{"id":88841,"date":"2020-09-08T07:23:09","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T07:23:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88841"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:01:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:01:31","slug":"encontros-que-o-fazem-parecer-desesperado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/encontros-que-o-fazem-parecer-desesperado\/","title":{"rendered":"4 coisas que fazes nos encontros que te fazem parecer desesperado"},"content":{"rendered":"

O truque do comportamento desesperado \u00e9 que a pessoa que o pratica \u00e9 a \u00faltima a aperceber-se dos sintomas.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re actually behaving this way unconsciously \u2013 you hold on to the other person in an attempt to keep him around.<\/p>\n

However, you\u2019re in fact achieving just the opposite: You\u2019re allowing him to tom\u00e1-lo por garantido<\/a>, you\u2019re giving him clearance to treat you the way he wants, and consequently, you\u2019re chasing him away.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, quais s\u00e3o exatamente as coisas que fazemos nos encontros, sem sequer nos apercebermos disso, que nos fazem parecer desesperados?<\/p>\n

Sempre em primeiro lugar<\/h2>\n

\"\u00e2ngulo<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest. What would your relationship look like if you weren\u2019t the one pulling all the strings? Would you ever even hear from your boyfriend, if you weren\u2019t the one initiating everything?<\/p>\n

You might be satisfied with the fact that this guy almost always responds to your texts, but the truth is that you\u2019re the one who reaches out to him every time.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one texting him, calling him, and asking him out. The one who keeps suggesting activities together and puts an effort into making your time together as interesting as possible.<\/p>\n

The worst part is that you don\u2019t hesitate to double or triple text him when he ignores your initial text.<\/p>\n

Basicamente, toda a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o se baseia no facto de andarem atr\u00e1s dele e ele concordar em encontrar-se convosco de vez em quando.<\/p>\n

For a change, try this experiment. Don\u2019t reach out to him first for a couple of days.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not suggesting you to do this to make him afraid of losing you.<\/p>\n

I just want you to see whether he\u2019ll notice your absence and be the one to initiate contact, or your relationship will fizzle without your initiative.<\/p>\n

Dar segundas oportunidades sem fim<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Outra coisa que faz com que pare\u00e7a desesperado numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 dar todos aqueles segundas oportunidades<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Every time your partner makes a mistake he is without a doubt responsible for, you can\u2019t wait to forgive him.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t even have to offer you a proper apology \u2013 you\u2019ll find an excuse for his behavior. The truth is you want to forgive him even when he doesn\u2019t say he\u2019s sorry.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So you look for hints of his regret and absolve him of his sins. You pretend that something he did didn\u2019t hurt you that much and that everything is fine, even when it clearly isn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you that this behavior doesn\u2019t go unnoticed. In fact, by doing this, you\u2019re only giving this man the green light to keep on harming you, without any consequences.<\/p>\n

Atividade nas redes sociais<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Muitas pessoas dir\u00e3o que as redes sociais n\u00e3o significam nada quando se trata de rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas.<\/p>\n

After all, there are many couples who don\u2019t promote their love on social media yet have the happiest romances in real life.<\/p>\n

No entanto, quer goste de o admitir ou n\u00e3o, a verdade \u00e9 que uma grande parte dos encontros modernos gira em torno das redes sociais.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 exatamente por isso que a sua atividade a\u00ed pode ser um indicador do seu comportamento desesperado.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que tem de fazer \u00e9 comparar o seu comportamento com o do seu parceiro.<\/p>\n

Just to be clear, we\u2019re not talking about a man who simply doesn\u2019t use either of the social platforms or is nothing but a passive bystander.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re talking about a guy who posts Instagram and Snapchat stories. A man who follows a bunch of girls and is clearly concerned about his social media reputation.<\/p>\n

However, you\u2019re nowhere to be found on his profiles. It\u2019s like he ignores your existence and doesn\u2019t give a damn about whatever you might be doing there.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Tu, por outro lado, \u00e9s o primeiro a ver as hist\u00f3rias dele, gostas e comentas todas as suas actualiza\u00e7\u00f5es de estado e fotografias, e tudo o que publicas \u00e9 dirigido a ele.<\/p>\n

Demasiado dispon\u00edvel<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

One of the most obvious signs that you come across as desperate is the fact that you\u2019re always available. You don\u2019t know how to say \u201cno\u201d and you\u2019re ready to move mountains just to see or please this man.<\/p>\n

No, I\u2019m not saying that you should engage in jogos mentais<\/a> and tell him that you\u2019re busy when you\u2019re actually not.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not advising you to play hard to get and reschedule your plans at the last minute just to mess with his head.<\/p>\n

No entanto, you shouldn\u2019t show him that he can always have you at his disposal either<\/strong>. As soon as this man moves an inch towards you, you\u2019re ready to run into his arms.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the one who finds time to see him, can fit him into your schedule, and cancels plans for his sake. Conversely, he never returns the favor and keeps on treating you as his last resort.<\/p>\n

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The trick about desperate behavior is that the person doing it is the last to notice the symptoms. You\u2019re actually behaving this way unconsciously \u2013 you hold on to the other person in an attempt to keep him around. However, you\u2019re in fact achieving just the opposite: You\u2019re allowing him to take you for granted,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":98035,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88841","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Things-You-Do-In-Dating-That-Make-You-Look-Desperate.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88841","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=88841"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88841\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163615,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88841\/revisions\/163615"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98035"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=88841"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=88841"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=88841"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}