\u2019re all the same. But we\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re just temporarily blinded by emotions, but once you\u2019re okay, you\u2019ll see you\u2019ve been projecting the insecurities of one person onto all the people around you. And that\u2019s what you shouldn\u2019t have done.<\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>\n

Por isso, amanh\u00e3, quando abrir os olhos, decida-se a esperar ansiosamente por esse dia. Sorria antes de se levantar da cama e, enquanto come\u00e7a a despir-se para tomar um duche, comece a cantar.<\/p>\n

And then continue singing. And then get out of the shower and play some music. Let it be a song you\u2019ll continue playing in your head.<\/p>\n

No dia seguinte, faz a mesma coisa. E no dia seguinte e no dia seguinte.<\/p>\n

Sorria para a sua f\u00e9 e d\u00ea as boas-vindas ao seu novo dia com uma can\u00e7\u00e3o, pronto para ver todas as coisas fant\u00e1sticas que o v\u00e3o atingir nesse dia.<\/p>\n

Quanto a the person who doesn’t care about you<\/a> and because of whom you started feeling unlovable and unworthy and not good enough of others’ attention, well, there is only one thing you could do and that\u2019s to walk away.<\/p>\n

Even when it might be hard to do it, even if you don\u2019t want to hear it now, it\u2019s the truth and I\u2019m gonna drop it right here-sometimes you have to be your own hero and guard your own heart because a person you utterly care about doesn\u2019t care about you at all.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Para o escritor cheio de hesita\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Darling, you\u2019re the only one in charge of your life and if you don\u2019t love it, how do you expect anyone else to love you?<\/p>\n

Whatever disturbs your peace, whoever makes you feel unimportant, unworthy or miserable- then they don\u2019t deserve you and you\u2019re allowed to walk away.<\/p>\n

Once you walk away from such darkness, you\u2019ll come to a daylight and you\u2019ll be able to clearly see that there are people who truly care about you.<\/p>\n

There are people who want to know how your day was, who\u2019d like to go to the movies with you and who\u2019d enjoy grabbing a beer at the bar with you.<\/p>\n

Afasta-te de tudo o que te faz sentir miser\u00e1vel. P\u00e1ra de afastar as pessoas boas. Aprenda a apaixonar-se de novo pela sua vida. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Cuide de si. Cuida da tua felicidade. Quando nos preocupamos, todos os outros tendem a seguir-nos.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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