{"id":88874,"date":"2020-09-08T07:26:52","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T07:26:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88874"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:00:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:00:43","slug":"fazer-uma-pausa-equivale-ao-fim-de-uma-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/fazer-uma-pausa-equivale-ao-fim-de-uma-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"4 raz\u00f5es pelas quais fazer uma pausa \u00e9 igual ao fim de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lately, taking a break from a relationship has become a common practice for couples. This way, technically you haven\u2019t ended your relationship but you\u2019re not a couple anymore either.<\/p>\n

But, is it really possible to just \u201ctake a break\u201d? Let\u2019s hear what the experts have to say about the subject.<\/p>\n

Fora da vista, fora da mente<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I\u2019m sure you\u2019ve heard the saying \u201cout of sight, out of mind\u201d. Well, let me tell you that this kind of saying actually is more than just an empty phrase.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que h\u00e1 situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que a aus\u00eancia faz com que o cora\u00e7\u00e3o fique mais feliz. <\/strong><\/p>\n

No entanto, h\u00e1 uma diferen\u00e7a entre escolher estar longe do seu ente querido e ser obrigado a viver nessas circunst\u00e2ncias.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Basically, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that there is a huge possibility that you and your partner will apaixonar-se<\/a> entre si durante este per\u00edodo.<\/p>\n

S\u00e3o raros os casais que aproveitam este tempo para reconsiderar a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o e refletir sobre as coisas. De facto, a maioria acaba por descobrir como a sua vida de solteiro \u00e9 fant\u00e1stica.<\/p>\n

Not only that: the time apart will give you both a chance to meet someone else. You don\u2019t have to actually start a new relationship but you will certainly act like you\u2019re single.<\/p>\n

If nothing else, you\u2019ll probably end up flirting with another person. Of course, this increases the risk of this person fascinating you and erasing your boyfriend from your mind.<\/p>\n

Problemas p\u00f3s-rutura no para\u00edso<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mesmo que voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro sobrevivam \u00e0 rutura e decidam tentar de novo, seria demasiado otimista esperar a perfei\u00e7\u00e3o na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

In fact, it is likely that you\u2019ll have to face numerous post-break troubles.<\/p>\n

Whether you like it or not, there will be some inevitable trust issues you won\u2019t be able to escape.<\/p>\n

What did you both do while you weren\u2019t together? How can you trust that you both remained faithful during this break?<\/strong><\/p>\n

On the other hand, if you agreed to act like you were single while you weren\u2019t together, don\u2019t think that you\u2019ll be able to ignore this fact once you reconcile.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll want to know who your partner dated. Did he sleep with other girls? Most importantly: did he start feeling something for them?<\/p>\n

If the answer is yes, you\u2019ll wonder whether the love he feels for you is even real. If you spent all of your time apart saudades dele<\/a>Como \u00e9 que ele se esqueceu de ti com tanta facilidade?<\/p>\n

Running away from the problem doesn\u2019t get you anywhere<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest here: when you\u2019re taking a break in your relationship, you\u2019re actually running away from each other.<\/p>\n

You and your boyfriend clearly don\u2019t have the capacity to resolve your problems otherwise you would stay together until you find a solution.<\/p>\n

Instead, you shut your eyes, bury your issues, and expect them to magically go away after some time. I\u2019m sorry \u2013 but how exactly do you expect this to work?<\/p>\n

Eu sei que sup\u00f5es que o tempo te trar\u00e1 uma certa clareza. Pensa que isso lhe dar\u00e1 a oportunidade de mudar a sua perspetiva.<\/p>\n

V\u00eaem-no como uma oportunidade para as paix\u00f5es arrefecerem. Uma oportunidade para pensar bem nas coisas e tomar a decis\u00e3o correcta sem que as emo\u00e7\u00f5es interfiram.<\/p>\n

However, the bottom line is that these are all empty excuses. What you\u2019re actually doing is running away from the problem and hoping it won\u2019t chase you any further.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, I hate to be the one to break your heart but this approach won\u2019t get you anywhere. Your issues and dilemmas will still be there afterward and they can\u2019t be solved without healthy communication.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s an empty excuse<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

No fim de contas, as rupturas de rela\u00e7\u00f5es n\u00e3o passam muitas vezes de desculpas. Normalmente, a pessoa que pede uma pausa j\u00e1 tem tudo planeado.<\/p>\n

Se for o seu namorado a iniciar esta mudan\u00e7a, na maioria dos casos, isso significa que ele tem medo de lhe dizer a verdade.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe he is afraid of how you\u2019ll react and is scared of crushing your heart, so he\u2019s masking his real intentions by asking for a break.<\/strong><\/p>\n

On the other hand, maybe he is the one who can\u2019t accept that the end is near. It is possible that it\u2019s easier for him to suggest taking a break than actually rutura<\/a> convosco.<\/p>\n

No entanto, tudo isto \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o de terminologia e de teoria. Existem algumas diferen\u00e7as entre as interpreta\u00e7\u00f5es, mas os significados s\u00e3o os mesmos.<\/p>\n

\"Fazer<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Lately, taking a break from a relationship has become a common practice for couples. This way, technically you haven\u2019t ended your relationship but you\u2019re not a couple anymore either. But, is it really possible to just \u201ctake a break\u201d? Let\u2019s hear what the experts have to say about the subject. Out of sight out of…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":98040,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88874","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Taking-A-Break-Equals-The-End-Of-A-Relationship.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88874","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=88874"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88874\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98040"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=88874"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=88874"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=88874"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}