{"id":88805,"date":"2020-09-08T07:52:46","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T07:52:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88805"},"modified":"2022-02-26T12:11:01","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T12:11:01","slug":"mulheres-com-as-paredes-mais-altas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mulheres-com-as-paredes-mais-altas\/","title":{"rendered":"As mulheres com os muros mais altos t\u00eam o amor mais profundo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i> \u2018The women with the highest walls have the deepest love.\u2019<\/i> \u2013 R.H. Sin<\/p>\n<p><b>Algumas mulheres amam demasiado. Infelizmente, muitas vezes acabam magoadas pela mesma raz\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s when they build up a wall around their heart.<\/p>\n<p><b>Once you experience pain so deep that it paralyzes you, it\u2019s not easy to love again. You start equating love with pain.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Love is complicated. It\u2019s messy. It\u2019s unpredictable. It\u2019s not as safe as we want it to be. It\u2019s not how you imagine it to be in your head.<\/p>\n<p>The feelings you feel when you\u2019re falling in love fade away quickly and you\u2019re left with an unperfect person you decide to love anyway.<\/p>\n<p><b>That\u2019s the secret to loving deep: <\/b><b><i>Amas de qualquer maneira<\/i><\/b><b>. <\/b><b><i>Amas apesar e n\u00e3o porque<\/i><\/b><b>. <\/b><b><i>Tu amas sempre<\/i><\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-88810 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/couple-holding-hands-3.jpg\" alt=\"mulher e homem sorridentes de m\u00e3os dadas ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/couple-holding-hands-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/couple-holding-hands-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/couple-holding-hands-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s what these kinds of women know intuitively.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t understand why so many people remain blind when it comes to realistic, everyday aspects of love. We all know that\u2019s an inevitable part of life.<\/p>\n<p>The ugly stuff, the boring stuff, the irritating stuff. That\u2019s exactly when we need to love the hardest, not walk away.<\/p>\n<p>Toda a gente est\u00e1 obcecada com o que quer especificamente do seu amante, mas n\u00e3o consegue compreender que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o requer duas pessoas felizes.<\/p>\n<p><b>O amor requer coragem. \u00c9 preciso paci\u00eancia e lealdade. \u00c9 preciso n\u00e3o se importar com pequenas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-coisas-que-as-mulheres-acham-extremamente-irritantes-para-os-homens\/\">coisas irritantes<\/a> ou o qu\u00ea <\/b><b><i>tu <\/i><\/b><b>querem a toda a hora.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sem estas coisas, nenhum amor pode sobreviver, porque o amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma fantasia inventada na nossa cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>The problem is when you know all these things and can\u2019t find someone whose energy will match yours, whose love will match yours, whose commitment will match yours.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-97577 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-on-rooftop.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com \u00f3culos em p\u00e9 num telhado\" width=\"900\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-on-rooftop.jpg 900w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-on-rooftop-300x178.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-on-rooftop-768x456.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-on-rooftop-150x89.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Pior ainda \u00e9 quando pensamos que encontr\u00e1mos algu\u00e9m que o faria e, afinal, essa pessoa estava apenas a usar-nos e a aceitar tudo o que lhes demos como garantido.<\/p>\n<p>Ao fim de algum tempo, fica-se emocionalmente esgotado . <b>Eles seguem em frente e tu ficas com o teu <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ultrapassar-o-desgosto\/\"><b>cora\u00e7\u00e3o vazio<\/b><\/a><b> e a tua alma esmagada.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>A \u00fanica forma de o cora\u00e7\u00e3o se proteger de voltar a arder \u00e9 colocar barricadas.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Para sobreviver, o cora\u00e7\u00e3o fecha-se.<\/p>\n<p><b>Infelizmente, isso significa que deixamos de ser a pessoa que \u00e9ramos antes. Afinal de contas, o nosso cora\u00e7\u00e3o e as nossas emo\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o uma grande parte de n\u00f3s.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Come\u00e7amos a ver as pessoas de forma diferente.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You realize that not everyone has your best interests at heart . Not everyone really knows how to love. Not everyone is willing to do what you\u2019re willing to do.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-88812 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-glass-window.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com \u00f3culos perto de uma janela de vidro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-glass-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-glass-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-glass-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It makes you sad but you know you can\u2019t change the world. You know you can\u2019t even change one person who supposedly loves you.<\/p>\n<p><b>O mais ir\u00f3nico de tudo \u00e9 que, aos olhos dos outros, parece ser frio. <\/b> Now, that\u2019s where life shows how humorously cynical it can be.<\/p>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 a raz\u00e3o exacta pela qual os homens devem dar <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/beleza-guardada-rapariga-queda\/\"> raparigas que se guardam<\/a> a chance; girls who are quiet and don\u2019t care about attention. <b>Os seus muros n\u00e3o s\u00e3o mais do que a prote\u00e7\u00e3o de algo precioso.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Um cora\u00e7\u00e3o puro deve ser protegido.<\/b> As mulheres com muros \u00e0 volta do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o puro s\u00e3o as que amam mais profundamente por causa disso.<\/p>\n<p><b>Nunca te esque\u00e7as disso.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Voc\u00ea <i> deve <\/i> protect yourself, just don\u2019t fall into the trap of self-deprecation. <b>It\u2019s NOT your fault someone else is not ready to love.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-88813 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-ground-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de top branco sentada no ch\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-ground-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-ground-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-ground-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not your fault you\u2019ve been hurt.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t stop believing that people like you exist. Don\u2019t stop believing that there\u2019s a man who can match your love and dedication, because there is.<\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t close off in a sense that you don\u2019t let your personality shine through. Be careful but not fearful.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Continua a amar como amas, basta encontrares as pessoas certas a quem dar o teu amor. <b>Aqueles que amam ferozmente n\u00e3o t\u00eam medo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>One day when you\u2019re ready, those walls won\u2019t be needed. You\u2019re going to realize your heart can\u2019t really be broken because your love is just too deep.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s like picking a flower but knowing its roots still remain beneath.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Essa flor \u00e9s tu.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t be afraid but grow fiercely and gently like a flower with good roots\u2014again and again.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90087 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/The-Women-With-The-Highest-Walls-Have-The-Deepest-Love-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"As mulheres com os muros mais altos t\u00eam o amor mais profundo\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/The-Women-With-The-Highest-Walls-Have-The-Deepest-Love-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/The-Women-With-The-Highest-Walls-Have-The-Deepest-Love-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/The-Women-With-The-Highest-Walls-Have-The-Deepest-Love-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/The-Women-With-The-Highest-Walls-Have-The-Deepest-Love-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2018The women with the highest walls have the deepest love.\u2019 \u2013 R.H. Sin Some women love too much. Sadly, they often end up hurt for the same reason. That\u2019s when they build up a wall around their heart. Once you experience pain so deep that it paralyzes you, it\u2019s not easy to love again. You&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":88808,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88805","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/The-Women-With-The-Highest-Walls-Have-The-Deepest-Love.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88805","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=88805"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88805\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/88808"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=88805"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=88805"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=88805"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}