{"id":88894,"date":"2020-09-08T07:28:49","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T07:28:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=88894"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:58:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:58:21","slug":"o-homem-nao-consegue-decidir-entre-ti-e-outra-pessoa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-homem-nao-consegue-decidir-entre-ti-e-outra-pessoa\/","title":{"rendered":"Se um homem n\u00e3o consegue decidir-se entre si e outra pessoa, deixe-o escolh\u00ea-la"},"content":{"rendered":"

Infelizmente, no mundo atual dos encontros, quando se come\u00e7a a namorar com algu\u00e9m novo, n\u00e3o \u00e9 raro n\u00e3o se saber qual \u00e9 a nossa posi\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Est\u00e3o apenas a sair um com o outro? Est\u00e3o numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o? S\u00e3o exclusivos?<\/p>\n

Espera-se que seja fiel? Ou est\u00e3o numa esp\u00e9cie de rela\u00e7\u00e3o aberta?<\/p>\n

Eu sei que isto soa bastante mal, mas infelizmente \u00e9 assim que as coisas funcionam. Na verdade, \u00e9 assim que as coisas funcionam se concordar com estes termos.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not a smart-ass who\u2019s come to tell you what you should do with your life. However, I will ask you to always keep your dignity.<\/p>\n

I am here to beg you never to allow yourself to be one of a man\u2019s choices. No, being his primeira escolha<\/a><\/span> isn\u2019t enough \u2013 you have to be his one and only choice.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No, I\u2019m not saying you two have to necessarily be in a committed, serious relationship right from the start. Nevertheless, him testing his chances with other girls besides you is not acceptable either.<\/p>\n

You know, guys often do this on purpose. He makes sure you know he\u2019s dating other women simultaneously, convinced that this makes him a big stud.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

He wants you to see that he\u2019s a catch and you have strong competition.<\/p>\n

Por conseguinte, deve lutar pelo seu amor<\/a> e aten\u00e7\u00e3o, como se ele fosse uma esp\u00e9cie de trof\u00e9u ou pr\u00e9mio que se deve tentar ganhar.<\/p>\n

Felizmente para este tipo de homem, muitas raparigas participam nestes concursos. Elas v\u00eaem-se como perdedoras se desistirem e deixarem o objeto do seu interesse para outra rapariga.<\/p>\n

Por isso, lutam. V\u00eaem esta outra rapariga como a sua arqui-inimiga e est\u00e3o dispostas a fazer tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para a derrotar.<\/p>\n

Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos uma coisa. A \u00fanica forma de sair vencedor deste cen\u00e1rio \u00e9 abandonar imediatamente o combate.<\/strong><\/p>\n

No, giving up on him doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019ve lost. It means that you\u2019ve retreated gracefully.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t make you weak, scared he\u2019ll choose this other girl over you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a sign that you\u2019re a mulher que sabe o seu valor<\/a>. A woman who isn\u2019t willing to fight for a man who\u2019s not sure about her and not mature enough to make up his mind.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Letting your man pick another girl over you is a sign that you value your dignity over all else. It means that you haven\u2019t fallen into his trap and aren\u2019t prepared to feed his ego.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Besides, trust me when I tell you that you doing this will hurt him more than anything. He won\u2019t be able to stand that you\u2019re the one who gave up on him.<\/p>\n

Mesmo que ele pense que est\u00e1 em posi\u00e7\u00e3o de escolher, voc\u00ea tomou a decis\u00e3o por ele. Foi voc\u00ea que escolheu em vez dele e que optou por se afastar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Take yourself out of the running in time and show him that you\u2019re above all possible competition. The role of his girlfriend is not the jackpot and it\u2019s about time he realizes that.<\/p>\n

Mais uma coisa: Please don\u2019t hate on this other girl<\/strong>. Don\u2019t look for her flaws or compete with her, even if the competition is going on inside of your head.<\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t here to take your man away from you. Even if you let him be hers, she actually did you a favor and saved you a lot of misery.<\/p>\n

After all, she is probably in the same situation as you are. Both of you are his victims \u2013 puppets in his hands.<\/p>\n

De facto, ele \u00e9 o \u00fanico culpado. \u00c9 ele que est\u00e1 a tentar equilibrar e fazer malabarismos com voc\u00eas os dois.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He is the one hurting both of you and playing with your hearts and minds. And it\u2019s your job to not let him do that. At least, not on your watch!<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Sadly, in today\u2019s dating world, when you start dating someone new, it\u2019s not uncommon for you not to know where you stand. Are you two just seeing each other? Are you in a relationship? Are you exclusive? Is being faithful expected? Or are you in some kind of an open relationship? I know this sounds…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":98046,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88894","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/If-A-Man-Cant-Decide-Between-You-And-Someone-Else-Let-Him-Pick-Her.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88894","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=88894"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88894\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163624,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/88894\/revisions\/163624"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98046"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=88894"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=88894"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=88894"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}