{"id":8902,"date":"2020-04-22T09:55:58","date_gmt":"2020-04-22T09:55:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=8902"},"modified":"2021-10-11T12:44:41","modified_gmt":"2021-10-11T12:44:41","slug":"a-mente-da-rapariga-narcisista-quebrada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-mente-da-rapariga-narcisista-quebrada\/","title":{"rendered":"O interior da mente da rapariga quebrada por um narcisista"},"content":{"rendered":"

O problema da queda apaixonada por um narcisista<\/a> is that you never know he\u2019s a narcissist until it\u2019s too late. Until you\u2019re already broken.<\/p>\n

Another problem with falling in love is the fact that you can\u2019t stop yourself from it. Once that avalanche is launched, you can only sit tight until it stops on its own.<\/p>\n

Even if the girl who got broken by a narcissist wanted to stop herself\u2014she couldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Como os narcisistas s\u00e3o t\u00e3o bons a disfar\u00e7ar, ela n\u00e3o fazia ideia no que se estava a meter.<\/p>\n

If she did, even though she wasn\u2019t able to stop herself from falling for him, she could at least have stopped herself from giving him a chance.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

She would\u2019ve stopped herself from giving him a chance and welcoming him into her life.<\/p>\n

But, unfortunately, she had no idea she was getting herself into the game with a player she couldn\u2019t outplay.<\/p>\n

Ela foi v\u00edtima do jogo que inconscientemente come\u00e7ou a jogar com um narcisista. E agora, muito depois de tudo ter terminado, ela ainda vive as consequ\u00eancias dele.<\/p>\n

Inside her mind is a mess. It\u2019s worse than in the haunted house because she never knows which horrible memory will come to the surface to haunt her.<\/p>\n

Ela v\u00ea o seu atormentador em todo o lado.<\/strong> She isn\u2019t paranoid, but this is the part you can\u2019t wrap your mind around if you have never been hurt by a narcissist.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Para onde quer que olhe, h\u00e1 algo que a faz lembrar dele. Sempre que algu\u00e9m novo se aproxima dela, ela procura nessa pessoa os tra\u00e7os do seu algoz.<\/p>\n

E ela foge. N\u00e3o tem for\u00e7as para ficar e provar que est\u00e1 errada. She’d rather guard her heart.<\/a><\/p>\n

Ela tem medo de confiar em algu\u00e9m.<\/strong> She\u2019d rather not give anyone the benefit of the doubt. That\u2019s something that almost killed her last time.<\/p>\n

If she had been careful to whom she gave her trust before, she wouldn\u2019t feel the way she feels now.<\/p>\n

She just can\u2019t make herself trust anyone.<\/p>\n

Porque cada vez que algu\u00e9m se aproxima demasiado, cada vez que algu\u00e9m fica a um passo do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, este come\u00e7a a bater muito depressa, as suas m\u00e3os come\u00e7am a tremer com a ideia de acolher algu\u00e9m novo na sua vida e ela recua.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ela tem medo de voltar a amar.<\/strong> Talvez ela visse o amor como algo hipnotizante e talvez, em tempos, amar e ser amada fosse o seu objetivo final na vida.<\/p>\n

Mas agora j\u00e1 n\u00e3o. Porque agora, na sua mente, o amor \u00e9 um sentimento associado \u00e0 dor.<\/p>\n

When she loved the last time, she didn\u2019t get love in return, she only got insults, constant bringing downs and plenty of emotional beatings.<\/p>\n

She forgot how real love feels. The man whom she loved should\u2019ve shown her what love feels like, but he chose to turn into a narcissist and break her instead.<\/p>\n

She thinks she isn\u2019t good enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When you don\u2019t get the love you deserve, when you don\u2019t get the time or appreciation of the one person you need it from the most, this idea that you aren\u2019t good enough gets seeded in your head pretty deep.<\/p>\n

Not only this, but she was constantly told how she isn\u2019t good enough, how it\u2019s all her fault and how everything bad that happened to her – she asked for it.<\/p>\n

She had it coming. So she simply can\u2019t shake this feeling she isn\u2019t good enough.<\/p>\n

Ela sente-se vazia.<\/strong> Ela n\u00e3o faz ideia do que fazer a seguir. N\u00e3o faz ideia do que est\u00e1 a sentir.<\/p>\n

The only feeling familiar to her is fear. She is scared of feeling anything so she chose to feel nothing instead. It\u2019s much easier and even though it might be lonely, it\u2019s much safer.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ela anseia pela solid\u00e3o.<\/strong> She doesn\u2019t want to explain herself to others. <\/a>She doesn\u2019t want to retell or recall of all the bad things that happened to her because no one can wrap their mind around it anyway.<\/p>\n

They blame her for staying and not leaving. They can\u2019t understand why she feels the way she feels for this long and how she can\u2019t just snap out of it. So she isolates herself.<\/p>\n

But even though loneliness is the only escape she has from people, it’s also very scary.<\/p>\n

Because when she stays alone all the things that happened to her come at her in waves. And she can\u2019t decide which of these two evils is the lesser evil.\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ela acha que perdeu o seu antigo eu.<\/strong> Ela desistiu de tentar ser como costumava ser, antes de acolher um narcisista no seu mundo.<\/p>\n

She thinks she\u2019ll never smile again, she\u2019ll never be able to truly be happy and that this, what happened to her, will be something that will follow her till the rest of her life.<\/p>\n

But nothing of this needs to stay like this. She doesn\u2019t need to think badly of herself.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t need to say goodbye to her life or the way she used to be. She needs someone who\u2019ll remind her how living the fullest feels.<\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t a lost cause. None of us broken by narcissist are.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

She needs someone who\u2019ll show her that she didn\u2019t lose herself.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She needs someone who\u2019ll show her that her tormentor didn\u2019t get the best of her. That even though she might be broken, she isn\u2019t bent.<\/p>\n

Ela precisa de algu\u00e9m que lhe mostre que ainda tem um cora\u00e7\u00e3o e uma alma dentro de si.<\/strong> Que ela possa sentir. Esse amor ainda est\u00e1 nela.<\/a> That she isn\u2019t a lost cause.<\/p>\n

She needs someone who\u2019ll be good to her, who\u2019ll show her that even though she had a dark past, she can still have a bright future.<\/p>\n

She needs someone who\u2019ll be everything that her narcissist wasn\u2019t.<\/strong> She needs someone who\u2019ll treat her as a priority. Someone who won\u2019t make her feel like the crazy one.\"casal<\/p>\n

She needs someone who\u2019ll understand her. Someone who\u2019ll be there when she needs him. She needs someone who’ll care for her and love her for a change.<\/p>\n

She needs someone who\u2019ll erase her past<\/strong>. Even if this seems impossible, she needs someone who\u2019ll try.<\/p>\n

Someone who\u2019ll love her as if she was never broken, who\u2019ll look at her as if she has no flaws, who\u2019ll choose to love her despite all her imperfections and whose love and support will be so strong that it will make her defy her fear of letting anyone get close to her again.<\/p>\n

So, chose to love her the right way. Don\u2019t be another downfall for her. Put your actions where your mouth are.<\/p>\n

Todas as raparigas merecem ser amadas da forma correcta. Especialmente a que foi quebrada por um narcisista.<\/p>\n

\"O<\/p>\n

\"O<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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